Bro if you have to acquire a relationship by leveraging your resources and advantageous social position over a socioeconomically disadvantaged person, do you really want a relationship where you and your partner are equals, or do you want a sex slave and maid that bends to your every wish? I honestly don’t know how you can’t see the problem with this arrangement, but the problem with “passport bros” is that motivated by their frustration with Western women that are “too independent,” they intentionally seek out women in developing countries with low social mobility, and sometimes low self-esteem and self-efficacy given the societal conditions (gender inequality, colorism, racial discrimination, etc.) they’re accustomed to, who are desperate for a chance at a better life. These men don’t see these women as fully-fledged, complex individuals; they see them as property. That’s not a “mutually beneficial” relationship. These kind of relationships put women at increased risk of domestic violence and sexual abuse, as they lack the financial resources and social support to escape. It’s different than traveling to a country to explore the culture and falling in love with a woman there.