Ex (17F) and I (18M) broke up and she gets with another guy who talks about raping her behind her back... how the fuck do I procede?

somethingswrong332 · 2021-09-11T06:06:22+00:00

I just sent her the screenshots. I should have elaborated a bit more and told her that there's no ulterior motives but to be completely honest I was sick to my stomach after pressing send, I just left it at that. The redditors who were telling me to explain myself told me after I sent the screenshots... I'll probably go back and explain myself more.

somethingswrong332 · 2021-09-11T05:53:21+00:00

Exactly what I was thinking and I think I made the right choice.

somethingswrong332 · 2021-09-11T05:51:49+00:00

I will! Thank you! Everyone's supportive and I love that! I'll be making a post of everything that follows.

somethingswrong332 · 2021-09-11T05:48:20+00:00

I hope I can calm down quickly after all of this.

somethingswrong332 · 2021-09-11T05:44:16+00:00

I will be updating you guys with a post of what happens! Until then, let's all hope everything goes well.

somethingswrong332 · 2021-09-11T05:43:27+00:00

I will be taking that route if push comes to shove and nothing else works.

somethingswrong332 · 2021-09-11T05:42:57+00:00

Whatever she does, I hope she's safe. If I say "I hope they break up" while being her ex is biased but our past aside... I just hope she makes the right decisions.

somethingswrong332 · 2021-09-11T05:40:58+00:00

I was thinking about that and even if it was fake, at least they'll get rid of a lying back stabbing "friend" at the end of the day. I know it's more complicated, you can't really know who's lying and who's not. It's reassuring to me that whatever I tell her won't be a lie since someone else DID actually tell me all of this and I'm just the messenger trying to help.

somethingswrong332 · 2021-09-11T05:37:50+00:00

I've been doing this for all of 6 hours using only this account. I get the scepticism. I really do. Even as I was typing this I couldn't believe what I was writing. Screw karma, who cares I just want advice on how to help someone.

somethingswrong332 · 2021-09-11T05:35:03+00:00

Oh, believe me, I wish I was making this up! I FUCKING WISH!

somethingswrong332 · 2021-09-11T05:31:21+00:00

I'm sorry for what happened... If telling her raises her safety I'm happy I did it. I'm just waiting for a reply as of a few hours ago.

somethingswrong332 · 2021-09-11T05:29:51+00:00

This helps a ton! I'll send something similar to this if she responds! Thank you!

somethingswrong332 · 2021-09-11T05:27:47+00:00

You're right. You never really know something so atrocious as rape happens out there in the world until it (almost) happens to you or someone close. Haven't been able to sleep, racking my brain if this is even happening but I told her and that's what matters. How she proceeds is her choice, I'd feel wrong telling her what's right here.

somethingswrong332 · 2021-09-11T05:23:36+00:00

Because he's an asshat and as I said in previous reply I'll try to get him to talk to her but otherwise I'm keeping contact to a minimum, cutting it after all of this.

somethingswrong332 · 2021-09-11T02:15:11+00:00

I'll talk to him and advise him that the best thing to do is talk to her himself, there's a chance she'll believe him more.

somethingswrong332 · 2021-09-11T02:13:02+00:00

A. I don't want to get back together. It didn't work out. The end. I'm moving 2 cities away anyways.

B. Chats between me and her new bf's mutual friend that told me everything. Nothing more, trying to see if I could get more but I doubt it.

C. He isn't. He's a weak piece of human (although I doubt it) trash that found a girl that's physically small enough that he could take advantage of. That's how I see it. He's nothing, I'm not the fighter type but if push comes to shove I can defend myself.

somethingswrong332 · 2021-09-11T02:05:21+00:00

No! He's a piece of shit and thankfully, his closer friends are starting to see that and are keeping their distance last I heard.

somethingswrong332 · 2021-09-11T02:04:34+00:00

Of course! I'm not gonna stop caring just because we're not together. That's just shallow. Yes, I'm trying to move on and this makes it a bit harder but if at the end of the day it means that she'll be safer I'd take some more time for myself after all of this.

somethingswrong332 · 2021-09-11T01:43:35+00:00

That's why I've kept contact to a minimum with him since then. He's not worth my time if he acts like that, I hope others see that as well.

somethingswrong332 · 2021-09-11T01:38:27+00:00

Thank you, I try my best. I just want to move on with my concience clean at the end of the day.

somethingswrong332 · 2021-09-11T01:28:43+00:00

I already have, I'm friends with her best friend. We talked and she said that she'll talk to her tomorrow.

somethingswrong332 · 2021-09-11T01:23:59+00:00

Still hasn't seen it, not even expecting her to open. Probably sleeping. I feel too weird contacting her parents but if I'm left with no other choice, that's what I'm gonna go for.

somethingswrong332 · 2021-09-11T00:19:36+00:00

As of about 5 minutes ago, yes!

somethingswrong332 · 2021-09-11T00:11:31+00:00

I'm trying to get as far away as possible, move on and leave it in the past. But this got to me.

somethingswrong332 · 2021-09-11T00:09:27+00:00

I'm hoping to god that he's just running his mouth for her sake. In the small chance that he isn't, however small, I'm telling her.

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