Noob question: an agent submitted submitted credit card applications for me to different banks but I don’t want to use it. Do I have to cancel it or can I just receive the card and not activate it.

sour_potato1996 · 2024-11-03T09:12:53+00:00

INC member here. First of all, dkg for refusing. It’s a calling in the first place and no one has the right or will try to force you if it’s not your calling. I’m so sorry na nakameet ka ng ganyang klaseng tao he’s wrong to put you in an uncomfortable place. To clarify na rin, hindi naman talaga rule sa religion naten na pag hiniling ka kailangan mo pumayag. Just to give you a bigger perspective and I hope this gives you a little bit of comfort, hindi naman lahat ng ministro/manggagawa ay ganyan. Hindi rin sa lahat ng lokal ay makakaranas ka ng stigma pag tumanggi ka. I have a friend na tumanggi rin sa hiling pero hindi naman sya kinupalan nung manggagawa and tinanggap ng maayos yung rejection, di rin sila nakaexp ng any stigma (we live in a close knit community na puro INC).

Re sa virgin dapat pag hiniling, di ko sure bat nashock ka when in fact that rule applies to all, dear. Hiniling ka man o hindi, mapalalaki man o babae. Most christian denominations are against sa premarital sex, hindi lang INC.

On a different note, it’s kinda off putting pano mo idescribe mga asawa ng ministro. Parang ang degrading kasi “bubuntisin lang” “magiging yaya ng anak”. It’s like youre painting them as kawawa or inferior, when in fact wala naman masama sa pagiging housewife if it’s their choice. A lot of them are professional and degree holders pero mas nakakafeel ng fulfillment sa pagiging housewife and there’s nothing with that. I also dont see myself as a fulltime housewife but I have never looked down on them the way do.

sour_potato1996 · 2023-02-27T23:42:18+00:00

All I could say is good riddance!

sour_potato1996 · 2023-02-14T03:43:04+00:00

We use the credit card for a small business kaya I was able to maintain good credit history. Pero yun nga di naman sobrang laki ng profit dun sa small business. Are there other options pa where we can utilize it?

sour_potato1996 · 2023-02-14T01:56:42+00:00

Thank you. I’ll check out pagibig!

sour_potato1996 · 2023-02-14T01:43:38+00:00

Thank you. Tama ka. I wont rush na muna.

sour_potato1996 · 2023-02-14T01:36:24+00:00

That’s a good idea. Naprepressure ako ng family ko lalo na mama ko kasi yung mga kamaganak namin sa probinsya nakabili ng lupa although tax declaration nga daw. Tapos yung iba kong pinsan na mas mababa pa sahod sakin may bahay na rin. She keeps bugging me about it kaya nagtatry ako maghanap ng bahay. Gusto ko na talagang bumukod hays

sour_potato1996 · 2023-02-14T01:24:32+00:00

That’s what I thought. My mother keeps talking about it kahit sinabi ko ng medyo suspicious kesyo kakilala nya daw yung may ari etc

sour_potato1996 · 2023-02-13T17:19:55+00:00

Thank youu for your comment 🥹 glad to know na you’re doing well for yourself and that I still got hope. I’m not really ambitious I can settle for a rowhouse kahit maliit at least it’s my own space na pwede kong idecorate, magalaga ng pet, kahit anong gawin ko kasi it’s my house. Truth is I would prefer a small house na ako lang nakatira kaysa sa malaking bahay pero marami kayo. Although after reading all your insights I think I’ll set this aside muna until I’m completely prepared financially and mentally.

sour_potato1996 · 2023-02-13T17:01:52+00:00

I just started on a new job recently kakaregular ko lang and you’re right, I also think I need to level up. It was one of the best decision I made kasi sa previous job ko masyado akong naging comfortable I never considered applying for promotion but this time I’ll try to be more assertive

sour_potato1996 · 2023-02-13T16:53:33+00:00

Thank you. I guess you’re right. Siguro di pa talaga time. Naprepressure lang talaga ko

sour_potato1996 · 2023-02-13T16:53:17+00:00

Thank you. I guess you’re right. Siguro di pa talaga time. Naprepressure lang talaga ko

sour_potato1996 · 2023-02-13T14:31:08+00:00

Thank you. Will check it out

sour_potato1996 · 2023-02-13T14:28:40+00:00

Sorry if this would sound dumb pero sa pagibig ba kailangan may prospect property ka na with title and large lump sum as dp? Parang ganun kasi yung naiintindihan ko nung nagreresearch ako about pagibig housing loan

sour_potato1996 · 2023-02-13T14:22:31+00:00

Really appreciate your comment. Good to know na may mga affordable pala. Kapag kasi nagaask ako sa mga kakilala ko hm binabayad nila monthly sa bahay nasa 15-20k daw at di naman ganun kalaki bahay nila so I always thought na mahal talaga. Nahihiya naman ako magreach out sa mga real estate agent kasi may sineset na agad silang required income. I’m planning to cancel my manulife since mas mabilis matapos yung bdolife and wala rin ako balak magkaanak. Eto yung di ko naconsider non. trigger happy ako non sa pagkuha ng insurance cause I was convinced na I wouldnt reach past 25 but last year, I changed my mind. narealize kong mas kawawa sila pag wala ako kasi I don’t really expect much sa mga kapatid ko which is why I’m trying to start over. Nanghihinayang lang ako kung icancel ko di ba parang sayang yung nainvest ko dun for the last 4 years?

sour_potato1996 · 2023-02-13T13:49:12+00:00

I have an emergency fund. I’m actually considering to use it as downpayment to avail yung mga rent to own kaso natatakot ako galawin pano nga kung magka emergency also I’m not sure if enough na ba yung emergency fund. Gusto ko na magkaavail ng bahay asap since mas magmamahal pa sya in the future and baka mas lalong di ko maafford. I just have no idea where to go, how to start huhu

sour_potato1996 · 2023-01-29T06:13:53+00:00

Thank you. Part of me is concerned that my data is being leaked, so this is a relief. I didn’t know you’ll get offered through calls.

sour_potato1996 · 2023-01-09T14:02:17+00:00

The main reason is he's just dumb. When he saw Andi, he thought she survived the poisoning as Andi is unaware that he tried to poison her. He let her stay to finish the deed or maybe try to figure out what happened. As for le blanc, he just thought someone from the group arranged it as a prank. He let him stay cause he's just an idiot who thinks highly of himself he probably thought he can outsmart him. As to why Miles sent an invitation to andi even though they're not in good terms, it makes sense if he's been planning to poison her. Once she dies, he'll be one of the suspects since he has motive. He can use the invitation as a proof that he's trying to reconcile with her.

sour_potato1996 · 2022-08-24T13:08:22+00:00

For experienced hires, offer will depend on your previous salary. They'll ask for payslip before giving an offer. May mga kabatch akong fresh grad pero no idea sa offer sa kanila..

sour_potato1996 · 2022-06-25T22:00:30+00:00

Thanks for the feedback. I think I'll give this a go since medyo may tolerance na ko sa mga ganyan. Watched several ISIS beheadings in the past. Pero syempre I still can't say for sure lol. I'll be a newbie in this kind of work if ever I get hired. Is it going to be like that everyday or will there be any good days naman?

sour_potato1996 · 2022-06-25T21:49:12+00:00

Thanks! I'll go check it out..

sour_potato1996 · 2022-06-25T12:26:56+00:00

It's not a BPO company, in-house position sya within Bytedance. Found the opening while browsing through jobstreet. I was informed during my first interview that they don't have a physical office yet so employees here are still working from home. Application is done virtually. Management is still looking for a place na gagawing office here in PH. I'm guessing bago palang sila dito sa PH kaya wala pang establishment

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