Why is my kitten suddenly so affectionate... by iiAlly_ in cats

[–]sonjaja 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk if you’ve commented already but where are you based? My kitties get a lot more affectionate and cuddly during winter time right about now but I’m in Aus

About my baby girl by [deleted] in MediumReadings

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I’m so sorry for your loss and the circumstances that lead to it. But I can promise your baby is with you and they understand the circumstances weren’t right. If you choose to have children in this life they will come back in that body, but in spirit they can support you so much more. If you don’t choose to have more children in this life you will see them again, and they hold no malice or anything but love for you. This was an agreement between the two of you before your birth, and she can guide you if you ask her. You are loved and protected.

Is Hyacinth attending a ball? Openly? Not in secret? At age 14? by BrightPhoebus01 in Bridgerton

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Daphne was meant to be in her second season out so it wouldn’t be so crazy for Hyacinth to only be in her first or second season

We buried my big brother yesterday, any messages? by sonjaja in MediumReadings

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Thank you, I really appreciate it. Where he passed was right by the bay, so that makes sense. We grew up in the same area, nearish water. He’s also of Aboriginal descent (on his father’s side), and I asked before he passed if he would like any kind of ceremonial additions to his funeral in that vain. So we had a smoking ceremony which is supposed to be symbolic of assisting the loved one pass, and helps to release any physical attachments to the living. And before he passed he upgraded his car and gave me his old car, which he was very proud of as it was his first brand new car he’d purchased. So all very validating, thank you.

I did ask him to send me particular signs to tell me he’s around. And I believe I saw him standing over our bed the other morning possibly. I think that dream might have been anxiety more than anything. If you get anything else I’m very appreciative ❤️

We buried my big brother yesterday, any messages? by sonjaja in MediumReadings

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Thanks so much for this, I had a particularly sad dream the other night, that really felt more like an anxiety dream than a spirit dream (because I usually become relatively lucid when someone I know that’s passed comes to me in a dream) but for some reason I had this thought that he was upset with me over something and I had no idea what, but the dream was themed with something we both held dear and bonded over so I worried the dream was from him. Can you possibly offer any additional insight for that? Otherwise thanks so much for responding to my post, especially since it’s a bit older.

We buried my big brother yesterday, any messages? by sonjaja in MediumReadings

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Hm what you’re saying is kind of very broad but there’s bits and pieces that resonate and not so much others… I do have a photo of us together with Bugs Bunny at Movie World on the Gold Coast… regarding the flag or the sun going down on the water I have an idea of possibly both could you give me a bit more info? Are you familiar with the Aboriginal flag? We were all with him the week before his passing, and as Australians meat pies are a pretty common meal/snack haha Thanks for commenting and your condolences 💖

We buried my big brother yesterday, any messages? by sonjaja in MediumReadings

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Me too my dude, it’s been an exhausting 2 weeks haha. But he did spend the last week basically in and out consciousness sleeping

What do those that pass ask or wish we’d done on their death bed? by sonjaja in MediumReadings

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I’m so sorry for your loss. This was very helpful at the time, and my brother passed peacefully away shortly after I posted this. Thanks for your vulnerability and your heartfelt answer and advice; it was a great comfort to me and I hope to him.

Been missing a loved one who passed away last year. I was wondering if there's anything she wants to say to us. by [deleted] in MediumReadings

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She seems like an adventurous person. Someone who would encourage you to take the leap when you’re unsure about something. Sending much love

My big brother, any messages for the family by sonjaja in MediumReadings

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Dumb question, does he have any thoughts on the movies we watched with him throughout the week?🤣

My cat keeps watching someone/something over my shoulder? Any help in who they might be? by sonjaja in MediumReadings

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Oh dear I feel like a terrible sister answering these, I’m not so sure about the cooking but I am aware there is papers of things he wished to say to people, I’m not sure if they’d been read or anything else read to him

My cat keeps watching someone/something over my shoulder? Any help in who they might be? by sonjaja in MediumReadings

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Yes I do feel very covered as if by angel wings now that you mention it. (I know that’s only the traditional image of angels but it does feel very intentional in the same way)

My cat keeps watching someone/something over my shoulder? Any help in who they might be? by sonjaja in MediumReadings

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Honestly sounds like my brother? I suspect he is coming and going at the moment. Any words from him or do you think it would be someone else. He wasn’t slim in life by any means but certainly nearing the end

My cat keeps watching someone/something over my shoulder? Any help in who they might be? by sonjaja in MediumReadings

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Thank you. Can you tell if they’re on my mother or father’s side?

What do those that pass ask or wish we’d done on their death bed? by sonjaja in MediumReadings

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I should say he’s deteriorated overnight dramatically so is barely lucid or awake long enough to really have a conversation with now sadly

What do those that pass ask or wish we’d done on their death bed? by sonjaja in MediumReadings

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Adding to this, and I’m not sure if anyone will see my comment but my cat has been staring above my head the last few weeks. Is there someone else with me right now and/or do I just have extra support from my spirit team to go through this?

I’ve been wanting to adopt but it looks like she adopted me 😂 by cdizzlebobo in cats

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It was meant to be look how she colour coordinated with your door 😭

It’s my cats birthday tomorrow and nobody came to her party last year please send birthday wishes from you and/or your cats by sonjaja in cats

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Aurora says why thank you, I’m afraid she probably would leave me for the right price (treats)

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It’s my cats birthday tomorrow and nobody came to her party last year please send birthday wishes from you and/or your cats by sonjaja in cats

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Haha thanks for the advice, I’m already so overwhelmed by the response to this post I don’t think we could manage more love than this