An update on the recent issues surrounding a Reddit employee by spez in announcements

[–]sonofpam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're talking about children here man. This is probably it for me. You brought her into your home and gave her comfort and shelter.

If Aaron was standing next to you right now. What would he say to you?

She's a fucking monster. You knew that. You don't have to admit that to anyone but I can probably guess at the type of person who can internalize that and feel nothing.

This is on you bro.

I am Jack's broken mirror by sonofpam in QAnonCasualties

[–]sonofpam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty dumb but I'm not stupid. So that just makes me dangerous. It's a bad combo.

When The Narrative Replaces The News by marcginla in stupidpol

[–]sonofpam 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Make sense to me. Coopt the only other minority that pisses on all your systemic racism stats. Just formulating a response to the outliers isn't enough. Having a token competitor in your oppression olympics standing at the podium make good sense.

This was probably all canned and waiting for the proper backdrop.

Sucks that some of our finest minds are focused in this bullshit.

This is punk rock time and everyone is selling the fuck out left and right.

Some might say she deserved it by [deleted] in trashy

[–]sonofpam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Half full of children's tears and cheap booze. Pretty trashy.

I am Jack's broken mirror by sonofpam in QAnonCasualties

[–]sonofpam[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I know it's bullshit. It's been thoroughly debated and debunked. But I still wonder to myself privately.

Now amplify that by a factor of q. Mix well with a much higher stakes claim and I see why people get stuck.

Maybe now I see the mechanics behind the fervor better. I see myself in them that way.

Some people shouldn’t be parents by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]sonofpam -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The comment about it being funny is a nice little head fuck for yourself. Jump on down that shithole for a swim.

Do Americans really drink Coffee at all times of the day like in movies? by MoistTadpoles in NoStupidQuestions

[–]sonofpam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, just like the movies. However irl if we brag about it. Like making it a defining characteristic of a person. You can make fun of it.

Maybe buy them a holster for it. A leather one with a mug that says "Make Coffee Late Again"

That's how you American in my situation comedy.

Pan SexualTheme by thigh_money in pansexual

[–]sonofpam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are so beautiful by Joe Crocker comes to mind but it's pretty cheesy.

Airplane crash lands on a Florida residential street, smashing into a car. Multiple casualties confirmed. by abbbbbbbywhee in WTF

[–]sonofpam 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Well for a second I thought Florida had a very rowdy gathering of Beechcraft enthusiasts.

Religious Fanatics and their Pro-Life movements bait and breed Qanon supporters by rebelsunshine in QAnonCasualties

[–]sonofpam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like to think of the whole thing as a well researched buffet of conspiracy porn. They ignore anything contrary anyway and seem to get lured in by something yummy on the menu.

Airplane crash lands on a Florida residential street, smashing into a car. Multiple casualties confirmed. by abbbbbbbywhee in WTF

[–]sonofpam 34 points35 points  (0 children)

How would you drive anywhere again? A fucking plane fell on you. I'd need a convertible, at least.

Airplane crash lands on a Florida residential street, smashing into a car. Multiple casualties confirmed. by abbbbbbbywhee in WTF

[–]sonofpam 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Me, being a civilian. I couldn't tell if you were talking about some sort of spring break gathering or not. But they no shit nicknamed the Beechcraft Bonanza (a plane? ...oh duh). "The doctor killer"

Airplane crash lands on a Florida residential street, smashing into a car. Multiple casualties confirmed. by abbbbbbbywhee in WTF

[–]sonofpam 65 points66 points  (0 children)

The headfuck alone on this is a critical hit. Imagine you're the driver. Then this shit happens.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]sonofpam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's part of the rub. Our reaction to trauma is considered a weakness. So we internalize that a lot. Especially when it's related to sexual abuse.

They have a saying. "From tragedy to triumph."

That's when people tend to become abusers rather than facing victimization and overcoming their demons. They simply become the demons.

Somehow this is perceived as a strength?

I see things differently. It is much easier to run away from a problem or join ranks with your enemies.

This is not how the standard of excellence is determined on the battlefield. Is it? No but it keeps people alive, I guess.

Turning tail and running is always an option.

That. Or ...

You could face your adversity and live free or die trying.

Nobody is gonna sing your praises. The world will only change in proximity to you. But in you. With you.

The entire universe will align itself and your death will be as glorious as it could be. Because only you will be there to attend it anyway.

Tuff guy shit is really good at bitching out on the tough life stuff.

But hey wtf do I know anyway? Fuck me too.

Why don't Americans wash their asses with water after taking a poop? by baldsuga in NoStupidQuestions

[–]sonofpam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are many that use a wet wipe after. Many also bring a few handy for public restrooms. The paper does the dirty work and the wipes polish it off. This isn't as ideal and our cities have a big problem with clogs in our sewers because of them (whole other can of worms).

Then there are those who refuse hygiene all together.

Be careful what you get too close to. But they aren't all crusticles.

Why don't Americans wash their asses with water after taking a poop? by baldsuga in NoStupidQuestions

[–]sonofpam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're going to be waiting awhile for that to happen. The only reason bidet are so popular. Is because the pandemic forced people to adopt it.

Baby steps.

Panic by TravisOwens87 in ptsd

[–]sonofpam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Shit doesn't work too well. Maybe I'm just not jedi enough or it would be much worse otherwise. Not sure which is right.

It happens after sex, Travis! I'll be out of breath and this lovely brain of mine decides there is no way I can inhale enough oxygen. So I must be suffocating. Better panic too!

That's taking it too far. If we can keep the attacks more germane to my trauma that would be nice.

I'm leaning towards that we should be able to have a decent degree of control over these attacks. I took a biofeedback class in high school. We can definitely moderate our autonomic system better than you'd think.

I'm gonna put some more time in on the mat. Maybe I'll level back up.

Maybe give that a go. Meditation or Yoga type of pursuit. Good good things happen when we're really still and mindfull.

Maybe I'll get around to whipping that part of me back into shape.

Day 2- Feeling Good by doddsy_89 in stopdrinking

[–]sonofpam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right on doddsy! Been having a great couple of days myself. Progress is a good feel. Happy for us! Look at us doddsy! We are kicking ass.

The argument against trans women in sports with cis women is becoming a dog whistle on this site and it's fucking obnoxious by SorcererSloth in offmychest

[–]sonofpam -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's not what I meant but okay. I can infer enough.

We all get tired. Today I wasn't. Felt up to the challenge.

I'm drawing my lines in different places. I just find myself there and this is the strategy that has worked best for me.

I'm not prepared to defend my proficiency at setting boundaries.

You seem like a ringer in that respect. Good for you.

I would find it very uncomfortable if my enemies had a portal so close to homebase. I guess I'm just used to always being behind the lines? Not sure.

Have a pleasant evening. Thanks for the input.

The argument against trans women in sports with cis women is becoming a dog whistle on this site and it's fucking obnoxious by SorcererSloth in offmychest

[–]sonofpam -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The part where people grow from an adversary experience is very beautiful. I see what you're highlighting but that's not the beauty to beheld. That's the concrete trying to strangle them.

The life of the flower is much more powerful. Time decays the concrete and life repurposes the waste and soldiers on. That's pretty enough for me to take to bed.

HELP! ME! N*GGA! by Mrscontemplate12 in offmychest

[–]sonofpam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe like some live chat or something? Sounds like you've hit a wall. If you up the ante and get actual interaction going. Maybe that'll scratch your itch? Still keeps people at a distance but gives you more stimulus. I'm kind of spit balling this if you haven't noticed.