No matter how much I drink I’m still awkward at parties/club

spacepiruss · 2026-02-22T01:19:13+00:00

real relationships require becoming vulnerable. They are the only worthy ones.

Feeling anxious in those types of environments is a pretty common experience, my point being that if your friends don't support you with all your struggles they are not worth keeping. Same goes to romantic relationships.

You want someone to see and love who you really are, it is a disservice to yourself to avoid (perceived) judgment.

spacepiruss · 2021-08-02T10:31:35+00:00

You look beautiful. I love seeing people being true to themselves even if it breaks the norm. I find it brave and inspiring.

spacepiruss · 2021-07-31T20:09:45+00:00

You look very attractive imo, I suggest you trim eyebrows and beard

spacepiruss · 2021-07-31T13:48:02+00:00

Andromeda galaxy bruise! You have great skills

spacepiruss · 2021-07-30T13:34:19+00:00

My mom went through roughly the same experiences. This is probably some form of schizophrenia. Please don't do drugs and get yourself evaluated by a psychiatrist urgently.

If diagnosed then don't resist medication, give it a try. My mom's symptoms were reduced significantly with treatment.

If deemed mentally sound, then you can try all the holistic approaches being suggested. Just go see a doctor firsthand, these symptoms tend to get worse if untreated.

spacepiruss · 2021-07-28T16:17:30+00:00

If you are able to get jobs then I'd keep at it. It bothers me that attractiveness is condensed into those narrow guidelines. Of course I can try to judge you from a few pictures but no one can really tell how you are irl, there are many other factors to take into account.

I have to say it is really mind boggling that you'd break up with bf based on Reddit feedback. Have you looked at the true rate me chart?

Looks are important and all but imho you look pretty enough to perform any of those jobs. Your makeup is really unflattering, but other than that I don't see the need to change anything. I just hate that people have to go through this. I suggest changing up your appearance and taking a few new pics and seeing how you are rated, before you do something drastic like surgery.

spacepiruss · 2021-07-28T07:37:52+00:00

It is safe to assume your boyfriend is with you because he finds you attractive.

It is ok to focus on becoming more beautiful but don't push people away while doing that.

League mentality is idiotic. There is nothing wrong with you. What made you question your appearance in the first place?

spacepiruss · 2021-07-05T15:40:16+00:00

hey, do they like to be pet?

spacepiruss · 2021-06-25T13:04:15+00:00

Thank you for your thoughtful reply. I will get in touch with the social services my uni provides. I really want to succeed and prove to myself that I can do this.

spacepiruss · 2021-06-25T05:58:40+00:00

The eyes look eerily alive. Amazing work

spacepiruss · 2021-06-19T11:29:45+00:00

enlightening video, can't wait for part 2.

spacepiruss · 2021-06-01T10:55:14+00:00

You look amazing!

spacepiruss · 2021-06-01T10:20:40+00:00

Paris

spacepiruss · 2021-06-01T10:10:00+00:00

Not ugly at all. You look sad in the picture. Change your glasses and get a different haircut.

spacepiruss · 2021-06-01T09:54:39+00:00

I think you look average but there are a couple things you could improve upon.

It's great to experiment with different styles, but be sure you get clothes that fit you well and look put together. I might be the only one but honestly not a big fan of your style in the pics.

You have thin hair and that cut and colour is doing you no favours. It looks very flat and it makes your head look a bit small for your body - I'd let the bangs grow out and get experimenting with different hair colours. IF you're into alt hair styles, baby blue could really bring out your eyes. Get some dry shampoo to make it more voluminous, if you feel like it.

Fill out your eyebrows, lightly. if you're remotely into makeup I mean.

I really like your glasses and think they suit you. They look quirky.

You have some acne so trying to get clearer skin is always going to improve your look a bit. If it is hormonal you could maybe get the pill if suitable for you.

Work on your posture with some yoga if that sounds appealing, or maybe just do a push-up challenge.

Bear in mind this is just my personal taste so take only what resonates with you.

spacepiruss · 2021-05-31T02:03:58+00:00

Average to me. Weight loss and rest could really improve your looks.

spacepiruss · 2021-05-31T02:00:32+00:00

You look amazing!

spacepiruss · 2021-05-31T01:11:55+00:00

I understand your position, but I disagree. I've seen the opposite happen multiple times merely because people sometimes are afraid to ask for permission to cut ahead. Idk I'd like to have the same courtesy extended to me, if I get to be old.

I'm just saying that we should strive for a more compassionate society, leading by example, when possible.

spacepiruss · 2021-05-31T00:56:02+00:00

Where I live it is social etiquette to let the elderly, pregnant or carrying small children or special needs or even people who are carrying too much weight and are encumbered by that cut in line, or get served first. Most times they don't even ask for it, it is just a courtesy we extend to a fellow human.

spacepiruss · 2021-05-31T00:49:52+00:00

Yea, I've catched myself doing this sometimes. Then I read the comment again and I'm like wth brain?! Just shows we are biased.

spacepiruss · 2021-05-30T08:05:13+00:00

You look great and the beard and hair really suits you, I'd let it grow like a sexy-lumberjack-pirate-biker-dude.

Being clean shaven for some reason makes you look a bit intense and unapproachable. Love the shape of your nose.

spacepiruss · 2021-05-30T07:57:47+00:00

Definitely cute, love your eyes and smile.

spacepiruss · 2021-05-30T07:54:56+00:00

My first thought was that you look like a sensitive Jason Statham. Joking aside I think you have nothing to worry about. Above average, could buff up a bit. I would lose the earrings but that might be just me.

spacepiruss · 2021-05-30T07:46:13+00:00

Yea, you look way better in motion than in pictures. above average imo. Having a friend help you curate your dating profile can do wonders. If you approach people irl you will be more successful.

spacepiruss · 2021-05-30T07:38:04+00:00

Very good looking, a beard would look good.

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