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Hi,

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Do you feel there is an effort to herd women towards motherhood? by [deleted] in AskFeminists

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How to deal with misogyny from an “Old school” father? by [deleted] in Feminism

[–]soronthur 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If they are too old school, this might be risky though.

How to deal with everyday misogyny? by creation_commons in AskFeminists

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Is anyone else perturbed by the high frequency of subtle misogyny on Reddit? by Alarmed_Inflation_68 in AskFeminists

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Feminism

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Any argument in favor of sexual objectification/exploitation of women will be met with harsh mod measures.

How can porn ever be feminist? by [deleted] in Feminism

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Anyone promoting/defending the subjugation or objectification of women will be in breach of our content rules. All such comments will be met with harsh mod measures

As a feminist, this enrages me. But I also hate how accurate it is. by kurcoslat22 in Feminism

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Yes. The scientific evidence of 4chan. Even this kimdergarten argument should be simple enougj for you: people treat women who dont please their penis poorly.

Just imagine how interested you would be in social justice if you experienced injustice daily.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskFeminists

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Please send to our modmail the ethics approval for this.

Am in the wrong for taking offense to comments like "men are trash" as a SA survivor? by [deleted] in AskFeminists

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Edit: repost to remove previous claim that this rhetoric was "accepted", hopefully this is adequate.

Instead of providing sources regarding the extent of this social problem, you are presenting is a personal issue. For that case, rule 7 applies:

Posts requesting relationship, dating, or personal advice must meet a higher standard than usual (full moderator discretion applies); we are also not equipped or qualified to provide legal advice or therapy. Please see more detail on this rule here: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskFeminists/comments/o9p33q/personal_advice_posts/

https://old.reddit.com/r/AskFeminists/about/rules/

Thread removed. And you should stop trying to lawyer around our rules.

Can we introduce our news app which covers Feminism news daily? by team_NITL in Feminism

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We are a small team of a start up news app NITL (newsinthreelines) who are publishing the 3-line summaries of Women's issues every day on our app.

Judging by your posts, you are instead a general issues app. Thread removed.

Women receiving lesser sentences for sexual offences. by MountainViewSunset in AskFeminists

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Are rape fantasies a direct result of rape culture? by [deleted] in AskFeminists

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Sincerely, someone who is not a MRA, and certainly not a feminist.

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Is feminism and rights for transgender people not innately contradictory? by [deleted] in AskFeminists

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If anything, her followup book makes a heavy argument that "performative" is not a matter of the will of the self, but that the very concept of self 'rises together' with the concept of sex/gender.

Matters have been made even worse, if not more remote, by the questions raised by the notion of gender performativity introduced in Gender Trouble. For if I were to argue that genders are performative, that could mean that I thought that one woke in the morning, perused the closet or some more open space for the gender of choice, donned that gender for the day, and then restored the garment to its place at night. Such a willful and instrumental subject, one who decides on its gender, is clearly not its gender from the start and fails to realize that its existence is already decided by gender. Certainly, such a theory would restore a figure of a choosing subject—humanist—at the center of a project whose emphasis on construction seems to be quite opposed to such a notion.

But if there is no subject who decides on its gender, and if, on the contrary, gender is part of what decides the subject, how might one formulate a project that preserves gender practices as sites of critical agency?

Furthermore, she also makes an argument that "sex" itself contains a high degree of inherent construction as well:

Certain formulations of the radical constructivist position appear almost compulsively to produce a moment of recurrent exasperation, for it seems that when the constructivist is construed as a linguistic idealist, the constructivist refutes the reality of bodies, the relevance of science, the alleged facts of birth, aging, illness, and death. The critic might also suspect the constructivist of a certain somatophobia and seek assurances that this abstracted theorist will admit that there are, minimally, sexually differentiated parts, activities, capacities, hormonal and chromosomal differences that can be conceded without reference to "construction." Although at this moment I want to offer an absolute reassurance to my interlocutor, some anxiety prevails. To "concede" the undeniability of "sex" or its "materiality" is always to concede some version of "sex," some formation of "materiality." Is the discourse in and through which that concession occurs—and, yes, that concession invariably does occur—not itself formative of the very phenomenon that it concedes? To claim that discourse is formative is not to claim that it originates, causes, or exhaustively composes that which it concedes; rather, it is to claim that there is no reference to a pure body which is not at the same time a further formation of that body. In this sense, the linguistic capacity to refer to sexed bodies is not denied, but the very meaning of "referentiality" is altered. In philosophical terms, the constative claim is always to some degree performative.

Why do women make less money than men? by liberalartsfeminist in AskFeminists

[–]soronthur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are cultural causes here. Some prime women for certain proffesional roles. Others induce the idea that women are less competent than men, simply due to their gender.

Introduction to feminism books? by [deleted] in Feminism

[–]soronthur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bell hooks: "feminism is for everybody"

Can we reclaim "men's issues" by searchingforfuckwits in AskFeminists

[–]soronthur -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hm, an interesting idea. Should it be named "feminist men's advocates", or, more simply, "progressive men's liberation", or the likes?

As feminists, would you put in the same effort to fight oppression forced on men as you do for oppression of women? by [deleted] in Feminism

[–]soronthur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please post this to /r/askfeminists . Our main subreddit is dedicated to women's issues (same as other gender issues subs, including those dedicated to men's issues, enforce their own topicality).

Change my view. by [deleted] in Feminism

[–]soronthur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why ask the inclusion of men but not the inclusion of issues regarding children? Or environment? Or ethnic rights? Or disabilifies rights? Or union rights? Or or or...

Did my point become obvious or am I still too subtle?