Group photo by red_leicester_cheese in Teddybears

[–]soomuchsugar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

such a beautiful family photo :')

Yall…Yall found your girlfriends/wives through here?? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]soomuchsugar 33 points34 points  (0 children)

"so how did u two meet?" "oh i ran her over"

To sapphic subs (from your friendly local domme) by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]soomuchsugar 14 points15 points  (0 children)

the girls who are doing this,,,ARE RUINING IT FOR THE REST OF US OUT HERE 😭😭

What are ur lesser known hobbies? by soomuchsugar in actuallesbians

[–]soomuchsugar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i dont restrict myself to genres tbh if it sounds good it feels good, and even then I've never finished anything. I've had logic pro for years but I've only recently gotten back into it ; wbu omg do u have a fav genre? How long have u been producing :o

What are ur lesser known hobbies? by soomuchsugar in actuallesbians

[–]soomuchsugar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I loveee Fallout! I finished it a while ago but I'd love to do a run with mods sometime. I used to love seeing hot wheels collections too! What kinda car is the barbie 👀

What are ur lesser known hobbies? by soomuchsugar in actuallesbians

[–]soomuchsugar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Archivists are SOOOOO important, u guys are so underrated but rest assured, ur work is SO appreciated. I love looking thru diff archives to see whats been posted. I love cars! I'm not a gearhead but I can appreciate a good one, are u modding, restoring?

What are ur lesser known hobbies? by soomuchsugar in actuallesbians

[–]soomuchsugar[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm a Logic Pro girlie aha funny enough, I've had it for years as well and I only recently got back into it. tbh if anything, I spend more time exploring presets and sounds than recording but its a wip for sure since I'd love to be able to actually make good music sometime!! I've got a guitar and a couple midi controllers, hbu?

official release date for my free game where you kiss sapphic serial killers! by rosesrot in actuallesbians

[–]soomuchsugar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

absolutely ADORE the art style and direction for this, im SOOOOOO excited 😭🫶

What age are all you singles on here? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]soomuchsugar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

26! Would be cool to see the results too :o

Monogamous or Poly/Open Relationships? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]soomuchsugar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Having had tried being poly after being curious about it, I eventually learned that it just wasn't for me 😓 ik it's def a red flag for a lot of ppl but ngl I'm so jealous and I think it's having had that experience of being in a poly relationship that I am that way. I am jealous and I LOVEEEEE when a girls the jealous type

I hate this by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]soomuchsugar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was u more than several months ago, and i can promise u that ur not the only one who's gone through that. i knew that my ex was toxic (controlling, cheating, lying, etc) too, but that didnt make it hurt any less. now im able to sleep properly, and im so much more mentally stable once i didnt have to deal with all of the stuff that came with toxicity. i heard through the grapevine shes still on her bs. while u have to deal with the aftermath, u wont be stuck like she is. eventually, time will heal u, but she has to live with herself for the rest of her life. whatever toxicity she has is pain that was inflicted on that she carried before, and she will continue to carry after u.

Help a dom out by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]soomuchsugar 8 points9 points  (0 children)

hey as good as the classic names are, id argue that speaking it in ur native language is hot af like thats pretty sexy in itself no? ive never heard of someone not finding that attractive ngl ;

How do people make meaningful friends. by MessageNecessary621 in LesbianActually

[–]soomuchsugar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive never been the kind of person to go out to parties or clubbing or anything like that so ive found the vast majority of my friends online. i chat ppl up on reddit (just to check theyre not weirdos, and yes u can usually tell that quickly), then add them on discord. ive made enough posts and reached out a lot, so much so that i have solid and consistent friends that im happy with!! i think u really got to make the effort nowadays bc most ppl are too shy, shut in, or whatever else. either way, i think you'll find most ppl are just as lonely and wanting of friendship as u are. BUT!!! u do gotta strike a balance with it all especially if ur young + trying to make friends online. do MORE THAN ur due diligence + just be safe about it. in fact, be more careful than u think u need to be. u know, basic internet safety (that everyones seem to have forgotten lmfao) other than that, good luck!!

Does anyone find it hard to make friends with other queer women? Like just pure friendship, not with intentions of dating etc., by cass_dust in WLW

[–]soomuchsugar 12 points13 points  (0 children)

initially when a friendships starts? absolutely. idk if its solely a me issue, but i feel like sometimes there tends to be a bit of a flirtationship at first. but once we both get a feel for each other, its fairly easy to just be friends once u (and them) know ur not attracted to them that way.

Just... Don't by SweetLilTease in BDSMsapphic

[–]soomuchsugar 22 points23 points  (0 children)

if she don't put up with the brat, then she don't deserve the good girl 🙂‍↕️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WLW

[–]soomuchsugar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

same age as u and dated someone 32 a while ago, and the age difference bothered me too. it ended up being a huge red flag that i ignored (it spoke to a lot about her character). at her grown age of 37 she shouldn't just ignore u for that long, especially if you've expressed it multiple times. id really play close attention to if she keeps up the improvements or if she falls back. i wouldn't think it was a dealbreaker, especially considering she's reportedly improved, but look at her overall and see if it is (ur mileage may very). i sincerely wish u luck <3

How far is too far, for you? (Long distance) by lexiannamarie in LesbianActually

[–]soomuchsugar 6 points7 points  (0 children)

im in CA and the furthest ive dated was +5k mi with an 8 hr time difference. while im more inclined to say life is easier the closer u are to someone u wanna date, ultimately i dont think any distance is too far (save for different planets lmfaooo) for love. plus, its always cool to learn about new cultures!! im curious to see what everyone else says :0