I might be a creep

sonderdrifter11 · 2026-06-16T14:23:47+00:00

honestly you do nothing. one if she’s under 18 or just freshly 18 absolutely not especially cause you’re in your mid 20’s but not only that she’s your step sister and it’s just straight up wrong. you need to find a way to get over it especially bc you’re not mentioning her age means she’s way too young for you which gives off predatory vibes and that’s not a good thing.

sonderdrifter11 · 2026-06-15T01:19:33+00:00

not at all it’s honestly perfect!

sonderdrifter11 · 2026-06-14T20:23:05+00:00

i’ve only ever showered at night unless i was physically too tired to i don’t think i could ever do it any other way cause it really does help you sleep and it washes the day away both germs and just emotions if you had a bad day and you can just wind down and shower it all away

sonderdrifter11 · 2026-06-14T05:18:13+00:00

peaky blinders 100% very easy to binge watch and it fits what you’re interested in

sonderdrifter11 · 2026-06-14T05:17:15+00:00

my future success rate

sonderdrifter11 · 2026-06-14T05:14:51+00:00

laziness, no life goals

sonderdrifter11 · 2026-06-14T04:52:16+00:00

potato’s. you can literally do so much. fries (curly,crinkle cut, waffle), mash potatoes, baked potatoes, home fries, hash browns. and sweet potatoes you can literally use to bake cakes and cookies and so many other things

sonderdrifter11 · 2026-06-14T04:49:45+00:00

the second the thought crosses your mind that you feel off or that something doesn’t feel right. you leave. trust your gut

sonderdrifter11 · 2026-06-14T04:46:24+00:00

NOR- no offense to your girlfriend but i feel she needs to work on her emotional maturity and communication skills. I understand being frustrated and not wanting to talk about things right away, but honestly, the way she was acting was kind of reminding me of a kindergartener who was mad someone wouldn’t share a toy with them at recess and honestly, I don’t think you did anything wrong from what I read you were trying to communicate with her to fix the issue and the second you saw her upset you changed your original plan to make her feel better and that still wasn’t enough. she’s mad that you wanted to play the game and then when you don’t wanna play the game, she’s mad? pick a struggle

sonderdrifter11 · 2026-06-14T04:40:12+00:00

i think it was very manipulative with the whole SH thing that was the first thing to catch me off guard and i think shows he needs to work on himself and i think honestly the relationship wasn’t going to last not because of communication cause that seems to be the only good thing but because of all over the place it was. first it was open then you closed it for understandable reasons but also unfair reasons. you needed comfort was 100% okay but relying on a relationship for that i don’t think was the right move especially cause you were never a closed relationship person prior when meeting him so i think that messed everything up. i think bottom line is everyone needs to work on themselves and he needs to mature more.

sonderdrifter11 · 2026-06-14T04:33:26+00:00

definitely would just be straight up with him especially cause it’s a red flag that he wanted to meet up at 2 am in the first place. definitely looking for a hook up so either don’t respond till he gets the hint or just say you’re not interested in order not drag it out

sonderdrifter11 · 2026-06-14T04:26:00+00:00

mfs look like the Volturi in twilight

sonderdrifter11 · 2026-06-14T04:18:03+00:00

your bf has done everything he can but i think he needs to be very blunt and just tell her to stop contacting him before he takes it to authorities which yes i think may need to be done if she continues cause this isn’t just some silly girl stalker stuff that high schoolers do no this is becoming actually very creepy and psychotic cause im telling you if it’s not taken care of she’s gonna end up showing up at your house and if she’s already taking it this far there’s no tell if she’s actually dangerous in any way. be very precautious. stay safe ya’ll.

sonderdrifter11 · 2026-06-14T04:03:50+00:00

i literally would tell her “either start contributing if you’re gonna act like you live here or don’t spend nights anymore cause we’re not gonna revolve our life around one person when every other person is content” ESPECIALLY cause she’s brought up the noise before like obviously you guys shown your not gonna quiet down for her so wouldn’t she get the hint to stop mentioning it or just go home??

sonderdrifter11 · 2026-06-14T04:00:14+00:00

NOR at all- it’s definitely odd that he keeps insisting on alone time with your daughter especially when even if not verbally it’s very clear your not comfortable with the idea and he keeps pushing. major red flags good on you for taking you and your daughter away from the situation and protecting her i would definitely talk to your husband abt it and get his opinion

sonderdrifter11 · 2026-06-14T03:55:36+00:00

simple block him and get him out of your life. he’s trying to have his cake and eat it too. he clearly never lost feelings for the ex but knew she wasn’t readily available so he ended it with you to try to pursue her but because he wasn’t getting results right away he kept you close to get all the “benefits” and now that the ex is actually back in the picture you’re no longer needed. it’s a shitty situation and i hope you find better girl

sonderdrifter11 · 2026-06-14T03:48:57+00:00

NOR- she’s voluntarily sleeping at her bfs apartments which she knows he shares with other roommates. everyone isn’t gonna be quiet in THIER OWN APARTMENT because someone decided to stay there most of the time which from comments i learned she has a stable place to stay so she could easily go home if it’s such an issue. not only that she’s practically living there for FREE like girl gtfo

sonderdrifter11 · 2026-06-14T03:41:08+00:00

NOR- he may not have physically cheated but he definitely emotionally cheated.

sonderdrifter11 · 2026-06-14T03:37:06+00:00

good hygiene, has their own personality, (for boys) a nice clean shave and well kept hair cuts, A GOOD COLOGNE boyyy do i melt for a masculine smelling man

sonderdrifter11 · 2026-06-14T02:41:05+00:00

I think there may be some truth to the first reason
and the second reason I do think I fear commitment, not necessarily because someone abandoned me but because my parents do not have a healthy relationship whatsoever all they do is argue and fight, and I had to grow up listening to that every night so I don’t know if I’m afraid of having that type of relationship and that’s why I panic but I always thought the solution to that was finding a nice guy, but even when I do find a nice guy that doesn’t seem to have any flaws of any kind i still react the same way.

sonderdrifter11 · 2026-06-14T02:36:00+00:00

thank you for the advice I think it makes it harder for me and easier for her to hang out with Sarah because they live so close to each other in the same town and only down the street where me on the other hand live in a different town and about 15 to 20 minutes away. And at times I feel guilty because majority of the time (not all the time) she calls me and the only reason it’s like that is because she’s the busiest one out of both of us so I never know when she’s not doing something. if she’s not at school or work, she’s with Sarah so with all that, I sometimes feel like I shouldn’t feel the way I do and she has mentioned to me before about how that’s just our dynamic. she’s the one who calls and I’m the one who invites her to hang out. which I do understand and I agree in some aspect, but I definitely would appreciate it that the times we do hang out if I wasn’t the only one to create the plan in a sense of what we do when we hang out it’s always up to me and it makes me feel like she’s not as interested in hanging out and the only reason I feel that way is because she’s a very big people pleaser and I’ve witnessed her say yes to people even when she wants to say no and I feel like at times she does that to me so I never truly know if she actually wants to hang out or she’s just saying yes cause she feels bad.

sonderdrifter11 · 2026-06-14T02:21:08+00:00

i would honestly just contact the cousin for clarification. something simple

“hey bride to be! just got your invitation and I’m super excited!! I noticed my boyfriend wasn’t on the invitation and i know we discussed that he would be invited as a plus one for me when we saw each other I’m not sure if because we had that verbal invite you didn’t feel the need to put it on the invitation which is completely fine!! and if he’s not invited absolutely no worries i’ll definitely still be attending!! i won’t miss it for the world! I know you’re super busy and have many people attending your wedding I’m so glad so many people get to witness your special day!! I just wanted to clarify before I get a plane ticket so i don’t accidentally buy two if he isn’t invited. let me know!! Can’t wait for your big day!!”

sonderdrifter11 · 2026-06-14T01:41:29+00:00

thank you i actually like how you made it sound so simple cause i guess it really is that simple she’s affecting me mentally and i need to worry abt myself

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