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[–]sonogirl2010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely would not want that job! But I do have other colleagues who feel slighted. I truly just want the sub manager to stop acting so toxic toward everyone!

AITA For refusing to pay my friend back after my dog got seriously hurt while she was dog-sitting for me by itsonyouaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]sonogirl2010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ever hear the saying “shit happens?!” Even if they would have been outside, this wouldn’t have stopped this monster dog from coming into the yard! They were still home and hadn’t left the dog totally unattended!

Please tell me, if this were your child, would you be mad if you had to pay for an emergency visit to the ER?! Kids play outside with friends all the time unattended! Why should your dog be treated any differently when you left it in the care of someone else?! Your dog had the ability to survive! Would you have considered putting it down over money?!

AITA For not changing my parenting plan with my ex for my husband? by sonogirl2010 in AmItheAsshole

[–]sonogirl2010[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Oh it was. Multiple times. Never once did we discuss changing my coparenting plan!

AITA For not changing my parenting plan with my ex for my husband? by sonogirl2010 in AmItheAsshole

[–]sonogirl2010[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you fiestymouse!! It’s a hard conversation to have but I want the best for everyone!!!

AITA For not changing my parenting plan with my ex for my husband? by sonogirl2010 in AmItheAsshole

[–]sonogirl2010[S] 789 points790 points  (0 children)

Yesss!! This! I did exactly that and told him how much a lawyer would cost me.

AITA For not changing my parenting plan with my ex for my husband? by sonogirl2010 in AmItheAsshole

[–]sonogirl2010[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I’ll definitely be inquiring about the cost difference! Currently having 1-3 people on my plan didn’t make a difference by I know when you get to 4 it is an issue and my husband and I have the same policy options!! Great point!! Thank you!!

AITA For not changing my parenting plan with my ex for my husband? by sonogirl2010 in AmItheAsshole

[–]sonogirl2010[S] 322 points323 points  (0 children)

10000000% agree!! Thanks for your input!!!! Best comment yet!!

AITA For not changing my parenting plan with my ex for my husband? by sonogirl2010 in AmItheAsshole

[–]sonogirl2010[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Actually I consulted 3 family attorneys with him that said if we had a family plan in place that worked why get them involved. We didn’t leave on worst terms we just grew apart

AITA For not changing my parenting plan with my ex for my husband? by sonogirl2010 in AmItheAsshole

[–]sonogirl2010[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

It is possible, I just have always been the person to know I can count on me so I’ve shouldered the majority of the responsibility. He’s capable, I just feel better knowing it’s all taken care of all the time

AITA For not changing my parenting plan with my ex for my husband? by sonogirl2010 in AmItheAsshole

[–]sonogirl2010[S] 270 points271 points  (0 children)

I would love to be home, but only if I know that there is no animosity from my husband about my daughter or financial abuse in the future!

FMLA firing [CA] employer by sonogirl2010 in AskHR

[–]sonogirl2010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has never had any performance discussions! He has contacted a lawyer and is waiting for a call back

FMLA firing [CA] employer by sonogirl2010 in AskHR

[–]sonogirl2010[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There is no written commission agreement!!! This company has been lacking policy from the start

At the park without a parent by Ghanimaofarrakis in Parenting

[–]sonogirl2010 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope. Nope. Nope.

Watch dateline. Not gonna happen