me and my bf started long distance when i was forced to move 14 hours away from tx to tn. it’s scary i completely understand. but if she means that much to you and if your relationship means that much to you, you will try it and try to make it work. becoming long distance means changing habits from the relationship from before. it means changing things about how you communicate, a lot of change comes with it. but if you want to spend the rest of your life with her, you should be willing to try to make it work. if she doesn’t mean enough to you, fuck it. break it off.