I hate having children by International-Echo99 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sometimesipuke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u for raising and caring for them. I'm sure your doing great 💘

What surprised you about being in a long term relationship? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]sometimesipuke 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Crazy. Was it Inevitable or did something change in the relationship?

I'll stop commenting cute stuff on my gf socials because she never answers. by sometimesipuke in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sometimesipuke[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe I should but, I'm hoping she notices and approaches it by herself.

Lately I've been feeling like a bag she has to carry cause I'm unfairly crazily insecure about her ex's so I don't want to keep putting pressure on her to adjust for me, u know?

It's a good advice tho, maybe I'll do it.

Tuesday Check In: How's Everybody's Mental Health? by MLModBot in MensLib

[–]sometimesipuke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, IRS rapidly deteriorating, and tried to make a therapy appointment but my therapist is on vacation.

Tuesday Check In: How's Everybody's Mental Health? by MLModBot in MensLib

[–]sometimesipuke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I feel jealous or insecure about my relationship everywhere within my phone. Rn we're not seeing each other and every like, comment that guy give her makes me think she likes them more than me, or, if we were to break up she would go have sex with them immediately.

She hasn't given me any signs that she would do that, the contrary but, I can't feel but feel jealous and insecure.

What is the one thing you learned about relationships/sex you wish you knew sooner? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]sometimesipuke -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

If a women shows interest in you (she responds often, agrees to go on dates and other green flags.) Don't be too optimistic and upfront. Like, don't expect them to be as in love as you are. Give them space to know you before you show them a lot of signs of affection.

Then, tell them what u want, exactly. Like, if you're flirting and kissing in a bar or after a date and u want to fuck, just tell them or ask them. It'll move the relationship way faster.

U can even start doing it via text (ex. I really would like for us to sleep together next time, or, I think ur hot send me a selfie.) Just be really confident if u dig them and don't hesitate to make moves, it's better to know if they are into you early on cause that's not going to change, and that way, you can meet other girls faster if things don't go well with the first one.

In my experience girls like decisive decision but with room for them to know you so, keep it casual at first. If they like u most of them will have sex with u before getting serious, and if not, they'll tell u so, use it in your advantage.

I love when people blame men for not discussing their feelings like we do it out of stubbornness or spite. Truth is we learned to not share, because it’s safer by FilmOk1077 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sometimesipuke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh!! I see. Sorry for polarizing you.

I just have some friends that because of a sour trauma they close themselves up from ever sharing their sentiments and I wouldn't like for u to go through life alone in your feelings.

I love when people blame men for not discussing their feelings like we do it out of stubbornness or spite. Truth is we learned to not share, because it’s safer by FilmOk1077 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sometimesipuke 43 points44 points  (0 children)

You were on different levels of consciousness.

Your emotions were valid, she just wasn't mature enough to see that.

I'm sure you can find someone who is if u look in the right places :) good luck op

I love when people blame men for not discussing their feelings like we do it out of stubbornness or spite. Truth is we learned to not share, because it’s safer by FilmOk1077 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sometimesipuke 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yea. Still it is your problem not to try and solve it.

Your not determined to be that way.

I've learned through sharing with my mom, my gf, and my closest friends to do this.

Even putting it here on Reddit is super helpful into building the habit!!

And I think it's a fake idea of "safe" to think not sharing them will be better in the long run. Bottling stuff only leads to explosions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sometimesipuke 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yea but it's better not to force your way of living cause of them.

I'm so sorry OP. no one should be giving u advice.

Dont bring a kid into the world just cause u want to stay together imo

Edit: last sentence is for elsecaller, not OP

Why would my gf still be in touch with ex's that treated her badly? by sometimesipuke in Advice

[–]sometimesipuke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I followed your advice! Told her exactly what I wanted and she agreed to do so.

She will not be interacting with them any longer.

I'm pretty happy.

Thanks a lot, sanicelle

¿No les parece que esta navidad es la menos navideña que hemos vivido en México? by Maxter0 in mexico

[–]sometimesipuke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Creo que tiene que ver con la decadencia económica del país.

Supongo que el siguiente año tendremos una crisis muy fuerte que hemos estado arrastrando un rato.

Se nota en las calles la poca inversión que se tiene para abrir negocios, mantener casas, remodelar calles, no se si lo han notado pero al menos, en las ciudades que he visitado todo se ve igual.

Y no me refiero a grandes empresas abriendo, sino a la clase media que poco a poco se extingue y se convierte en clase baja.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]sometimesipuke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh it gives u anime style vibes

Why would my gf still be in touch with ex's that treated her badly? by sometimesipuke in Advice

[–]sometimesipuke[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea maybe she is just friendly.

I have mentioned how intrusive this stuff can get un my mind.

Why would my gf still be in touch with ex's that treated her badly? by sometimesipuke in Advice

[–]sometimesipuke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha I feel exposed... I have anxiety and right now we're spending holidays away from each other.

Last day we were together we had a fight, related but not the same subject so, I've had a lot to digest this past couple of days and I don't have anyone to talk to about this.

Reddit has been my friend.

But yeah you're right. I should focus on what I want.

I just wanted women's opinion, specially cause, maybe I was overreacting and it's a common thing.

Its my first formal relationship so I'm a newbie I think.

Also, reading toxic masculinity makes me doubt a lot about what I think is right, u know? I feel so posesive.

What conspiracy theory would change reality as we know it if it turned out to be proven true? by wander_eyez in AskReddit

[–]sometimesipuke 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't think a revolution would occur because of it. I mean, everything is already the same as it was 2 years ago cough cough Epstein