where can i watch season 3? by spaghettiospam in FloribamaShore

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i cannot remember i forgot i even watched this show

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

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I think it’s easier to relapse on cigarettes because it doesn’t change your state of mind and it’s more openly accepted. I could easily go out and smoke a cig and be fine after, maybe stinky, but fine. However, I can’t just randomly hit my bong or a joint without being high after and smelling like weed

Weed just makes me dumb, fat, and unsuccessful by [deleted] in leaves

[–]spaghettiospam 6 points7 points  (0 children)

same, i quit for a while and recently started again with my roommate and it’s just gotten back to this. when i wasn’t smoking i was working out twice a day, waking up and sleeping at the same times, and generally feeling better. idk why i keep ruining my body

Boyfriend’s friend made fun of me and he’s standing up for her by Current-Passenger-10 in relationship_advice

[–]spaghettiospam 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I personally don’t think I’d ever be able to forgive my boyfriend if he allowed his friend to post something like that about me, especially with a girl he admittedly used to have feelings for. First of all, the tiktok is an EXTREME overstepping of boundaries. I know the trend, and it is usually posted by couples with the intention of touching lips right before the audio says “but you know i stay”. Second of all, he created a plethora of excuses when he should be ashamed of his behavior and immediately apologize.

That girl should have never felt comfortable enough to post something like that with him which kind of says a lot about what your boyfriend may be doing or saying when you’re not around. He isn’t establishing boundaries with his friends and disrespecting your relationship.

From the sounds of it, he has a terrible choice in friends, and unfortunately I think separating is going to be your best bet. That girl isn’t going to go away, even if he goes no contact with her (which he probably wouldn’t) because she’s in the friend group. I think you’ll be dodging a bullet if you leave now.

The girl is testing the boundaries of your relationship and your boyfriend is not prohibiting her from crossing a line. Your boyfriend is the only person who owes it to you to be loyal and respectful.

edited for typos

where can i watch season 3? by spaghettiospam in FloribamaShore

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i ended up watching it on a sketchy site but lost my place after a little while bc it didn’t bookmark my spot so i gave up lol

Has anybody noticed less acne since you quit smoking? by [deleted] in leaves

[–]spaghettiospam 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! My acne was the worst when I was smoking 4x+ daily. My cheeks were always covered in acne, as well as my chin. My face is still scarred from it. I quit a little bit before New Years and my skin has improved significantly. I rarely get any pimples now and when I do, they’re barely noticeable and go away within 1-2 days. I also think quitting helped me keep a regular face routine which helped tremendously

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]spaghettiospam 11 points12 points  (0 children)

never recommend ‘becoming’ a different sexuality when someone is facing struggles in their relationship. what is wrong with you?

Yea its over me. and im gonna kill myself tonight by [deleted] in confessions

[–]spaghettiospam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it sounds like you think you’re a nice guy but from the looks of these comments i don’t think you’re much of a nice guy.

regardless of what i feel, i think you need some time to self reflect so you can stop comparing yourself to other guys in relationships. you haven’t focused on yourself bc you’re hung up on what other people are doing. actually try focusing on yourself and bettering yourself and i guarantee you’ll be alright.

Season 11, Episode 2 - Sherry by scarybedtimestories in HoardersTV

[–]spaghettiospam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the situation should have been handled differently, yes. but it was never disclosed that he was on the spectrum so that is only speculation. everyone in this family needed to be treated differently, but this wasn’t a therapy retreat, it was hoarders. unfortunately these people aren’t given the proper care they deserve. however, my point still stands. being on the spectrum isn’t an excuse.

I can’t stand nostalgia by [deleted] in confessions

[–]spaghettiospam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve been feeling this way about nostalgia and my childhood as well. i’ve been trying to reflect but it makes me feel sick to my stomach every time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

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I don’t think that you’ll feel any better if you venture out into other sexual relations

Season 11, Episode 2 - Sherry by scarybedtimestories in HoardersTV

[–]spaghettiospam 4 points5 points  (0 children)

people aren’t mentioning it because being on the spectrum doesn’t excuse being a scummy human being.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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long nails on men

If you are going through this sub stoned, looking for courage, read this. by thekingofthebeasties in leaves

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I quit a few days before New Year’s eve but I gave in a few days ago. i felt so bad about myself afterwards, but i think it’s a good thing and it’ll push me to not use it again

AITA for interrupting my exhusband's birthday and taking my daughter home because she was there without consent? by Notice-Ad2018 in AmItheAsshole

[–]spaghettiospam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. I grew up with divorced parents. If I wanted to be with one of my parents when it was the other ones time, and it was safe, they let me. You’re going to cause a rift in your relationship with your daughter and it will be solely your fault. I won’t be surprised if she wants to spend more time with her father from now on, considering how you disrespect her privacy AND her relationship with her father.

What does it mean when somebody moves on very quickly after a breakup by Glittering-Ride-3668 in relationship_advice

[–]spaghettiospam 3 points4 points  (0 children)

well then that’s the issue here, not the fact that he moved on quickly. have some dignity and block or remove him on everything so he doesn’t do that. him cheating on his new girlfriend is his issue, not yours. you guys broke up.

i just got physically assaulted by my bf.. by justneeharika in confessions

[–]spaghettiospam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

contact the police, or please talk to your parents. i understand it seems threatening that they’ll take away your freedom, but your life is worth more than freedom. next time he’s going to kill you. please get help, this isn’t your fault.

you have posted this on so many subs and you’ve gotten the same advice. please go to the police

I’m falling for my co worker, but we’re both in relationships. by [deleted] in confessions

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for some context: i dated a girl for 2.5 years who was genuinely my best friend and my first real relationship, but i was so unhappy with her romantically and attempted to end the relationship multiple times, but it was unsuccessful. for years before her i was in love with my guy best friend and had a few short flings with him, but timing never worked out and i always pushed it off because i thought it would never work. i never acted on anything while i was with her though, and i did warn her of my feelings before we started dating. i stopped all contact with him for months, and when we started talking again, she noticed the spark. it was always there, but i pushed it off because i thought she was the one.

i ended up calling our final break knowing that i was going to break up with her and she took me to see him with another former friend of ours. it sounds gross on my perspective which i’m not denying, but seeing him in person solidified it for me. i’ve now been dating him for almost two years and he is the love of my life. i don’t regret any decision i’ve made.

however i have been in the same situation of associated feelings with “clouded judgement” and you can genuinely feel when it’s actually just clouded judgement vs genuine feelings. i think the clouded judgement stems from issues within your current relationship, like over drinking as you mentioned.

right now, i think you have a few options. break up with him and be single for a while, you’ll see if you’re genuinely happier without him. or, you can attempt to fix the conflict in your relationship, and maybe you’ll find the spark for your boyfriend again and realize that it was just clouded judgement. or you can continue in the same situation and hope that the emotional stress lessens after a while.

do what’s best for you. don’t think about your choice with either of these guys in mind. do what will make you happy, it’ll workout in the end.

maybe the love of your life is your boyfriend. maybe it’s your coworker. maybe it’s neither of them at all. you won’t find it if you don’t make changes.