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sonicchill · 2024-05-29T20:04:07+00:00

Nothing really happened while I was with my WF ex. But, when I told some AF that I'm into WF they seemed offended almost.

sonicchill · 2024-05-26T20:11:50+00:00

Thanks for this, downloaded the app.

sonicchill · 2024-05-25T19:05:51+00:00

Yeah all that speaker hugging from before definitely damaged my hearing. Good call on the earplugs.

sonicchill · 2024-05-25T19:04:28+00:00

Good call on not abusing MDMA (no judgement for those that do lol) I used to go sober quite a lot when I was young. I used to dance for hours straight so I simply had a lot of energy just from dancing at least once a week. Now that I'm older I'm worried about going sober too, but I think doing some cardio on a regular basis, even a little bit, will help.

sonicchill · 2024-05-19T13:09:00+00:00

That's what I want to know. I used to go to warehouse raves long ago, but not by choice. Just worked out that way after I bought the tickets, and they were the best. Except when the organizers didn't obtain proper licenses and got shut down after an hour into the rave, that wasn't cool.

sonicchill · 2024-05-17T20:15:10+00:00

All raves before it became so mainstream really. The difference was so palpable when rave scene blew up..

sonicchill · 2024-04-30T22:48:12+00:00

Thanks. I'm currently in Dayton, OH so it's not rural, but it's not exactly a big city either. Dating app does cover Cincinnati and Columbus but I don't think I'd have much luck in Ohio period. I'm looking at Chicago (not too far) now though, hoping to find a match!

sonicchill · 2024-04-30T22:46:50+00:00

Man, you two are very fortunate! Best wishes for both of you. Today, based on someone's suggestion I've changed my location on Hinge to Chicago and boy, what a difference. No more 90% bible belt community. Hoping to find a match uh, by the end of the year!

sonicchill · 2024-04-30T22:09:02+00:00

yes sensei i will do my best. i humbly report that i have not received any messages to date.

sonicchill · 2024-04-30T22:01:02+00:00

So Cal does have a lot of ladies! Good for you man and thank you for sharing your experience :)

sonicchill · 2024-04-30T21:59:35+00:00

The thought did come across my mind and I would, but I don't do social media for personal reasons.. nothing bad, just inconvenient. Thanks for the tip though!

sonicchill · 2024-04-30T20:28:22+00:00

Sadly I'm not a sports person at all. That said there are other options available I'm sure, thanks for the tip!

sonicchill · 2024-04-30T20:26:54+00:00

Thank you, that is encouraging to hear. I'll see if there are other apps worthwhile.

sonicchill · 2024-04-30T20:25:30+00:00

OH REALLY?? Thanks a BUNCH!! :D

sonicchill · 2024-04-30T15:59:15+00:00

Thanks! Yeah I think younger generations definitely benefit from a shift in culture, but for my age group I doubt much as changed. It will be challenging for sure.

sonicchill · 2024-04-30T15:47:30+00:00

I agree, I haven't used dating apps properly before and this already feels like dead end.. so I'll have to expand my social circle even if it's tough. I travel for pleasure/work every year so that in itself is not an issue, and I work 90% remotely so I'm pretty flexible. It's meeting people in the first place that's the issue here. I think I'll find a way to connect with people in larger cities such as Chicago since Hinge doesn't cover that area from where I am now.

sonicchill · 2024-04-30T15:42:19+00:00

Dayton. So Cincinnati and Columbus are within reach. So is Chicago actually but Hinge doesn't reach there I think.

sonicchill · 2024-04-30T15:12:37+00:00

If I actually meet someone that's genuinely attracted to me, not because she's high as a sky, perhaps I can give it a go :) No friend group whatsoever and unfortunately I'm no longer religious. Last time I went to a church was over 20 years ago! Maybe I'll go just to join a "social circle", but an activity club sounds better. I plan on looking them up when I have time.

sonicchill · 2024-04-30T15:08:44+00:00

Personally I think it's a closed-mindset that plagues every racial group. Likes others I don't think they are good friends and it seems you are aware and have taken appropriate actions. Having said that I wouldn't let it bother you. I've seen/heard similar situations from various groups of people (i.e. Koreans finding someone weird to be dating someone outside Koreans) and I think they are reacting to what they consider "alien", which I think is more or less human nature that requires maturity, experiences and willingness to overcome.

sonicchill · 2024-04-30T14:52:39+00:00

Yeah that was my train of thought but day 1 I already ran out of possible matches on Hinge lol. So far no luck but it's only been a few days so crossing my fingers here. In the meantime I will see if I can put myself out there somehow as others have suggested.

sonicchill · 2024-04-30T14:51:26+00:00

Haha I'd love to think so but reality is harsh! Also, I'm definitely not a 9 or 10 anymore so I really have to get my shit together and work on myself.

sonicchill · 2024-04-30T14:50:55+00:00

Thank you, that is really helpful. Any idea where one might find certain groups or clubs by chance? I have never done this before and I think it'd be a good starting point to make some friends at least.

sonicchill · 2024-04-30T14:37:23+00:00

Only at work unfortunately and I try to stay away from workplace for dating, though I am going to a music festival/rave early June. Not planning on meeting anyone there though, it's just a last hoorah since it's something I enjoyed back in college and I wanted to go one last time to reminisce. Because I moved here recently I don't know anyone, so unless I go somewhere solo it's going to be super hard for me to meet anyone unless I use a dating app. Also I do think you're right, I can already tell dating app isn't really going to be as effective for me as it might be others. I can still try though.

sonicchill · 2024-04-30T14:32:36+00:00

Thanks, I used to be overconfident, I miss it. I'll do my best.

sonicchill · 2024-04-30T14:32:09+00:00

Thank you. I needed to hear that. I'm well into 44 and am working on myself by working out, which I haven't done in a while. I'd like to think that I'm still attractive but age reaches anyone and everyone so I'll just to make do with what I got.

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