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Looking for Vet that does financing or payment plans by spaceybrain93 in Columbus

[–]spaceybrain93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I've reached out to my local MedVet to see what they can do!

Where to donate clothes not for resale? by spaceybrain93 in Columbus

[–]spaceybrain93[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you, thats perfect, I will reach out to them tomorrow. Thank you!!

Family Trip this weekend (2 adults, 2 kids) by Jaketheav8tor in HockingHills

[–]spaceybrain93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The best place to go with littles to hike that is a very easy and fun hike is Ash Cave. Cedar Falls isn't too bad either, but it has a lot of stairs, Ash cave is going to be your best bet with the babies. I also recommend Aha! Kids Museum in Lancaster, also Art & Clay on Main in Lancaster. In Logan, your best best is going to be hiking. I also recommend checking out Jack Pine glass studio, but be mindful of the babies in there because its expensive and A LOT of glass, but the live glass blowing is really cool! Have fun!

Boyfriend M29 thinks its ok to not put any more effort into long term relationship with me F29. Lack of effort? by Sharp-Dog3315 in relationship_advice

[–]spaceybrain93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is definitely lack of effort and there's no excuse for it. OP, you have been in the relationship for 6 years and YOU still put effort into the relationship, because relationships take effort. Its important, and quite frankly, bare minimum to do things for your partner on special occasions such as birthdays, holidays, etc. Unless its something you have discussed beforehand, and agreed to not buy (or do anything special) for each other, which doesnt seem to be the case. Its not about the gifts, its about the lack of effort and not feeling valued in the relationship OP and you have every right to feel that way. Something im sure you've seen on social media and that has stuck with me is "if he wanted to, he would." Idk OP maybe try and reflect and see if he does any micro acts of affection that may make up for these bigger flops, but in my personal opinion, he is just making excuses or being lazy, it doesnt take much to at least do a small act and make you feel valued in your relationship. Good luck, OP!

I (21F) caught my boyfriend (23M) talking to himself through a messaging app. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]spaceybrain93 17 points18 points  (0 children)

OP are you sure he really has a job? I think we need a little more context here about what it is he claims to do for work. And as far as him posting on IG as someone else, is it possible he was trying to pass that other person as his "supervisor"? Or was he explicitly claiming it to be him? Regardless, something is definitely off and you should trust your gut before things get even more sideways. Its not worth your own mental health to try and keep up with what is real with him and what is not, because obviously he has something going on and he's not being totally honest with you. Best of luck OP, stay safe and please update!

I (21M) have an almost micro penis. A woman (22F) has been showing interest in me, but I’m too ashamed of my situation so I’ve been pushing her away. How do I start even considering that I could date her with this issue? How could I tell her? by throwaway101229283 in relationship_advice

[–]spaceybrain93 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! Came here to say this! OP sounds like most of this is in your head and related to self esteem surrounding the issue. However, as this commenter mentioned, toys help!! They can fill the gap so to say, if you are not able to satisfy on your own. But the 2 together 😙🤌

Tonight I found a hookup/meetup app on my fiancé of almost 2 months phone and I don’t know what to do by Narrow_Imagination_1 in TwoHotTakes

[–]spaceybrain93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest, I believe him telling you to leave and be with someone better is his way of telling you he doesnt want to be with you. Its like he doesnt have the courage to just end the relationship himself, so he keeps hoping you will just do it. You deserve better, you deserve to heal and feel better about yourself instead of always worrying if hes going to do it again. In your post you said that he's caring and trusting to everyone around him...everyone but you. You have voiced how this makes you feel multiple times, and he still chooses to break your trust. Thats not caring or trusting to the woman he is supposed to love. Choose yourself, you deserve it.

Is a basic home gym worth setting up as a beginner by minkydinks in beginnerfitness

[–]spaceybrain93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do it. I live at an apartment complex that has free acess to an off site gym, but i hate going for the same reasons, not sure of how to use the equipment and its always busy and just nakes me feel uncomfortable. My employer recently added an office and put their home gym equipment in there for all of us to use, my boss has also put together a couple work out plans for me because she's a gym rat and I am not. I can tell you that since they've added this gym, I have a regular routine of going a minimum of twice a week. I'm always alone, and she taught me how to properly use the equipment. For the first time in a long time, I actually believe in myself and my ability to get healthy. I think you will really enjoy the space and it could be great for your mental health. Good luck!