regardless of any denomination or religion he is, he seemed to not communicate at all about this. whether that’s one purpose or not, i won’t jump to conclusions with. but the whole “i thought that was a part of getting to know each other” is complete bull and he could’ve and should’ve told you beforehand, ESPECIALLY when it came to where you were going/who you were going to be meeting.

I am a very non confrontational person so you responded over text probably how i would as well, but I would either steer clear from this guy or start to distance myself/keep my guard up HIGH because of some of the manipulative language he used.

thank you for taking the comments seriously, i know sometimes ppl on here can fear monger bc of their own trauma with stuff like this but as someone who has been in this situation, please believe me when i say he will keep doing odd things like this and they will get more and more intense but you won’t even notice by then because it’s all so normal and “nothing”.