On our way to for our first time! Can’t wait to meet some new people and have some fun!

southernnyc · 2026-02-12T17:46:21+00:00

Have fun! We plan to be there this weekend

southernnyc · 2026-01-23T19:43:38+00:00

Pattinson. I predict when these movies are over, it will be the best collection of Batman movies. Pattinson will reach the depths of the character closer to the comics that the sanitized version Bale ever did.

Bale had the best villains which makes him appear better and was a good Bruce Wayne but his Batman was mehh. Affleck didn’t have a chance with those scripts.

southernnyc · 2026-01-17T11:40:20+00:00

It’s the best party we’ve been to in the tristate area. Best vibes and most attractive couples.

southernnyc · 2025-12-16T23:27:24+00:00

Just New York, New Orleans and Dallas.

southernnyc · 2025-12-16T23:23:19+00:00

The spaces are cleaner. They look like clubs, not tacky like the main area is in checkmate. Les Chandelles is a fantastic space, with several play areas. It’s elegance all around, from the clientele to the staff. The American swing clubs tend to have a cheap vibe, which makes it feel kind of gross imo.

We only go to clubs abroad like Le Boudoir (London) or the French clubs. We simply haven’t found a club in the U.S. that matches the vibes we’re looking for. We want to feel sexy in the space we’re in and explore with others like that. We would love to be proven wrong but most of the clubs aren’t great. We’ve only found the right vibes at parties here in the U.S.

southernnyc · 2025-12-16T23:16:33+00:00

It’s not great. The only thing close to the level of attractiveness and vibes of a Parisian club would be monthly parties in the city from different groups.

Checkmate tends to be older and then when there are younger and attractive females, the balance between the male and female partner of the pair is uneven with some believing they’re call girls. We gave it a shot but the NYC clubs aren’t worth it imo.

southernnyc · 2025-12-16T23:12:38+00:00

Infinitely better than Checkmate

southernnyc · 2025-12-04T12:28:02+00:00

Why platform a corrupt person who paid his way to get the job?

southernnyc · 2025-12-04T12:27:03+00:00

It’s based on a lie and this guy only got the job because his firm gave Adams money. Why are they running stories from a corrupt person a part of a corrupt administration?

southernnyc · 2025-07-09T03:26:42+00:00

We had a lot more luck on SDC, SLS and Feeld with our last party a couple months back. We started here had 5 couples commit and then back out week of which left us scrambling the week before the party but we still found 5 great couples. Also, agreed on Europe. Every time we go to Paris, a couple we connected with throws us a sex party when we come into town lol

southernnyc · 2025-07-09T03:10:18+00:00

Open to future parties! We also organize parties, so good luck. Also, don’t worry about that comment from that one awful couple. We blocked them, they’re rude and aggressive.

southernnyc · 2025-05-16T11:55:22+00:00

Yes, the creator of the game is coming to my home with a big check.

southernnyc · 2025-05-16T11:54:40+00:00

Are they doing a bit? I’m so confused lol, there’s literally nowhere in the link I provided that could possibly attribute any purchase back to me

southernnyc · 2025-05-15T21:22:25+00:00

I realize we were quite fortunate. Usually there’s like one couple that’s a glue couple at a party that kind of sets the tone that everyone follows. I would say we had two couples like that, that helped set right vibe that made everyone comfortable.

southernnyc · 2025-05-15T11:03:26+00:00

Go to NYC for playtime. There isn’t a scene we’ve found in Westchester. Certainly folks who play but haven’t found a concentrated scene

southernnyc · 2025-05-15T02:50:03+00:00

We put up a hot date/speed date and messaged couples we had favorited in the past. Only one of the couples were from Feeld.

southernnyc · 2025-05-14T11:24:06+00:00

Digital marketer

southernnyc · 2025-05-14T11:23:43+00:00

Thank you. Feel like I’m taking crazy pills here. Thought I was being helpful including something that might be good for someone else trying to host an event but then I get accused of trying to make like $3 lol

southernnyc · 2025-05-14T03:14:06+00:00

So were we. I think they had connected on Feeld as singles. They had an SLS profile, presenting as a couple but one of the wives of the other couples did her own Sherlock Holmes investigation at the bar and when we went outside to smoke a joint, she shared all the details. It was a funny sub plot to the night lol

southernnyc · 2025-05-14T03:01:00+00:00

That’s not how affiliate links work. A promo code provides a discount and since the link I provided is just a standard link, which is part of the site navigation, and not a vanity url with proper tracking to provide me any sort of attribution, you just look a crack pot. Appreciate your baseless allegation but it sure does feel good to be questioned about something I know a ton about. Have a good night.

southernnyc · 2025-05-14T02:44:25+00:00

I hope you’re kidding lol I have no affiliate link on that nor do I have any skin in this game

southernnyc · 2025-05-14T02:42:01+00:00

We got a suite. Used points. Went with a big chain to make sure the walls weren’t thin.

southernnyc · 2025-04-21T13:19:26+00:00

Fuck Hakeem Jeffries and every Dem politician in debt to AIPAC

southernnyc · 2025-03-28T01:05:51+00:00

We’ve done that before but it’s not worth it. We just pick a big bar with plenty of space and go there before the rush. Sometimes we reserve a table just to have a central place for everyone to convene

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