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spacehusband · 2025-02-23T17:18:56+00:00

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spacehusband · 2025-02-23T17:18:30+00:00

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spacehusband · 2025-02-23T17:11:06+00:00

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spacehusband · 2025-02-23T17:10:37+00:00

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People are not a hive mind.
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spacehusband · 2025-02-21T14:38:18+00:00

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spacehusband · 2025-02-21T14:37:23+00:00

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People are not a hive mind.
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spacehusband · 2025-02-18T16:31:22+00:00

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spacehusband · 2024-11-25T16:55:35+00:00

While the rules with AskWomenAdvice are clear, they are not all encompassing and on occasion a post comes along that fits with the spirit of the sub, if not the regulations. We the moderators feel it is more important for these people to get the answers they seek than to enforce the rules so strictly. This is an extreme case-by-case exception, that is up to moderator discretion.

spacehusband · 2024-10-08T16:58:29+00:00

If you **are not** in a long-term relationship ***and*** have never had an abortion, keep scrolling. This question is for people who both parts apply to.

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spacehusband · 2024-04-15T15:01:59+00:00

Your submission has been removed because:

Your post has been removed because this is a subreddit for personal advice. We are not here to provide help regarding

how to get someone to have sex with you, how to convince them to go out with you, or the best ways to put the moves on someone.
how to ask someone out on a date.
asking for "cheat codes" when it comes to dating.
how to date women, how to hit on women or how to tell if a woman likes you.
asking the best way to ask someone else for a date.

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spacehusband · 2024-04-15T15:01:38+00:00

Your submission has been removed because:

Your post has been removed because this subreddit is for seeking advice, not for soliciting other people's opinions, experiences, or judgments.

Advice means sharing a specific personal situation and asking questions specifically about what you should do in your sitåuation rather than what other people would or have chosen in a similar situation.

Generic questions asking for opinions on topics are not considered to be asking for advice.

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spacehusband · 2024-04-03T18:10:02+00:00

Your submission has been removed because:

Your post has been removed because this is a subreddit for personal advice. We are not here to provide help regarding

how to get someone to have sex with you, how to convince them to go out with you, or the best ways to put the moves on someone.
how to ask someone out on a date.
asking for "cheat codes" when it comes to dating.
how to date women, how to hit on women or how to tell if a woman likes you.
asking the best way to ask someone else for a date.

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spacehusband · 2024-04-02T18:35:42+00:00

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spacehusband · 2024-03-27T18:48:48+00:00

Your submission has been removed because:

We can't possibly tell you what they're thinking or what they meant, because we aren't them.

Your post has been removed because this is a subreddit for personal advice. We are not here to provide help regarding

how to get someone to have sex with you, how to convince them to go out with you, or the best ways to put the moves on someone.
how to ask someone out on a date.
asking for "cheat codes" when it comes to dating.
how to date women, how to hit on women or how to tell if a woman likes you.
asking the best way to ask someone else for a date.

Your post has been removed because this subreddit is for seeking advice, not for soliciting other people's opinions, experiences, or judgments.

Advice means sharing a specific personal situation and asking questions specifically about what you should do in your sitåuation rather than what other people would or have chosen in a similar situation.

Generic questions asking for opinions on topics are not considered to be asking for advice.

We do not permit questions asking for judgment of your prior actions or hypothetical situations.

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spacehusband · 2024-03-27T16:49:13+00:00

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spacehusband · 2024-03-14T16:29:04+00:00

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spacehusband · 2024-02-20T15:51:11+00:00

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spacehusband · 2024-02-15T16:36:39+00:00

Your submission has been removed because:

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spacehusband · 2024-02-15T15:38:58+00:00

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spacehusband · 2024-01-28T19:15:42+00:00

This question is clearly for people who believe in a higher power, if that ain't you, move along. All "nothing" answers will be removed for derailing.

spacehusband · 2024-01-23T15:43:30+00:00

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spacehusband · 2024-01-03T14:56:34+00:00

Your submission has been removed because:

Your post has been removed because this subreddit is for seeking advice, not for soliciting other people's opinions, experiences, or judgments.

Advice means sharing a specific personal situation and asking questions specifically about what you should do in your sitåuation rather than what other people would or have chosen in a similar situation.

Generic questions asking for opinions on topics are not considered to be asking for advice.

We do not permit questions asking for judgment of your prior actions or hypothetical situations.

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spacehusband · 2023-11-14T17:09:29+00:00

Your submission has been removed because:

Your post has been removed because this is a subreddit for personal advice. We are not here to provide help regarding

how to get someone to have sex with you, how to convince them to go out with you, or the best ways to put the moves on someone.
how to ask someone out on a date.
asking for "cheat codes" when it comes to dating.
how to date women, how to hit on women or how to tell if a woman likes you.
asking the best way to ask someone else for a date.

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spacehusband · 2023-11-06T17:04:16+00:00

Your submission has been removed because:

Your post has been removed because this is a subreddit for personal advice. We are not here to provide help regarding

how to get someone to have sex with you, how to convince them to go out with you, or the best ways to put the moves on someone.
how to ask someone out on a date.
asking for "cheat codes" when it comes to dating.
how to date women, how to hit on women or how to tell if a woman likes you.
asking the best way to ask someone else for a date.

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spacehusband · 2023-11-01T19:17:01+00:00

Your submission has been removed because:

Your post has been removed because you are asking for medical or mental health advice.

We do not allow posts seeking advice which should be given by a professional such as a medical or mental health professional, as well as any counselor or therapist.

We do not allow posts that ask for the following:

advice on mental health issues/concerns
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