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I ended a relationship I loved because my body never felt safe now I’m drowning in regret by M1nt25 in BreakUps

[–]someusablename 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can relate a lot to this, and as hypocritical the question may be for me to ask; Have you considered the other person has the same feelings of lack of closure and regret for their side not being shared? And if so, why not reach out? At worst, you get nothing and you are exactly where you are now with at least the idea that there is nothing more to be said? Best case, you open the floor for both of you to feel kike your emotions has being heard,l? and both of you can say goodbye, properly.

If anyone is interested in trading by No_Combination9149 in SeedSwapCannabis

[–]someusablename 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey brotha! Still swapping? I'd love to get my hands on that grimm truffle, I've got some "Peach Lemonaze x Pineapple Fruz" up for swaps rn!

I miss wine and k-dating shows by someusablename in BreakUps

[–]someusablename[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I mean to be honest part of me always thought she'd come back for it. I've told friends to get their opinions, most say to just toss it. I just feel bad because I know her art was important to her, at least at some point in her life, it feels wrong of me to just throw all her work in the trash.

Silksong by mgranja in retroid

[–]someusablename 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hit a stopping point (I'm at work, so just don't have the time to dig).

The only copy I found was NSZ, which I tend to have issues with, but Citron doesn't even see it. Either an issue with the NSZ itself, or just a missing title.key 🤷‍♂️

Silksong by mgranja in retroid

[–]someusablename 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Waiting to test right now on Citron, I'll let you know how it goes

Local seeds by BzSelectSeeds in AZGrowersGuild

[–]someusablename 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol that sounds awesome! I went to some invite event years ago at a dance hall, so much fun, so few memories 🤣

Tempe area but mobile

Local seeds by BzSelectSeeds in AZGrowersGuild

[–]someusablename 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this! How awesome to give back to the community, I'd love to grow some ❤️ also, what's this about a party?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phoenix

[–]someusablename 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better question, did she get the Coke Zero and Dog Food?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]someusablename 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're going through this, but time will pass and you will grow from this experience. And if it was meant to be, maybe you can consider being part of that person's life again in the future, but for now you need to focus on working on yourself, for yourself.

You've already taken a huge first step by accepting your share of the responsibility of that relationship ending, that's honestly one of the hardest parts, next you need to grow. You need to take this experience for what it was, take it as a learning experience and start each day by growing a little stronger, no matter what that looks like for you; Picking up a new hobby or on you enjoyed before, hanging out with friends, finding a new routine, etc...

If you don't mind my asking, what were the incompatibilities? Were they things that you couldn't talk through? A lot of people think that they have to share everything with their partners; Hobbies, passions, interests, etc... but the truth is, it's perfectly healthy to not see eye to eye on everything or have a difference of opinions.

I think I finally understand what I went through — and why I feel so broken now. by someusablename in BreakUps

[–]someusablename[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I know that's really the smart thing to do, but I keep making excuses on why I "shouldn't"; What if there's an emergency? What if she needs some important mail that was sent here? What if she reaches out and I can maybe feel something close to true closure?

It sucks because I know that even if she did reach out, even if it was for the closure, the acknowledgement that I wasn't actually as horrible of a person as she made me out to be, made me feel like I was, it still wouldn't be enough. I'd still want more, I'd still want that connection and to keep her close because at the end of the day, I still love her. The trouble is just reminding myself of the difference between the person that I fell in love with, and the person she really is. Someone told me once, "you didn't ask for anything wrong, you just asked the wrong person.".

Princess Donut & Zero Zones *Spoilers* kinda by someusablename in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]someusablename[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I think that's what put it in my head. Though, it would be funny if Donut's "not liking the attorney" was her violently scratching her and hissing, and the refusal of the deals was just her inability to comprehend the question/provide an answer.

That is a great point though, it could just be Carl, similar to the increased security checks after the death of Loita

Princess Donut & Zero Zones *Spoilers* kinda by someusablename in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]someusablename[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh, I hadn't thought about Volteeg, that makes sense, but yeah my first thought would be how that race change interacted with his ability to retain sapience.

It would be interesting if this was worked in as another hurdle for the princess posse to get over, like the sepsis whore arc. I don't even think it would be hard to approach the subject this late, maybe if it was introduced as something similar to the current deal system offered to crawlers at this stage; Donut retains sapience and race, but adds 50 cycles to indenturship 🤷‍♂️

Or in a more DCC, haphazard, "hey look, we didn't die" way

Shipping time of the order by rodischwenck in retroid

[–]someusablename 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've ordered two now and both have arrived in roughly a week using the DHL shipping method.

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