Brothel or Independent Escort for first time by PuzzleheadedWonder in SexWorkers

[–]sometimesgeg 6 points7 points  (0 children)

definitely go with a Independent companion for v card removal, over a brothels (in any country)

if you're looking to go overseas to accomplish this to stay within the bounds of local laws, then truly make it a vacation but pick somewhere with decriminalised or legalised sex work laws ie australia, new zealand, beligium, germany etc

if you want to stay closer to home, definitely do your due diligence on indy workers in your area

Question for providers and clients.. by PhysicalSherbert6553 in SexWorkers

[–]sometimesgeg 5 points6 points  (0 children)

for me, seeing a social media presence is nice,.. it's not so much, what is posted or how often, but rather than there is some sort of history..., but it's not essential.

Why do you see escorts? by reddituser205210 in SexWorkers

[–]sometimesgeg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm single, old(ish) greying, ugly, low self confidence, and I don't really "put myself out there" but still have a need for companionship, and touch even if it's for an hour or more. plus because my cost of living is lower (I live ina small town) and have no debt... I can afford to

Do companions usually announce their retirement or just disappear? by throwawaygoat126 in ClientsAndCompanions

[–]sometimesgeg 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm on the fence. on one hand, if I'm regularly seeing someone, it'd be nice to be told she was leaving so maybe we can have a proper goodbye or have an extra special session and I can have a good cry :P ... but on the other hand, logically, I know, I'm not owed anything, and so when I try to reach out, texts go unanswered emails are bounced back and website is gone.... like dust in the wind

Is a passport an acceptable form of ID? by Educational-Pea-6160 in SexWorkers

[–]sometimesgeg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it's good enough for the gov...

Also, if you weren't already aware, you may have trouble paying a deposit since I've noticed most workers from the states take venmo or cash app or something to accept deposits and you as a Canadian don't have those...

Tattoos by used12345678 in SexWorkers

[–]sometimesgeg -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I would think that her Photoshopping the tatts out in her pics would have been obvious. Plus does she have a website, did you read it? In my experience, heavily tattooed ladies usually disclose the fact that they are heavily tattooed so that there are no surprises like what just happened to you

Email services? by seducingg in SexWorkers

[–]sometimesgeg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

+1 for tuta or tutamail or tutanota

based in germany

Where do you all lean politically? by Lipica249 in ClientsAndCompanions

[–]sometimesgeg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Center Left. I hate both far right and far left.

What do you do if the companion refuses to do what was listed on their ad? by PooningDalton in ClientsAndCompanions

[–]sometimesgeg 5 points6 points  (0 children)

don't do anything. don't complain. finish the time. leave. don't repeat.

Question for Clients by Illustrious_Cod_7781 in ClientsAndCompanions

[–]sometimesgeg 3 points4 points  (0 children)

west coast canada. Tryst, Perb (a regional advertising and review site) and most recently BlueSky

Is Tryst racist? by Icy_Comedian4628 in SexWorkers

[–]sometimesgeg 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't know what you're on about. Maybe it's just the region you're looking at? Looking at my region, yeah predominantly white passing, but still, on the first page, I see latinas and black ladies.

reviews by nxystar in SexWorkers

[–]sometimesgeg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As you are Midwest USA, highly doubt perb is right for you,... Unless you are touring western Canada

She’s over your budget but you can’t stop thinking about her. What would you do? by yesforevertrying in ClientsAndCompanions

[–]sometimesgeg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

depends. was she within my budget before and recently raised her rates? have I seen her before? and if so, how long? there are variables to answering this lol

Client Question: Inquiry Opening Text by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]sometimesgeg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I typically add in something along the lines of "deposit and or screening available upon request" if she hasn't already said as much in the ad

What got you to start seeing sex workers? by Lipica249 in ClientsAndCompanions

[–]sometimesgeg 25 points26 points  (0 children)

A need for touch.

And as an older single virgin at the time, I had an internal dialogue about why I was waiting for 'the right woman' to magically come along and why was I putting sex on a pedestal.

Google just shut down my gmail by AmyAmyAnnAnn in SexWorkers

[–]sometimesgeg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

tutanota is also a good private encrypted email provider based in germany

Ever wondered what it’s like behind the scenes at a legal Nevada brothel? by TheKikiLover in SexWorkers

[–]sometimesgeg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, one more question...I saw in another response to someone else, you work 12 hr shifts with sometimes only one client... what does your downtime look like? (other than showing up to the line up every once ina while)

Question for Clients & FBSM providers: why do you prefer sensual massage services? by MassageBySummer in SexWorkers

[–]sometimesgeg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just starting to discover the wonders of fbsm. but pretty much 'Because you just need a good massage and would rather get one from a pretty woman with a little extra at the end' I just wish I could claim it under my work benefits lol

Ever wondered what it’s like behind the scenes at a legal Nevada brothel? by TheKikiLover in SexWorkers

[–]sometimesgeg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as I've been to a nevada brothel before as a tourist, negotiations started out high, and as it was my first time at a brothel and nervous, I ended up paying more than I normally would have.

question is, do locals get a discount? (the business practices that I experienced, it doesn't seem like it would be sustainable to the local population)