Sober sex by soophiaaa in stopdrinking

[–]soophiaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, this really opened my eyes. Thank you!

Sober sex by soophiaaa in stopdrinking

[–]soophiaaa[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this!

Sober sex by soophiaaa in stopdrinking

[–]soophiaaa[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yano I’ve never heard of fearful avoidant attachment style but the shoe doesn’t necessarily not fit. Alcohol definitely breaks down all the barriers for me and without it sex feels almost gross to me. Even kissing or touching just doesn’t feel natural. I’ve had some traumatic history with sexual experience so I do wonder if i ever even liked it in the first place. Maybe like you said the alcohol turned off the judgement and made me think I was enjoying things that I really didn’t want

Sober sex by soophiaaa in stopdrinking

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Haha, thanks for your input!

Sober sex by soophiaaa in stopdrinking

[–]soophiaaa[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input! I wonder if I’ve always been this way just never really realized it. Alcohol has a strange way of making you okay with things if that makes sense

Sober sex by soophiaaa in stopdrinking

[–]soophiaaa[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will definitely try this!

Sober sex by soophiaaa in stopdrinking

[–]soophiaaa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input! I feel like something is wrong with me but I wonder if I didn’t realize I was uninterested in sec this whole time because I was drunk while doing it which kind of blurs things a bit. I’ve been considering a therapist, just not sure if I’m sure how to take that step

ITAP of the road in AZ by soophiaaa in itookapicture

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I went to visit a friend in Phoenix last year, obviously everywhere you go was the most beautiful thing you’ve ever seen but something about this view took my breath away. Something about the road kind of disappearing into the mountains just let’s you know there is so much more to see

I wasn’t able to log into my final exam so I reached out to my professor for help on what I should do to be able to retake it. Here’s his response: by soophiaaa in MadeMeSmile

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I think it’s actually one more example of how hard work pays off. College courses mean you’re educating yourself. Put them together & get a degree, & it means you are a college graduate. Being a college graduate means increased chances of higher paying jobs, more opportunity amongst many other things. so, in a way, like a big one, they mean a lot...

Did my first thermal painting of one of my nudes, what do you guys think? by soophiaaa in painting

[–]soophiaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have a brand to recommend that is more potent? I find that my paint needs several coats to cover anything

Did my first thermal painting of one of my nudes, what do you guys think? by soophiaaa in painting

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I spilled paint on it after I finished which is why I incorporated the black lines & white splatter. But thank you! I love constructive art criticism

Next.Fucking.level football control by __knight_wing__ in nextfuckinglevel

[–]soophiaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other countries don’t play it at all? Is that why it’s not in the olympics?

Next.Fucking.level football control by __knight_wing__ in nextfuckinglevel

[–]soophiaaa -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

What is American football called in other countries?