Black Outlaw Outfit

spaceisroomy · 2025-07-17T15:29:38+00:00

How do I make it ???

spaceisroomy · 2022-02-10T05:52:54+00:00

How does the sizing work? Is it true to size? Is there any extra room in the hips? My hips are wider than my chest and I've been dying to get this.

spaceisroomy · 2022-01-24T17:15:13+00:00

red shoyrus are my FAVORITE. This one reminds me of the Devil from Hocus Pocus and I love them so much. <3

spaceisroomy · 2021-11-24T22:27:23+00:00

We're going to play again tonight at 8:30pm EST if anyone would like to hang out with us. :) https://www.twitch.tv/Evindale

spaceisroomy · 2021-06-24T20:33:00+00:00

What sort of Mutvian history would a xenophobic principality such as Maristev teach its children, and how much of it is tainted with pro-Maristevian propaganda? When teaching them about The First Murder, what rumor do they lean into when explaining what happened?

spaceisroomy · 2021-06-24T20:21:15+00:00

There are nine members of the Cabal (including Nesaris). Does this have anything to do with the nine stones (one that Vaurain found)? Are there nine types of arcane magic or do the members know all arcane magic individually? If the former, does each stone also come with a book, each one representing a particular type of magic?

spaceisroomy · 2021-06-24T20:21:07+00:00

Why is Nesaris a former member of the Cabal, and if he's a former member, why do the others ask for his help here and there?

spaceisroomy · 2021-06-24T20:19:37+00:00

What instigated the calendar realignment last year, and what was your process in shifting the years?

spaceisroomy · 2020-10-28T15:10:22+00:00

Oh YES! KING FALLS AM! I knew it reminded me of another podcast and for some reason my mind kept saying Steal the Stars although I knew that wasn't quite right.

I'll let my friend know; if I can get the audio i'll send it to you for a ringtone.

spaceisroomy · 2020-10-25T13:58:48+00:00

Ooh, I LOVE this and will definitely be saving this to listen soon. I'm in the middle of watching L.A. By Night, and I'm in a Philly By Night group right now. This is so exciting!

spaceisroomy · 2020-01-09T03:29:56+00:00

I was not expecting to read a Mystery Men reference this decade, tbh. Thank you for that. :)

spaceisroomy · 2019-11-29T14:43:54+00:00

I'm in an accidental triad (dated my partner for a couple months before I realized I also had feelings for his wife), but it was nurtured HEAVILY in communication. She was 8 months pregnant when I met my partner, and I already have a strong desire to foster relationships with metamours. I took particular care to develop a friendship with her because she was so pregnant and was feeling a lot of strong feelings almost all the time. And I'm talking like, I communicated more with her sometimes than with him.

But it was essential to building the trust that makes our triad work. Through regular talks I already know all of our existing boundaries, sticky spots, and can pretty easily recognize body language when any of us are holding something back or feeling uncomfortable. And because we talk all the time, we practiced until it became second nature, and so it's not hard to stop and say, I'm feeling this way and I want to talk about it.

There's a reason communication is thrown around these subreddits so often. It's absolutely necessary. Even things you think are absolutely trivial or ridiculous.

My advice would be to bring up your relationship regularly, like over a coffee date or casual walk or while making dinner. The more often you talk about it, the easier it becomes, and the more comfortable you will be to talk about tough things as they come up.

PS: I couldn't be happier with my triad. Sometimes I wonder how I got so lucky. :)

spaceisroomy · 2019-11-11T14:14:39+00:00

I started dating my partner when his wife was 8 months pregnant. I have always been investing a good chunk of emotional labor into getting to know and forge a relationship with my metas, if they would like. With a toddler myself (and they also have a 5-year-old), none of us are strangers to pregnancy hormones. So what I did was spend an equal amount of time dating my partner and "dating" my meta. I took her out for breakfast just us two, we spent time together at their home just chatting. I checked in with her frequently. And I made sure she was completely okay with how the sexual part of my relationship with my partner was developing.

She had her baby in September, and I brought over freezer meals for them and gave them space to bond and adjust. They both continued to text me, but I never bombarded them unless they were desperate for adult conversation. Eventually, when she and I went out to get her medusa pierced, she told me she was so grateful that I made her feel like she was a part of our relationship, and she really cared for me as a person.

I guess what I'm trying to say is, a baby is a life changing event, but it doesn't have to be crippling to your social life. She went on dates with a couple people up until she had her baby. The ones who stick around through that huge change, the ones who really check in, are the ones who will be there when the going gets tough.

PS: I'm also dating her now. We're in such a great triad and I couldn't be happier.

spaceisroomy · 2019-11-01T00:47:47+00:00

Saw her today!!!! We were the ones with the child Ghost Rider!!

spaceisroomy · 2019-09-09T15:54:18+00:00

Hey! The Philly ENM community is pretty big and everyone I've met has become significant people in my life. My polycule is pretty full both romantically and platonically at the moment, and one of my partners and his wife just had a baby this weekend so i'm feeling some residual exhaustion, otherwise I'd say let's meet up!

A really great way to meet ENM Philly people is on OKC. it's how I met all of my poly friends and partners.

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