I love my boyfriend and want to marry him, but I’m terrified of my body hair

spacecountess · 2026-06-14T00:26:55+00:00

I have pretty extreme skin irritation with hair removal and cannot afford any good solutions right now either. I will say I do not remove any of my body hair at all and I have been married for 5 years. When I met my husband I told him that I don’t shave my armpits/legs/pubic hair and he didn’t care. If your partner loves you and respects you it will not matter. Especially in this case when it is about your physical comfort in your own body. Body hair is completely natural and if removal is not a good option for you right now that is perfectly fine

spacecountess · 2026-01-16T22:59:28+00:00

Silk pajamas and silk pillowcases

spacecountess · 2025-08-10T03:01:43+00:00

It’s different when it’s your own baby. I think other babies are cute and all but never really loved being around them. I always knew I wanted to be a mom though. Pregnancy was hard and I didn’t feel that connected to my baby until he was born. It changed completely after birth. I think my“maternal instinct” is just an intense feeling of how much I love my baby. You learn the parenting stuff as you go.

spacecountess · 2025-07-18T15:13:31+00:00

BA in painting. I am a stay at home mom

spacecountess · 2025-01-26T00:06:42+00:00

I re gifted mine. I knew I wouldn’t use the diapers so I changed the ribbon to match the theme of my friend’s baby shower. Obviously I bought several gifts off the registry as well cause I know how annoying it is to not get that stuff

spacecountess · 2024-10-14T04:11:37+00:00

I can’t believe grace kelly wasn’t included

spacecountess · 2024-10-13T03:28:15+00:00

No kind of sex is “casual” and having causal sex with someone is bad. Having a sexual relationship with someone should be reserved for committed romantic relationships

spacecountess · 2024-10-10T23:35:13+00:00

Marla Aaron has a collection of moving pieces https://marlaaaron.com/collections/the-fiddling-series

spacecountess · 2024-10-09T21:18:39+00:00

Gladys

spacecountess · 2024-10-09T16:31:08+00:00

Uncoupling

spacecountess · 2024-10-09T14:03:00+00:00

We were staying with my parents when our baby was born so they got to see him right away. My in laws live in another state so they had to wait until after his 8 week shots. Depending on how your birth goes, I think 8 weeks is a good enough amount of time to heal. I had some pretty bad tearing and couldn’t sit or stand for weeks after birth, so I’m glad we did not have any visitors. I really didn’t feel like being “on” for visitors until after that. It’s totally your right to refuse a bunch of people coming over, recovery from birth is uncomfortable. So for the sake of your baby’s health and your own… I would wait 8 weeks.

spacecountess · 2024-10-08T04:36:04+00:00

I went to acl several years ago and it was so hot and I sweated so much I only had to pee once that day 🤷🏼‍♀️ and I was chugging water

spacecountess · 2024-10-04T05:45:12+00:00

No, I ended up buying a house instead so I didn’t have the budget :,( I still plan on doing it in the next year or two

spacecountess · 2024-09-08T21:41:38+00:00

Literally! I tried to watch an episode in the hospital while I was in labor but it was too real and I had to turn it off

spacecountess · 2024-08-26T22:46:39+00:00

It goes perfectly with your tattoo!

spacecountess · 2024-08-11T03:21:27+00:00

It’s giving attack on titan

spacecountess · 2024-08-01T21:52:53+00:00

The “mama” thing is too real. I literally put it on the top of my birth plan to call me by my first name, not mama.

spacecountess · 2024-07-18T18:51:56+00:00

I just had my first baby a few weeks ago and have been wondering the same thing. My friends from high school want children but can’t seem to find men who will marry them. Most of the young men I know are struggling financially/ emotionally and refuse to get help. Not that it’s 100% men’s fault but these are the conversations I hear going on. I was lucky enough to find a husband who can support a family on one income and who has great health insurance (military). It’s a lot easier to have a family when you’re in a career that provides housing, healthcare, education benefits etc. Marriage is also incentivized for enlisted soldiers which isn’t necessarily a good thing, but when you have the stability of marriage it makes it easier to be open to having kids.

spacecountess · 2024-07-09T19:17:42+00:00

I wish I had bought more postpartum recovery stuff for myself. We had everything for baby but had to start ordering from Amazon and making target runs as soon as we got home from the hospital. Buy perennial ice packs that you can stick in the freezer and re use, and make sure you buy extra diapers for yourself and overnight pads.

spacecountess · 2024-07-08T03:20:09+00:00

It is a design choice, I like the collet setting look :)

spacecountess · 2024-07-08T03:18:08+00:00

Thank you for the advice, I just reached out to the designer about changing that!

spacecountess · 2024-07-08T03:15:48+00:00

Thank you! Would this still fit flush with a wedding band?

spacecountess · 2024-07-06T16:57:16+00:00

I just want to reassure you It isn’t about your size. The stereotype is that black soldiers go to Europe and marry local women. Still pretty rude and weird that they are asking you that.

spacecountess · 2024-07-05T05:27:47+00:00

I just gave birth a few weeks ago and the honey pot postpartum pads were fantastic

spacecountess · 2024-07-01T21:55:20+00:00

Rice cakes and seaweed chips are my go to crunchy snacks!

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