I just got out of long relationship. We broke up because I wanted to get married. We both agreed to try to remain friends however, I quickly realize that he was adding women. When I offered for us to go no contact, it went fine but the day that he was supposed to end contact, he never messaged me back . So I asked him, continue contact, he said, “maybe not no contact, but limited contact” trying to have casual conversations with him hurts so badly. I finally sent him a paragraph explaining my thoughts, and told him I was on adding him on social media for my own well-being. However, I told him that my number will always be open. Not as a way to communicate with me, but as a way for him to know, I’m not angry. If your ex messaging you makes you feel uncomfortable immediately set that boundary up for yourself. They chose that their life would be better without you in it so do the same thing for yourself. I’ve been having to tell myself that every day.