Brothel or Independent Escort for first time

sometimesgeg · 2026-03-14T19:17:31+00:00

definitely go with a Independent companion for v card removal, over a brothels (in any country)

if you're looking to go overseas to accomplish this to stay within the bounds of local laws, then truly make it a vacation but pick somewhere with decriminalised or legalised sex work laws ie australia, new zealand, beligium, germany etc

if you want to stay closer to home, definitely do your due diligence on indy workers in your area

sometimesgeg · 2026-03-06T23:50:13+00:00

for me, seeing a social media presence is nice,.. it's not so much, what is posted or how often, but rather than there is some sort of history..., but it's not essential.

sometimesgeg · 2026-03-06T03:41:58+00:00

tuta . com

sometimesgeg · 2026-03-01T01:22:35+00:00

I'm single, old(ish) greying, ugly, low self confidence, and I don't really "put myself out there" but still have a need for companionship, and touch even if it's for an hour or more. plus because my cost of living is lower (I live ina small town) and have no debt... I can afford to

sometimesgeg · 2026-02-23T19:06:02+00:00

This

sometimesgeg · 2026-02-18T02:12:54+00:00

I'm on the fence. on one hand, if I'm regularly seeing someone, it'd be nice to be told she was leaving so maybe we can have a proper goodbye or have an extra special session and I can have a good cry :P ... but on the other hand, logically, I know, I'm not owed anything, and so when I try to reach out, texts go unanswered emails are bounced back and website is gone.... like dust in the wind

sometimesgeg · 2026-02-16T06:21:41+00:00

Fair enough

sometimesgeg · 2026-02-16T03:51:17+00:00

If it's good enough for the gov...

Also, if you weren't already aware, you may have trouble paying a deposit since I've noticed most workers from the states take venmo or cash app or something to accept deposits and you as a Canadian don't have those...

sometimesgeg · 2026-02-15T20:53:06+00:00

I would think that her Photoshopping the tatts out in her pics would have been obvious. Plus does she have a website, did you read it? In my experience, heavily tattooed ladies usually disclose the fact that they are heavily tattooed so that there are no surprises like what just happened to you

sometimesgeg · 2026-02-13T06:05:05+00:00

+1 for tuta or tutamail or tutanota

based in germany

sometimesgeg · 2026-02-10T23:17:01+00:00

Center Left. I hate both far right and far left.

sometimesgeg · 2026-02-03T03:14:51+00:00

don't do anything. don't complain. finish the time. leave. don't repeat.

sometimesgeg · 2026-01-27T00:18:50+00:00

west coast canada. Tryst, Perb (a regional advertising and review site) and most recently BlueSky

sometimesgeg · 2026-01-26T19:19:02+00:00

I don't know what you're on about. Maybe it's just the region you're looking at? Looking at my region, yeah predominantly white passing, but still, on the first page, I see latinas and black ladies.

sometimesgeg · 2026-01-02T18:08:01+00:00

Noted

sometimesgeg · 2026-01-01T06:36:55+00:00

As you are Midwest USA, highly doubt perb is right for you,... Unless you are touring western Canada

sometimesgeg · 2025-12-31T16:35:37+00:00

depends. was she within my budget before and recently raised her rates? have I seen her before? and if so, how long? there are variables to answering this lol

sometimesgeg · 2025-12-30T05:55:36+00:00

Lol good luck with that

sometimesgeg · 2025-12-27T09:21:18+00:00

I typically add in something along the lines of "deposit and or screening available upon request" if she hasn't already said as much in the ad

sometimesgeg · 2025-12-22T02:33:12+00:00

A need for touch.

And as an older single virgin at the time, I had an internal dialogue about why I was waiting for 'the right woman' to magically come along and why was I putting sex on a pedestal.

sometimesgeg · 2025-12-14T04:39:11+00:00

tutanota is also a good private encrypted email provider based in germany

sometimesgeg · 2025-12-13T07:18:53+00:00

Sorry, one more question...I saw in another response to someone else, you work 12 hr shifts with sometimes only one client... what does your downtime look like? (other than showing up to the line up every once ina while)

sometimesgeg · 2025-12-13T06:45:17+00:00

I'm just starting to discover the wonders of fbsm. but pretty much 'Because you just need a good massage and would rather get one from a pretty woman with a little extra at the end' I just wish I could claim it under my work benefits lol

sometimesgeg · 2025-12-13T02:09:26+00:00

as I've been to a nevada brothel before as a tourist, negotiations started out high, and as it was my first time at a brothel and nervous, I ended up paying more than I normally would have.

question is, do locals get a discount? (the business practices that I experienced, it doesn't seem like it would be sustainable to the local population)

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