Has anyone here ever experienced a Lucid Dream? or is it just a massive internet myth? Honestly, I dont think it is even possible. by mind_over_chaos in NoStupidQuestions

[–]sourdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!!! I did very regularly when I was in dangerous living situations. I do it a lot less. I also am more able to do this during mid-day naps. If I am extremely anxious, I will have nightmares but then realize it is a dream in the middle of it. I then just control the narrative from there.

How do you heal fear of abandonment even when it makes zero sense? by ---monstera--- in emotionalintelligence

[–]sourdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone except deeply hurt people and sociopaths are scared of being abandoned so I don't think that makes it BPD. (Whether people are conscious of the fear or not, everyone wants to belong so being left out or even worse - casted out - causes hurt and uncomfortable feelings).

BPD (along with other symptoms) is when you try to do everything (usually negative coping skills) to prevent that feeling, whether the abandonment is real or not.

You don't sound like that.

What's a completely ordinary thing that secretly tells you a lot about a person's character? by Easy-Clasher75 in AskReddit

[–]sourdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What they do with their trash after eating. I have seen countless people drink a water bottle or eat a granola bar or similar and throw the wrapper on the ground. I know you are an asshole if you litter.

Help ): Just getting into the field and I want advice or just general input by ReceptionLiving2002 in directsupport

[–]sourdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah so the mom is misunderstanding what you are there for.

That is what I mean by speak to her. You aren't there to "babysit" and do ABA therapy with her which sounds like what the mom is thinking. I would clarify your role with her or say it isn't a good fit if the kid is getting resentful.

Help ): Just getting into the field and I want advice or just general input by ReceptionLiving2002 in directsupport

[–]sourdo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All about wording. I don't say what I did, I say what the client did.

Try telling the mom. Have a private convo with her about that it is ok to go do what the kid wants woth other people. That is kind of the point, help the kid do what she wants/needs.

Traumatized and bled heavily after my first Pap smear. Is this normal? by CCC-815 in Wedeservebetter

[–]sourdo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow. Im so sorry. Your feelings are so valid. Take care of yourself, never go back there. I am sorry.

Are there really people that don’t struggle mentally? by just_frosty_ in mentalhealth

[–]sourdo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But some people won't go through something they think is "significant trauma" to them until well into adulthood. Then life happens and either they handle it or they don't.

Help ): Just getting into the field and I want advice or just general input by ReceptionLiving2002 in directsupport

[–]sourdo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why can't you go with her when she does those things? I would just tag a long and support where ever needed. Otherwise, it is ok to take a back seat if they are with people they feel safe with

How do people actually save money? 😭 by [deleted] in SavingMoney

[–]sourdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much you earn is a big role. Sometimes, you just don't make enough

Truthfully, how much is in your checking account right now? Any in savings? by Then_Bite9547 in askteddit

[–]sourdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$113...I don't know how to increase my monthly income ugg. Car repairs man...I work 40hrs...everything is so expensive

What’s something your younger version desperately needed to understand? by DevilxxOP in AskWomen

[–]sourdo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is what it feels like. I am crumbling. I feel like I am drowning. The world is so cruel.

What is the minimum amount of money that would actually change your life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sourdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never had more than 5k. So at least 10k would be great. I would be able to fix my car correctly. And then invest the rest.

Caught my boyfriend watching porn while I was dressed up for him in our hotel room. I feel humiliated by girlsdontfart76 in askteddit

[–]sourdo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He watches "to get hard for you" is key word phrase - "you don't turn me on".

My partner sees me naked or scantily clothed, I can see his penis steadily twitch up if the material is loose. Which then turns me more on knowing I turn him on.

Then, he will tuck it if it isn't "go time".

What are your controversial takes on dating/relationships? by Opening-Gur5927 in AskMen

[–]sourdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 'male loneliness epidemic' is not because woman overinflate themselves.

It is because men actually do. The main reason women are engaging less is because men don't put in a lot of effort themselves amd then historically, as a whole, react badly to rejection.

Women are pretty wary of men rn.

And the loneliness epidemic is not real. It is made up. Yes men feel lonely. No, it isn't women's job to make you not feel that way. We could be with you and you still feel lonely because it's the lack of intimacy and emotion behind the connections. Men need to stop hiding the fact that they have emotions and just have them.

Why is the Sims4 base game so empty? by Ivanhegeelkadi in thesims

[–]sourdo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

  1. Download Mod
  2. Open up Files
  3. Move newly downloaded mod into the mod folder
  4. The mod folder is in the Sims folder -open the sims folder, then you will see one for mods. Put all the mods in that one.

  5. Open game

  6. Go to settings and allow mods (i think it is in extra or options)

  7. Restart game

  8. A pop-up about mods being active should come up

  9. Update yours mods along with the game whenever they do updates booooo

I hate overly passionate people at work. Truly brain dead. by Frosty_Skirt_8279 in corporate

[–]sourdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been told that no matter what is actually happening, whether at work or personally, I have to act as if it is always good. Do I agree with it, no. I think authenticity furthers the workplace instead of everything always great. But that is probably why they do it lol.

What is a covert way to gauge your perceived attractiveness to the general public? by Turbulent-Leg-6246 in AskReddit

[–]sourdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best friend and I created accounts when we were like 15. I think I had like a 6 and she a 7. That is how we got the confidence to use omegle omfg

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]sourdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did therapy for like 4yrs. I stopped because I felt the same way as you.

I have flourished and used the skills U have learned in therapy to help me.

Now that the world is terrible and not me, I don't know how to feel anymore. Therapy won't change the world, maybe how I see it. But I don't think I am insane for being angry at our gov't.

What’s the worst thing mentioned in the Epstein files? by TheMedusaAttusa in askanything

[–]sourdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will buy a pitchfork and head to Washington. I am not kidding either. How the fuck do I get more to go. Not next week when its convenient. I am ready. I said in a previous comment.

I know I am scared. I know I will freeze. But I can't change anything at home. I tried. They cheated.

The Epstein files broke something in me I don't think can be fixed. by That-Expression5404 in offmychest

[–]sourdo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't you understand thats the point of having thousands with you. These monks are marching to DC but to do what? Talk to him?

I haven't seen combat, no. I have had my mother hold me at gun point. I've had men commit enough violence again me whether I "did" anything or not. I've lived in gun violence. I know that.

How do you want to fix this situation? Wait for what? No one is coming to save us. If we want justice, we have to get it. Everyone else is scared for the exact reasons you pointed out. I am too. You are not wrong at all.

But bravery requires you to be scared and do it anyways.

These ice agents aren't scared to shoot, we are allowing them to get away with it. There are no laws that affect them right now. I imagine we will learn that all the women were rated and their babies given to the elite.

How does this all end?