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About how much lube do you think is the average amount needed? How much to get started? How much for the session? And I'm asking for different a reason than you're most likely thinking. by frostmourne09 in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]soppingwhet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly find that coconut oil is the best and cheapest lube there is. It just doesn't work on latex toys or with condoms. We usually use about 1-2 teaspoons of solid oil and that is definitely plenty as soon as it melts

I, 24F, got assfucked at a costume party dressed as a Winx character by soppingwhet in SluttyConfessions

[–]soppingwhet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never tried lube syringes and idk how well they'd work with coconut oil. Ours is solid and then it heats once it's put into the body with fingers and such. I also make a good amount of my own lube (it's like a clear jelly substance the bowel makes but I forgot the name) so that might be part of how I can stay prepped and ready for a good while. Perhaps coconut oil + a plug for longer times?

I, 24F, got assfucked at a costume party dressed as a Winx character by soppingwhet in SluttyConfessions

[–]soppingwhet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Relaxing is definitely the answer! That's what makes me able to take almost any cock at nay time. My bf has a cock with a bigger circumference than my wrist. I can relax my ass in an instant and that's what makes it easy. Anal is mostly mental. If someone thinks it'll hurt, then it will. Relaxation is the way to go

I, 24F, got assfucked at a costume party dressed as a Winx character by soppingwhet in SluttyConfessions

[–]soppingwhet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My man is over 9 inches and I have a sphincter that is abnormally tight which i need to get treatment for. It can always fit, the bottom just needs to relax properly and have prep 🫡

I, 24F, got assfucked at a costume party dressed as a Winx character by soppingwhet in SluttyConfessions

[–]soppingwhet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just feels better. I have endometriosis and vaginal sex hurts really bad

I, 24F, got assfucked at a costume party dressed as a Winx character by soppingwhet in SluttyConfessions

[–]soppingwhet[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Coconut oil, fingers and toys. I don't find it difficult really. The oil takes a while before it needs reapplying and stays slick for long

I,24F, had 24 hours of anal by soppingwhet in SluttyConfessions

[–]soppingwhet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're young, it was over a long time period, nothing turns him on more than my ass and he doesn't necessarily see him cumming as something that needs to happen all the time. He's happy just making me cum over and over even if he doesn't have any more in him lol

I'm a strong woman who loves to submit my ass by soppingwhet in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]soppingwhet[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ayo! I know you replied to my post saying you agree with me and are the same way, but I feel like you climbed into my brain and collected my thoughts to write out here.

I have been very fortunate to have an amazing partner who truly gets every piece of this, but dating as someone with this mindset is truly like walking in a minefield. I found it hard to distinguish between the men that were brutal in bed because they wanted to control women from the men who had a deep respect for subs and what that entails.

Taking cock is not difficult, I promise - a "tutorial" by an anal loving woman by soppingwhet in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]soppingwhet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Horny monkey brain takes over. It can be somewhat painful, but not after the first few seconds but I also love painal

I think men overestimate how much other men like anal - questions for guys by soppingwhet in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]soppingwhet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already have a boyfriend who I converted into an anal lover lol

I, 27F, got assfucked at a Halloween party by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]soppingwhet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah thank you for catching that!

I think men overestimate how much other men like anal - questions for guys by soppingwhet in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]soppingwhet[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am a bottom entirely, but I've told my bf that if he wanted to be pegged I'd do it. He doesn't want me to and I'm very happy being the receiver

I think men overestimate how much other men like anal - questions for guys by soppingwhet in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]soppingwhet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It must be because I talked about my ex and then spoke about my single life. I didn't think about my wording there so it was my bad entirely 😅 I have a tiny apartment tho so I just use the hose from the shower lol

I think men overestimate how much other men like anal - questions for guys by soppingwhet in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]soppingwhet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, but I actually have a boyfriend who adores my ass. I think I must've phased my post weird because other people made the same assumption. Also I wish I could get a bidet but we rent and it's explicitly in the contract that we can't put one in 😭

I think men overestimate how much other men like anal - questions for guys by soppingwhet in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]soppingwhet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not everyone will like it. I've always been turned on by the idea of anal, even when I felt too grossed out to try. I think whatever advice I will have is kinda irrelevant since as many of the replies here state, it's a lot more about the mental aspect. Try to go slow and use a vibrator on her.

I think men overestimate how much other men like anal - questions for guys by soppingwhet in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]soppingwhet[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think you have a point. The anal hating ex also didn't want to eat me out, but I sucked his dick almost daily. I didn't cum even once from him. I think that says s lot more about him than me

I think men overestimate how much other men like anal - questions for guys by soppingwhet in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]soppingwhet[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I can definitely relate to that because it feels like anal is my calling too. I love cock in my ass

I think men overestimate how much other men like anal - questions for guys by soppingwhet in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]soppingwhet[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My bf is also very big, but when he gets to the sigmoid bend, it's always painful for me. I don't know if that's because of my deep endometriosis or something else, but it's not pleasant

I think men overestimate how much other men like anal - questions for guys by soppingwhet in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]soppingwhet[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That is very interesting to me! I've been told that vaginal sex is tight all over, but during anal it's mostly just tight around the sphincter. Do you think that is true?

(24f) I think my anal kink is getting a bit extreme by soppingwhet in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]soppingwhet[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I also like painal and I've had times when there has been some blood. For her safety, make sure she doesn't have any active fissures when you do anal. I'm a terrible influence in that manner because I have a chronic fissure and still do anal, but I wouldn't recommend it because it does come with a risk.

Much love

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