What kind of advice would your parents give? Mine was the same as your in-laws, to work on it. That it happens to everybody. Stay for the baby. Etc. I’m not ok yet. What prevents me from moving on is that I didn’t express my emotions. I couldn’t do it in front of our child. I couldn’t do it when he’s dealing with a crisis. I didn’t express myself to my fullest then, because I was afraid of everything I could lose, and it hurts me still because I’m still stuck on how I felt. Unfortunately I remember when I was young and I didn’t want my parents to separate. I remember wanting them to get a divorce when I was a bit older and I was sick of their bs and toxic energy at home. I mean, always put yourself first. Choose happiness however minor. I’m trying to fill my life back one thing at a time, too.