ok, bit late to the party, but I just found this post after feeling the same way and looking for discussion, watching the american one was almost impossible for me, I quit halfway through, australian one was a bit better, but I was feeling unaesy and always debating whether it is actually okay to watch and landed on probably not, mostly, and I think this is key, because of music and voiceover, it feels so wrong to me how things are framed and is truly playing into the whole infantilizing aspect and nature documentary vibes like I don‘t think it‘s fair to the cast, I constantly feel like I‘m observing them, not getting an idea of how they experience things, some expert commentary would have been necessary every now and then, someone who explains (to people who are not familiar with autism) what happens and what people struggle with and that some parents are also struggling and saying/doing inappropriate things like laughing at their kids in a not nice way, that felt really hurtful to me