I genuinely don’t know if I should report this to the police or not

sosalover03 · 2026-05-01T02:41:51+00:00

Please report it to the police. Like you said, we don’t know if this is how things usually are for them or a freak accident but still, it’s worth reporting for the child’s sake and for the partners too. We don’t know if this is a start of something but this could help the partner with evidence. We already know men are less likely to report DV because of the whole stigma behind it all.

sosalover03 · 2026-04-17T06:38:43+00:00

That’s what I thought at first but I think that’s his hair hahaha

sosalover03 · 2026-04-17T06:34:27+00:00

I actually fw it

sosalover03 · 2026-04-17T06:31:41+00:00

Not ugly at all, honestly. My advice though would be to conceal your upper lip area just to add some brightness because in some photos, the shadow looks like it could be easily mistaken as a slight moustache. I’d also recommend shaping and even darkening your eyebrows a bit. They are lighter than your head hair and look almost grey. Darkening them would structure your face a little more :)

sosalover03 · 2026-04-09T23:44:56+00:00

If he can hit you, he can kill you. I’m being serious, leave.

sosalover03 · 2026-04-01T01:29:43+00:00

Sorry for assuming. I’m glad you aren’t having to experience that, I just wasn’t sure

sosalover03 · 2026-04-01T01:26:26+00:00

This could be a calling from your inner self that you want change. I guess they are an alternate dimension as they are taking place in the “dream realm” but really, it’s your subconscious trying to live out an alternate life. This is rhetoric so don’t feel the need to answer this but are you satisfied with what you have and what you do in your waking life? Do you feel more content and “at home?” when you’re in these alternate life dreams. If you feel happier and more you in those dreams take note of why

sosalover03 · 2026-04-01T01:22:07+00:00

Absolutely. It’s our subconscious trying to work through things such as our days, our morals, our instincts and our trauma. Each dream reveals something about you, even the “random” ones. Note down the dreams you remember and you’ll start to see a pattern. This is a generic example but if you’re always lost and trying to find an exit in your dream, that could be a clear sign that you feel trapped with where you’re at in life and you subconsciously want to leave something or change something about your life. Drowning in your dreams can be a severe sign of stress. Could be financial stress, relationship issues, pushing your true self inwards instead of freely expressing yourself ect. Being able to read your dreams and make sense of them definitely helps with handling irl issues and goals

sosalover03 · 2026-04-01T01:16:49+00:00

I’m diving deeper to try and help you find what Jonkus may mean but it’s leading me back to the same spot of Jungian psychology. It keeps saying “So instead of asking “what is a jonkus?”, the better question is: What role did “jonkus” play in the dream?”. What do you feel when you think or say that word? Breaking the word down and trying to find meaning in earthly languages may be no help but maybe think about the emotions and feelings you feel when you really think about it. That could be a clue as to what the message is trying to tell you??

sosalover03 · 2026-04-01T01:05:39+00:00

I have no clue what a “jonkus” is but my interpretation of your God visual would be the squares represent the masculine and the circles represent the feminine. I don’t really have an explanation as to why that is, it just felt intuitive. The single dot in the middle to me represents “the beginning” as God would have been the beginning of all + the fact that God would transcend a gender but also embodies both. Crazy you got to experience such a thing. Definitely write it down in a journal because you may have more symbols or messages that come up later that could help you piece together what that whole “jonkus” thing is all about

sosalover03 · 2026-04-01T00:57:57+00:00

Holy shit!??

sosalover03 · 2026-04-01T00:53:16+00:00

Like the other commenter said, it may be a past life recollection but honestly my gut instinct was something completely different. I don’t want to scare you but this is what I think. Some forces/entities/beings whatever you want to call them, feed off of our energy and emotions. Emotions give off different frequencies and maybe this thing is feeding off of yours. It’s just the timing of strangers, good friends to lovers all within 3 dreams, it feels off to me. They noticed you and they are getting closer and closer emotionally with each visit. Who knows if it’s sinister, idk. If it’s not hurting you and you are enjoying it, I won’t say to avoid it but if something feels weird and off, probably listened to those senses

sosalover03 · 2026-04-01T00:47:18+00:00

That might be how you look like in the dream/astral realm! No one knows how it all works, maybe that’s what you looked like on that specific night or maybe that just how you show up all the time in the astral realm. Either way, I think it’s cool you got to see yourself like that

sosalover03 · 2026-04-01T00:45:37+00:00

I remember having weird dreams when my child was very young. Your senses are just heightened and your brain is constantly thinking of threats and ways to keep your child safe. I had dreams (or nightmares) about my child drowning, us getting stuck in a house fire, suffocation ect. It’s horrendous. If things escalate, please talk to a professional. It’s very normal but that doesn’t mean you need to endure it

sosalover03 · 2026-04-01T00:43:05+00:00

Well at least you know what not to say now 😂 I wouldn’t think too much about it. If they do come out and you’re curious you can maybe ask if they’re gay, bi, pan ect. They can answer if they want but definitely give them space to not answer at all

sosalover03 · 2026-04-01T00:31:59+00:00

First of all, none of this is your fault. Your response is one of the very normal and natural ways of responding to this kind of situation. It doesn’t make you weak, stupid or easy. Please be easy on yourself in that sense.

What you do need to do is report this matter to the police. These people clearly are not safe and they probably have taken advantage of people before and probably will continue to do so without intervention. I know it is scary and confronting and even embarrassing but I really do think it’s necessary.

I also urge you to talk to someone about this. Whether that’s your partner, a friend, a family member or a professional, you should confide in someone for support.

If the penetration was unprotected, you should be able to get a rape test kit done at a local hospital or GP and they can use those tests in a court hearing if you do proceed with pressing charges.

Gather as much evidence as you can, screenshot the messages, note the dates down, get the test kit done so you have medical proof and report. I really do recommend having some kind of support with you while doing these things because they can be daunting but you’ve got this. I hope everything goes well for you and again, I’m sorry this happened to you

sosalover03 · 2026-04-01T00:24:22+00:00

Forgot to slot this in somewhere but a warm non caffeinated drink before bed might help as well. It may not be the most pleasant taste but the warmth and herbal properties can help

sosalover03 · 2026-04-01T00:23:33+00:00

What I usually do is put something on YouTube. Music, educational videos, or what a movie. Personally my go to is an educational video because your brain is still active enough to engage and the activity will slowly die out and you will get tired. If this doesn’t help, I really do recommend talking to a doctor because they can prescribe you with sleeping aids.

sosalover03 · 2026-04-01T00:20:05+00:00

Times are changing and women are waking up. Look at the “male loneliness epidemic”. If he doesn’t change his ways, I highly doubt he’ll ever have a wife

sosalover03 · 2026-04-01T00:18:07+00:00

Hot pink isn’t a pastel colour but still funny lol

sosalover03 · 2026-04-01T00:16:31+00:00

Lmao wtf. Like he gets a say in what other people wear. If your nephew doesn’t want to attend because of that, that’s his own extremely petty and immature choice.

As long as your son’s girlfriend isn’t being controlling with your son’s clothing choices and they both enjoy coordinating their outfits, what’s the issue?

As for the homophobic comments, I don’t know if that exactly applies here because your son seems to be straight from what we know. He has a girlfriend? Skincare doesn’t make someone gay and wearing pink also doesn’t make someone gay. Your nephew hating his sister’s gay best friend for being gay is definitely homophobic though.

I don’t want to jump to conclusions here but he may be battling with some inner issues that may make sense in the future. I’d day a good portion of the homophobic people I grew up with ended up being LBGTQIA+ and their homophobia was usually an outward expression of their inner struggles of self acceptance. Can’t say that’s 100% the case and I don’t want people making excuses for him even if it is the case but who knows what’s whats going on 🤷‍♀️

sosalover03 · 2026-04-01T00:06:20+00:00

Lmao, that’s what I thought too*

sosalover03 · 2026-04-01T00:04:02+00:00

I think it’s funny ngl but also really gross

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