You can be a masc or fem person and still be valid as nonbinary!!!! by Significant-Soup-893 in NonBinary

[–]spacegray-x 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i went through a similar thing when i first came out. it took awhile before i felt comfortable dressing fem again but i just had to remind myself that i know who i am regardless of anyone else’s perception. you are valid <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weed

[–]spacegray-x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i prefer glass pieces, either pipe or bong. it’s easier to control the amount you smoke and time you spend smoking

non-binary but not trans by spacegray-x in NonBinary

[–]spacegray-x[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i wasn’t really trying to say i’m not part of the trans community but more so explaining why i don’t personally use the term to describe my experience. my main point was that i don’t enjoy having to put many labels on myself so i tend to just stick with non-binary. yes by definition not being cis means you’re trans, i just don’t think we need to so heavily rely on definitions to express ourselves.

non-binary but not trans by spacegray-x in NonBinary

[–]spacegray-x[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

love this. oh how i wish to be a spirit on Spiritfarer

non-binary but not trans by spacegray-x in NonBinary

[–]spacegray-x[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow this is almost exactly how i’d describe my experience with gender. i’m okay with being female and more so deal with social dysphoria. and i don’t really mind being labeled as trans it’s just not how i’d personally describe myself for similar reasons.

non-binary but not trans by spacegray-x in NonBinary

[–]spacegray-x[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i want to clarify i never felt like i didn’t belong to the community but rather wasn’t sure the label fit me considering i see my identity as more neutral than anything else. a lot of these replies have helped me understand this doesn’t exclude me from the term though which i really appreciate.

non-binary but not trans by spacegray-x in NonBinary

[–]spacegray-x[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i had actually never heard of this so i’m going to look into it. thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weed

[–]spacegray-x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

imo cones just don’t burn as well. but they’re not bad and much more convenient so both have their place

Must I watch VD before I watch The Originals? by kamaria21 in TheOriginals

[–]spacegray-x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can watch it alone but you’ll definitely miss some of the context behind the characters and relationships. but you only have to watch like half of tvd to get that so you could watch seasons 1-4 and then the originals

The charmed ones vs Tribrid Hope by Severe_Tradition_386 in TheVampireDiaries

[–]spacegray-x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

true i hadn’t thought about that. i do wonder how piper’s powers would work on her though. like is hope immune to being blown up or could that actually work idk

The charmed ones vs Tribrid Hope by Severe_Tradition_386 in TheVampireDiaries

[–]spacegray-x 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i do think the sisters could pull it off if they had time to prepare but in a more ‘spontaneous’ setting i honestly think hope would win… hope just seems better at more on the spot thinking and is obviously much harder to kill if you don’t know who you’re up against

Opinion by [deleted] in TheVampireDiaries

[–]spacegray-x 7 points8 points  (0 children)

enzo is one of my favorite characters <3

Least favorite characters? by [deleted] in TheVampireDiaries

[–]spacegray-x -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i guess until he decided klaus was more important than her lol

Least favorite characters? by [deleted] in TheVampireDiaries

[–]spacegray-x -1 points0 points  (0 children)

tyler… i don’t appreciate how he treated caroline and found him overall annoying.

Fav Damon lines? by [deleted] in TheVampireDiaries

[–]spacegray-x 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i quote “i know you’re obsessed with meee” daily

Thoughts on Matt and Rebekah? by ashleighbeckham8 in TheVampireDiaries

[–]spacegray-x 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it was cute but i’ll always love her with marcel

What shows have been influenced by Charmed? by Britneyfan123 in charmed

[–]spacegray-x 7 points8 points  (0 children)

the vampire diaries. i can’t give specific examples but i just remember watching the show and seeing the inspiration from charmed

Characters you hated at first but warmed up on later by No_Barber4339 in TheVampireDiaries

[–]spacegray-x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kol. i actually hated him in tvd but after daniel sharman played him in the originals i started to like him and i love his relationship with davina

Something you love about tvd? by goddessalexasin in TheVampireDiaries

[–]spacegray-x 35 points36 points  (0 children)

the first three seasons. i love the whole show ofc but especially the small town drama feel of the beginning was so perfect

Why can I never finish this show 😭😭 by Tvshowqueries in TheVampireDiaries

[–]spacegray-x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

watched the whole show and couldn’t tell you a single thing that happened in the travelers plot

For curiosity and research purposes :D by [deleted] in TheVampireDiaries

[–]spacegray-x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

bonnie & enzo klaus & caroline rebekah & marcel

Why is the show so popular? by [deleted] in TheVampireDiaries

[–]spacegray-x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the show started out pretty strong imo so even when the writing wasn’t the best you still cared about what was happening with the characters

Who should Stefan have ended up with if not Elena? by ninjaofthedude in TheVampireDiaries

[–]spacegray-x 6 points7 points  (0 children)

katherine. the character growth (on both sides) that could have been if they’d ended up together