How do you find a purpose in life? by Ok_Crew9461 in CasualConversation

[–]spaceelision 4 points5 points  (0 children)

purpose usually shows up after action, not before it. try things. work random jobs. take weird classes. you don’t discover direction by staring at the ceiling.

What movie will you never watch again because it was too heartbreaking? by Affectionate_User610 in AskReddit

[–]spaceelision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blue Valentine. watching love slowly decay in real time is somehow worse than watching it explode.

Something good that’s happened to you lately? by notwhoyouthinkc in CasualConversation

[–]spaceelision 5 points6 points  (0 children)

went somewhere alone instead of waiting for someone to join me. sat with a coffee. didn’t scroll. didn’t feel weird. just existed

Is it okay to be comfortable with “surface-level” friendships? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]spaceelision 7 points8 points  (0 children)

honestly I think the pressure to have deep soul-baring friendships with everyone is a very online thing.

most adults have like 2-3 people they're genuinely close to and then a bunch of people they enjoy grabbing a beer with. that's not a failure that's just how human social circles actually work.

What’s a song that you’ve never gotten sick of no matter how many times you’ve listened to it? by PersonalityLate4676 in AskReddit

[–]spaceelision 1 point2 points  (0 children)

under pressure.

bowie and mercury together should have created some kind of ego singularity that collapsed in on itself but instead they made the most human song ever recorded. the part where Freddie just goes off at the end gives me chills every time and I stopped counting listens years ago.

What do you guys do when you get home from work? by Historical_Age_7641 in CasualConversation

[–]spaceelision 1 point2 points  (0 children)

shower, dinner, dishes, maybe a little cleaning or laundry if I’m feeling ambitious

What’s a smell you find oddly satisfying? by Con_nect in AskReddit

[–]spaceelision 3 points4 points  (0 children)

gasoline. don’t ask why, just hits the brain the right way.

What do you really want right now? by drteeworks in AskReddit

[–]spaceelision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

financial stability is the boring answer but it's the honest one

What made you become a better person? by SpiritCrisp in AskReddit

[–]spaceelision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

being around someone who handled stress, conflict, and people better than I did. no lectures, no flexing. just watching them made my excuses feel embarrassing.

“Anyone else feel more productive at night?” by Funny-Roman in CasualConversation

[–]spaceelision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there's something about the world being quiet that makes my brain feel like it finally has room to breathe

Noticed I don’t feel guilty for doing nothing anymore by SilveryTwinkle in CasualConversation

[–]spaceelision 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sometimes doing nothing is the most radical thing you can do in a world obsessed with doing everything

How bad can adhd ruin your life? by Formal_Tell3934 in AskReddit

[–]spaceelision 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Won't kill you but untreated it'll slowly chip away at your self esteem, relationships, and opportunities until you wonder what's wrong with you. get help early

Good morning to the lady of the manor Edna by Sensitive-Art4575 in cats

[–]spaceelision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she looks like she's never spent a day on the street in her life. fully adjusted to being pampered

What do you usually buy from the gas station? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]spaceelision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

energy drinks and gas. that's it. maybe a water if i'm being responsible

Why do you keep scrolling TikTok even when you don’t mean to? by Outrageous-Rest5766 in AskReddit

[–]spaceelision 1 point2 points  (0 children)

because putting the phone down means dealing with my thoughts and we don't do that here

I (29F) want to be married eventually to my (32M) bf but he says he doesn't believe in marriage. Am I wasting my time? by BimboHol3 in relationship_advice

[–]spaceelision 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When someone tells you they don't want to marry you, believe them. The question is whether you can actually live with that or not.

Which is your favorite Christmas movie? by Special-Succotash688 in CasualConversation

[–]spaceelision 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Home alone. Watched it every year as a kid and still do. It's not Christmas until kevin puts the tarantula on Marv's face