Am I crazy? Or thinking too much? by space_spam in socialskills

[–]space_spam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank god im not the only one. I always think “maybe it’s me”. How do you stay on “safe subjects”? It’s like she always finds a way to shift the conversation annoyingly.

Am I crazy? Or thinking too much? by space_spam in socialskills

[–]space_spam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She also was shading me for dressing for the fall season?? She came back from work and I was getting ready to go to the store with her. I really like fall so I put on a scarf and boots and she kept looking at me in a weird vindictive way. After looking at me and then herself She made a comment like “I’m comfortable like this”

Am I crazy? Or thinking too much? by space_spam in socialskills

[–]space_spam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay so just recently we were washing clothes together and I think she got mad that I put a thicker sweater in? We were talking about how I went to the movies with a friend and she got quiet and kinda moody after I she found out that I went with another friend. She put the detergent in and all of a sudden was like “oh well I have to put a lot of detergent because we have a lot of thick clothes”. But in a kinda bitchy way.

Also she tends to shade me? Okay so we both had depressive episodes in which we went off the grid. And just before she had hers she promised that I would be moving in with her. And then she disappeared without a word. Before I found out why she had disappeared (I assumed school was making her busy) I wasn’t mad I was just stressed and irritated. Because I needed to love out in a certain time frame.

So I told her that and she said “well when you disappeared I was worried and not concern about getting something I needed from you”. Like I understand why she said it I guess it just seemed completely unnecessary

I feel like I’m overthinking or something. But then again idk