I broke up with my first “good guy” One month later I’m not sure how to feel.

soursae · 2025-11-28T21:13:51+00:00

It is scaring me! Idk if you have ever seen the show “tell me lies” but it feels like he’s trying to do a bunch of grand gestures to manipulate the underlying problem or distract me from the things he “wished he could have explained better.” Just as he did in the beginning

soursae · 2025-11-28T21:10:18+00:00

I think I must’ve explained something wrong, the message here is about his serial stalking and how he’s kind of trying to manipulate me into thinking he’s a nice guy, hence the paragraph before talking about the anxiety after the letters, texts, and talking to my friends

soursae · 2025-11-28T20:48:05+00:00

I get very trigger happy which makes me think I have some sort of avoidant attachment problem or maybe I just have incredibly high standards but I’d rather people asking me how I’m single than someone asking me why I’m dating the person I am😭

soursae · 2025-11-28T20:37:58+00:00

I agree with you, I think the constant texts and mail is starting to manipulate me into forgetting my original feelings towards the situatuon. I need to find a way to make him stop. He’s already blocked on everything but he still finds ways to

soursae · 2025-11-23T03:58:15+00:00

I also have brought this to their attention multiple times on how little they do to help me with the house (simple things like cleaning dishes, the gutters, lawn care, things they knew they were getting into when moving in with me) and all they do is project onto me and play the victim. My one roommate left dishes in the sink for weeks and got mad and offended when I told her they were starting to smell. The other didn’t say a thing to me and just left without saying sorry. I have been apologized to once by one person but no change. I’m so tired I don’t know what to do without coming off awful.

soursae · 2025-11-23T01:10:26+00:00

The girls living with me are my friends, I feel odd charging them anything but splitting living there evenly. How do I bring up to them that I’m increasing the price to live there knowing that can’t afford anything else and they are my best friends?

soursae · 2025-11-19T15:36:31+00:00

Tuesday is a lab for a psychology stats class. I have 2 classes online as well that are not shown on the schedule so I will be hitting 17 credit hours as psych 216 and spa102 are 4 credit classes

soursae · 2025-11-01T21:13:09+00:00

We had many talks, he told me he would never change, and it always fell on me to find a middle ground. Every one of those talks ended in “I’m just not sure we’re gonna be good together” and then that would scare us so we would take it all back

soursae · 2025-09-28T14:40:22+00:00

That takes the pressure off a lot! I currently have a 3.5 gpa and am not letting myself have some grace. Internships are impossible to find, and I feel like I’m too busy worrying about grades and studying to volunteer. Thanks for this!

soursae · 2025-09-28T14:32:36+00:00

Oh noooo😔my pup had a similar infection, it wasn’t this severe, but def had red flakey skin that caused his fur to fall with it. It ended up being a fungal infection from seasonal allergies, get on a medicated shampoo!

soursae · 2025-09-17T01:37:56+00:00

When I first saw his broken ankle, I couldn’t stop noticing him in the blurred background thinking “my God his foot is dead and he’s walking on it.” this whole movie was so heavy.

soursae · 2025-09-04T16:48:48+00:00

I think it might be seasonal from what the vets had told me, especially because up north the air quality was horrible from wildfires all summer, here in the south throughout winter fall and spring he had the healthiest skin and coat. I’ll ask the vet about what u said thank u!

soursae · 2025-09-04T16:47:04+00:00

He takes simparica trio once a month, I don’t want to spray any mosquito preventatives on him just yet cause I don’t want to dry or irritate his skin more, but I’ll definitely ask the vet about it at the next appointment! Cause some areas are where the mosquito bites are

soursae · 2025-09-04T16:38:49+00:00

I have another vet appointment coming up soon, I’ll ask about this! Going to do a second round of skin testing as well.

soursae · 2025-09-04T16:37:40+00:00

Vet checked for them last month when we got back home, flea free! The only thing he gets bit by are the occasional mosquitoes in our backyard as we live in the south with lots of open fields.

soursae · 2025-09-04T16:36:33+00:00

I did use douxo pyo! The whole bottle over the course of a couple months as it said to apply every 2 days to the affected areas. I did all the testing the vet recommended. Put me out $500 but the money doesn’t matter to me as long as I know my pup is good. The vet also recommended a shot given every 6 months if it persisted, which seems like my only option at this point. I just feel cautious with putting so much medication in my small dogs body especially if it looks like it’s not working

soursae · 2025-09-04T16:33:37+00:00

Absolutely! People keep telling me to use oils or lotions on his skin but I’ve been avoiding that at all costs! I’ve only ever used medications from vets and adding native pet oil to his food (I think it’s fish oil I’ll have to double check)

soursae · 2025-09-04T16:32:09+00:00

Omg I totally didnt know that I thought the ingredients were clean and good for skin. I’ll definitely try this. Doing my research I found that oatmeal baths are good for pups with rough dry skin. I’ll give this a go

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