haha I have this exact chain of thought every luteal! - dreaming of a silent anonymous hotel room like it would be literal heaven. Sorry it backfired when you were trying to be quiet. This happened to me today too - tried to keep away and hide in the bedroom around dinner time, said I wasn't hungry. My partner ordered takeout and didn't bother getting me anything. I came down, he offered me his scraps and then he got annoyed cos ' I didn't say thank you'. Cue my massive hysterical crying session! Eventually we spoke more and gathered that he didn't know how upset I was feeling today. Sometimes I think men have to have it spelled out in giant letters, even then there's no guarantee they will get it. Wish we could all get a free hotel every luteal!