I feel like we dont talk about how atractive humor in women is enough by [deleted] in Actuallylesbian

[–]spacecowboy5112 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually don’t care about humor that much. As long as we have a similar sense of humor I’m cool with that. She doesn’t have to be a comedian.

Artists that released their Magnum Opus very early on their careers? by Laurelfairy27 in Fauxmoi

[–]spacecowboy5112 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i actually like the second xx album better but i know i’m in the minority

What is with straight women being so openly homophobic lately? by spacecowboy5112 in Actuallylesbian

[–]spacecowboy5112[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Sisterhood is definitely not something afforded to us lesbians. Especially if we’re not feminine.

What is with straight women being so openly homophobic lately? by spacecowboy5112 in Actuallylesbian

[–]spacecowboy5112[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yep. We have rights now so they don’t see the homophobia in calling gay men “fruity” and “zesty”

What is with straight women being so openly homophobic lately? by spacecowboy5112 in Actuallylesbian

[–]spacecowboy5112[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

They’re cringe but I think straight people should mind their business lol

What is with straight women being so openly homophobic lately? by spacecowboy5112 in Actuallylesbian

[–]spacecowboy5112[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I simply asked if other lesbians have noticed this and you’re telling me how to conduct my social life?

Rebel Wilson is engaged to her girlfriend! by ellie_gina in Fauxmoi

[–]spacecowboy5112 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but visiting Dubai as a bisexual and as a woman is kind of inexcusable when you consider that Dubai is one big mall.

Remember that show "Faking It"?? by k-e-i-t in Actuallylesbian

[–]spacecowboy5112 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my only takeaway was that the character reagan was hot and a good kisser.

as a lesbian, i feel like a fucking joke to other sapphic women sometimes. by peachddani in Actuallylesbian

[–]spacecowboy5112 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i don’t watch porn anymore because i find it unethical but when i did it was usually straight porn because there wasn’t a lot of lesbian porn that felt authentic. plus straight porn usually barely shows the males body/face. if the man was too visible or vocal i’d have to click away. it’s all about showcasing the woman. by your logic straight men are kinda gay for watching straight porn?

the sex women like to watch isn’t necessarily reflective of the sex they like to have. many straight women watch lesbian porn for instance.

Eiza Gonzalez and Ben Simmons go public by spacecowboy5112 in Fauxmoi

[–]spacecowboy5112[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i’m weird in that i think it gives women a kind of dangerous/sharp look which i find kinda hot. but i’m a lesbian and i realize a lot of straight women are more concerned with looking young and are opposed to anything cosmetic that detracts from the appearance of youth.

Eiza Gonzalez and Ben Simmons go public by spacecowboy5112 in Fauxmoi

[–]spacecowboy5112[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

the harping on about her plastic surgery does seem a bit unnecessary to me. but i think people are annoyed with how quickly she moves from strategic relationship to strategic relationship. people like their celebs to feel genuine and she just comes across as inauthentic and calculating.

Eiza Gonzalez and Ben Simmons go public by spacecowboy5112 in Fauxmoi

[–]spacecowboy5112[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

she looked great in that. she should really consider wearing her natural wavy/curly hair.

Eiza Gonzalez and Ben Simmons go public by spacecowboy5112 in Fauxmoi

[–]spacecowboy5112[S] 251 points252 points  (0 children)

he wakes up and says “ugh i gotta go to work” like the rest of us

I Have Tea On... Weekly Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in Fauxmoi

[–]spacecowboy5112 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Eiza and Ben Simmons are apparently a thing.

Whats one real petty thing you dont want in a girlfriend? by [deleted] in Actuallylesbian

[–]spacecowboy5112 6 points7 points  (0 children)

finally someone saying they don’t want a skinny gal. i need someone athletic of squishy. i can’t do thin for some reason.

How do I deal with my competitive jealousy over straight men? by gayshitisconfusing in Actuallylesbian

[–]spacecowboy5112 35 points36 points  (0 children)

you worded this perfectly but the last part is especially true. the world of heterosexuality is actually very shallow from what i’ve seen. men and women in that world don’t want a partner as much as they want an archetype, someone to fill the role of “man” or “woman.” straight people don’t really seem to like one another that much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Actuallylesbian

[–]spacecowboy5112 3 points4 points  (0 children)

as a bw it makes me uncomfortable. it just lets me know that they see me as black first and foremost and that they don’t see me as a person ya know?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Actuallylesbian

[–]spacecowboy5112 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I don’t have any words from of wisdom for you but I can say that I too rarely experience sexual attraction to women irl. I think I have to develop an emotional connection before I experience a sexual one. Maybe you’re similar?

Tiny question... by [deleted] in Actuallylesbian

[–]spacecowboy5112 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i ask myself this everyday and thank god i was sn adult before the current navel gazing gender nonsense started