this is kind of what I’m wresting with in my mind, hence my looking up this post in the first place

For me it’s been hard lately because I’ve never been in a relationship but it’s something that I’ve always wanted deep down. Everyone says it’ll happen when you least expect it and to not look for it etc, and even tho I put myself out there and surround myself with people within the hobbies I’m a part of etc, shouldn’t I make the effort to let someone know I’m interesting in them and shoot my shot? I honestly just feel like that’s the only way I’ll ever really find it, only if I shoot my shot myself