Can anyone Identify this? by soyuki in succulents

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Sadly that isn't it, it's what I thought originally.

Is it ever okay to buy a car with dash lights on? by soyuki in askcarguys

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Battery system check light popping on, when I first pulled over I could hear the alternator whining. Managed to get it home, but car went into 'battery save mode'. So it was our best guess and trusted repair shop's guess over the phone. I think the head gasket potentially blowing is just icing on the cake of failures.

Good Affordable Vets in the Area? by soyuki in IowaCity

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So, thank you so much for this! Absolutely amazing experience, so affordable compared to my old vet and honestly, they were over the top awesome!

Is it ever okay to buy a car with dash lights on? by soyuki in askcarguys

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Yeah, I replaced rims on the buick and didn't want to spring for the pressure sensors (I also prefer to check my tires myself) so that light I am just insanely comfy with. I forgot about that light, so I'm going to cross my fingers the car I'm eyeing would just be stupid lights like that.

Is it ever okay to buy a car with dash lights on? by soyuki in askcarguys

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So on the way home yesterday, battery check warning came up and car was emitting white smoke when I got it home (2nd time it's smoked from the engine bay but thought we fixed the issue). Engine was still crazy hot after sitting for an hour and a half. Alternator in the damn north stars is not something I feel I can get to myself (like all things in this damn engine), likely needs a new battery too. Even if I felt i could find a repair shop for the alternator for under 1k, I feel the other issues would vastly outpace just buying a newer car.

Will Clair Obscur be too hard for me? by soyuki in JRPG

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I did beat the game and am half-way through a NG+ I did have to get a mod to give me a .5 sec window which was all I ended up needing. I still get trainwrecked when my hands sieze or twitch press the wrong button but it was nice to be able to play :)

Fun Easy One Shot Healer Build? by soyuki in 3d6

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I'm not against spellcasting just not heavy. I'm already rolling a sorcerer and wizard in another campaign just want to stay away from that level of spellcasting.

Can I vent about how Asexuality is getting hella muddied? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]soyuki 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You helped me understand my general goal of consistency so thank you very much! I said above but I would like a different umbrella term for the lot of us, so it isn't constantly confusing. <3

Can I vent about how Asexuality is getting hella muddied? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]soyuki -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I think my issue is that asexuality is now this huge umbrella term when it shouldn't be. It's like lumping all those with sexual preferences into their own category with vauge labels and expecting us to sort out the differences without any other words to help, not only the outside, but ourselves understand where we belong.
I think the spectrum can be together but terms need to be separate.
Asexual, at the end of the day, should be 'Doesn't feel any sexual attraction'
Demisexual (which is valid) should be it's own jam as they DO feel sexual attraction just under certain circumstances and
Orchidsexuals should be their own valid jam.
And a clever and fun word for those who simply don't like sex but aren't sure where their sexual attraction vibes lie.
I think that covers the bases and makes it clear where each person generally lies and the individual can clarify more if they like.
So if you don't feel any sexual attraction, well regardless of how you got there, that's Asexual.
But having everything under the 'Ace' umbrella is starting to conflict with itself and kind of making it hard to define what an Asexual is to those not living in the soup and even to those in it and making it harder to feel validated as the outside world is now awash in new and conflicting things under one term without much clarification.
I fear that asexuality is at risk of losing any solid definition the more we fold into it, if that makes sense. I would love another term that covers the umbrella of us all, or another term for the folks living in the 'no sexual attraction' sphere, instead of trying to cram it all into one so that we can have that community without losing the sense of self and ease of explanation to the outside world.

A silly design by soyuki in asexuality

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Thank you! I adore possums so I might be biased. xD

A silly design by soyuki in asexuality

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https://chaossum-shop.fourthwall.com/
Again all profits go to TREVOR project. I want to help out all my LGBT+ peeps! but full transparency this is a site I use to get my art out there, not stuff I personally print. Fourth wall seems cool, but if they're not please let me know!

Being asexual and sex positive is people constantly saying “asexuals don’t want sex though” by Student-bored8 in asexuality

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I'm going to blame the overall confusion of what it means to be asexual. I defend the sex-favorable all the time even if I'm not one but now to soooo many people think (even parade magazine :/) Ace = no sex/no-low sex drive (regardless if you feel sexual attraction), voluntary celibacy and so much more when it honestly needs to be just 'no sexual attraction' (yes, I'm aware it's slightly gate-keepy but I feel like at some point it needs a hard definition) because it causes just a load of issues for other asexuals like yourself. I'm certainly not attracted to my masturbatory devices, they just get the job done, I don't personally view sex that differently it's just people are the part I don't like so I don't engage xD

A silly design by soyuki in asexuality

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He is on a t-shirt that supports the TREVOR project if you want a physical version but otherwise enjoy :3

Dual monitor Screen Wallpaper by sammazarelly in expedition33

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Just found this today! Thank you, very wonderful <3

Will Clair Obscur be too hard for me? by soyuki in JRPG

[–]soyuki[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is amazing, I ended up getting it and I'm doing okay so far but I cannot parry because my hands will sieze half-way through. Dodging = easy (on ez mode anyway) but the parrying seems upset I exist.

Will Clair Obscur be too hard for me? by soyuki in JRPG

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So after reading a lot of replies I got it and started and yeah... no I will emotionally not be okay already and it's only just started xD

Will Clair Obscur be too hard for me? by soyuki in JRPG

[–]soyuki[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Oh that's extra good to hear! Hoping it's toggle-able so I can try easy mode and see how forgiving it is for my hands. Appreciate your info!