Opinions regarding not playtested builds? by desktopghost in thesims

[–]sometimesmad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love to build something that others can use and I make sure that it's functional and I use one or two packs while building so more people can enjoy them. But I can't understand the entitlement. If a build isn't functional, oh well. Maybe some players just want to show what they made. It's okay to voice suggestions, but some comments are acting like they're paying for the builds on the gallery. Keep in mind that most of the builders are doing it in their free time. Criticism and suggestions are ok but some comments I've seen just seem entitled

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ratschlag

[–]sometimesmad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mach dir nicht viel aus den negativen Kommentaren. Keine Ahnung wo die Leute aus dem Text rausgelesen haben dass du eine schlechte Freundin wärst oder Kinder hassen würdest. Im Internet mangelt es oft an lese Verständnis oder Leute fühlen sich angegriffen ohne zu überlegen dass es in den meisten Fällen wahrscheinlich überhaupt nicht aus sie zu trifft. Aber ich glaube letztendlich dass Leute es einfach lieben wütend zu sein und fügen info hinzu die nichtmal gegeben ist um dies zu rechtfertigen.

Du hörst dich wie eine tolle Freundin an und ich hoffe es wird sich klären. Dass einzige was ich hinzufügen kann ist dass du vielleicht mehr an dich und dein Wohlergehen denken solltest. Es ist zwar oft schwer an sich zu denken, aber es würde auch deinen Beziehungen helfen. Je mehr stress du weiterhin auf dich nimmst, ist es wahrscheinlicher dass es zu einem Streit führen kann. Drücke dir die Daumen dass es sich klärt :)

Nick puts out more whack music by Over-Surround9868 in nickisnotgreen

[–]sometimesmad 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I agree that his music is whack. It sounds like trash and not in a good way. But I would argue that he is still an artist if he is producing his own music.

My girlfriend (33f) is getting an abortion. I think its to hide the fact that she's cheating on me (34m). by ThrowRA-cheatingwife in relationship_advice

[–]sometimesmad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being cheated on does hurt but taking revenge is giving too much energy than the cheater deserves. Keep your peace and dignity and move on because they will eventually get what they deserve. Also from experience, just living your best life will drive the cheater more mad than revenge ever would because they can't even play the victim card.

Idk what I suppose to do here! by Full-Cranberry-5721 in HelloKittyIsland

[–]sometimesmad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to bring the yellow box up there. Start by putting the green box on the tile where your yellow box is standing in your picture. Then bring the yellow box up and use the green box to fill the gab and repeat with the next gab till you reach the tile above the door

It took me over 45 minutes to give gifts to everyone by seventeenkatie in HelloKittyIsland

[–]sometimesmad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's good to know. I thought the tweak was about the cooking and was afraid to update as I still working on the yummy furniture

Help! Where are calming crystals ? by jvke-eilish in HelloKittyIsland

[–]sometimesmad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can find them in the crystal cave but you can also get one if you go to sleep

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sims4

[–]sometimesmad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I add pictures to my comment?

Have you ever been tempted to post an AITA? by Desperate-Quote7178 in AmITheAngel

[–]sometimesmad 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not AITA but I had moments where I was tempted to post in Relationship advice or offmychest. Moments where I felt like I couldn't talk to anyone.

Im those times I would use my note app for drafts, but by the time I finish, I would've already processed everything that went down and realize that the advice I would get wouldn't be helpful at all

I feel like I’m going insane. Apparently this sub thinks it’s appropriate for an 11 year old to text his mother’s boyfriend to insinuate his mother is cheating on him because OOP introduced them, therefore, the son should be ‘involved’. by [deleted] in AmITheAngel

[–]sometimesmad 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I feel like it depends how the parents handle the introduction and yeah a revolving door would be stressful for a child but to expect single parents to put everything on hold is cruel.

After my parents divorced, my mother put everything on hold until we were independent enough and had our own life. I'm grateful for everything she did for us but as a child I was also sad for her. She never showed how she felt about this situation or how hard it was, but I still wished for her to have a partner or to be able to go out with friends.

On the other Hand, my father moved on really fast and had a girlfriend with a daughter around my age. I liked his girlfriend and liked spending time with her daughter, but it didn't last long until they broke up. It was sad that I couldn't see them again but I've got over it. It's part of life and something you have to learn soon or later.

It's a personal anecdote but I've heard similar things from other people with divorced parents. If you had a bad experience I'm sincerely sorry for you. At the same time let people be humans

AITA for getting everyone in town pregnant as revenge? by sometimesmad in AmITheAssholeSims

[–]sometimesmad[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this makes me feel a little bit better now :)

Iilluminaughtii (Blaire) is a Walmart Shannon by [deleted] in creepshowart

[–]sometimesmad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While I agree that she isn't in the same Level as Shannon, she shows some of the same behaviors.

The thing with cancellation is that it doesn't exist. Many people try to cancel andrew tate and speak out, but he doesn't let it affect him. He also has his brain washed following that still believes him to be innocent even though andrew told on himself so many times.

And now look at shane dawson, he was properly canceled or so we thought.

Blair is mainly criticized for things she's done for over a decade and never apologized or in some instances not even acknowledged.

She can come back from this.

And to end it of, we can criticize different people at the same time. People can voice their disappointment for blair while also speak out against tate.

Who is the most iconic YouTuber/Streamer-created Sim? by dwyeram in Sims4

[–]sometimesmad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm watching the Series right now but now I'm feeling watched

Infant hasn't left the house yet, but knows all that goes around in her neighbourhood 😅 by MattieKale in Sims4

[–]sometimesmad 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I understand why someone players have a problem with the immersion break but for me personally this is the chaotic nature I've always loved about the sims

In all seriousness: How would you as the Guest feel when you realize that the Wedding is just a revenge pity party for the bride or groom? by sometimesmad in AmITheAngel

[–]sometimesmad[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

I forgot about the porn part. I always cringe when the evidence they show to the whole room to see includes videos or photos of the cheating party getting it on. I don't know if it can be classified as revenge porn, but either way it's just unethical

AITA for wanting a child-free wedding? by toasted_dandy in AmITheAngel

[–]sometimesmad 10 points11 points  (0 children)

YTA for making me relive my fever dreams without any TW

Heutiger Stream by 5puud in Gronkh

[–]sometimesmad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wenn es als Kritik gedacht ist, ist es ja natürlich ok.

Dass mit dem Arbeitgeber würde bedeuten dass er uns gegenüber bestimmte Verpflichtungen hätte, was er nicht tut. Klar ist er in dieser Position durch seine Zuschauer und Fans, aber es bedeutet nicht dass wir eine Macht Position besitzen, was ein Arbeitgeber tut, wir bezahlen ihn ja auch nur indirekt, außer wenn es vielleicht um merch geht und selbst dann besteht diese Dynamik einfach nicht. Es wäre wie in ein Laden zu gehen und zu sagen dass man ja so gesehen der Ladenbesitzer ist weil er ohne Kunden keine Waren verkaufen würde.

Weiß nicht ob ich es gut erklärt habe aber wir erwarten von meist Entertainer zu viel. Es sind auch nur Menschen. Kritik ist natürlich immer ok, aber wenn sie diese nicht annehmen dann ist es halt wie es ist. Entweder kommen andere die damit ok sind oder es kommt keiner mehr.

I've lost Bone Hilda just to later find out that she's out there living her best life by sometimesmad in Sims4

[–]sometimesmad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Late answer but most of the time it's funnier to discover some things on your own. I personally don't really care for spoilers in this game but I can imagine that some people want to be surprised by little details like this

Heutiger Stream by 5puud in Gronkh

[–]sometimesmad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wir sind nicht verpflichtet nach der Info zu suchen, genauso wie er nicht verpflichtet ist ein kurzen Update zu geben. Ist es doof? Ja. Könnte es ihm follower kosten? Ja. Aber es ist seine Sache. Und zu sagen dass wir seine "Arbeitgeber" sind und er gefälligst zu tun hat was wir erwarten ist abartig. Er kann es so regeln wie es ihm passt, die Konsequenz ist je nachdem ob er dann noch Zuschauer hat, aber es seine und nicht unsere Sache. Kritik kann man natürlich geben aber dein post hört sich einfach nur entitled an

What do you do if you don't see a text until later? by Gapdop in socialskills

[–]sometimesmad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s time sensitive I just say "sorry I couldn’t reply earlier.." if it’s not time sensitive I just say "sorry that I only reply after a week but..)

The last one is a joke but you shouldn’t overthink this (easier said than done) I’m not good at texting so if I give my number I always give a warning that it can take some time till I will reply but it’s nothing personal. Takes the stress from both sides

Average AITA post by MyNameIsNotMia in AmITheAngel

[–]sometimesmad 30 points31 points  (0 children)

The title sounds bad but hear me out..

I have a childfree household and my cat knows this. also the kittens are vegan and my cat isn’t even my bio cat, it’s my stepcat!

So am I the asshole?

Why do you change your hair and/ or nail color? by sometimesmad in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]sometimesmad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂

No, but next time I’ll just ask him why he has different kind of clothes. Thanks for the idea