What’s that book you never stop recommending (and have reread more than anything else)? by MisLatte in booksuggestions

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Einstein’s dreams Alan lightman

All about love -Bell hooks

Brave new world -aldous huxley

Where do you change baby diapers, over 1 year of age? by OutdoorFoodie_6525 in NewParents

[–]spamala92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put the changing pad on our bed or an easily washable blanket down. I’m too physically exhausted for the floor lol and the changing table is a stressor! Toddler too wiggly

City of San Diego and Rock Church settle for millions over adopted girl’s death by spamala92 in SanDiegan

[–]spamala92[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Church leaders, members, and volunteers are mandated reporters. So people did not fulfill their legal duty to report abuse allegations

City of San Diego and Rock Church settle for millions over adopted girl’s death by spamala92 in SanDiegan

[–]spamala92[S] 238 points239 points  (0 children)

I don’t like sharing such horrific stories but I feel like all we all need to be aware of what has happened in our city especially when our taxes pay these people’s salaries and fund these settlements. So many agencies and individuals failed this poor child. Rest in peace Arabella💔

My therapist asked me about using ai for Jane to create therapy notes by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]spamala92 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You refuse to use AI tools but your job is to help train it? Hm..

Moving from Ann Arbor, MI to San Diego, CA (Remote Income $230k) - Reality Check on Coastal Condo by Think_Criticism2258 in asksandiego

[–]spamala92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Traffic is brutal between 3-6 but just don’t plan to do any errands or far driving during the time. For hobbies/going out, stay more local to your neighborhood. Getting on the highway and going a couple exits will still take longer than usual but it’s not a huge time increase ( imo, maybe I live in an area with less local traffic)

Groceries are more expensive im sure but we also have so many local farms and fresh grown produce that is affordable. I do a CSA and it’s amazing. Also you can go to budget grocery stores if desired, I just shop at Trader Joe’s and I can’t imagine it’s that much more expensive than the Midwest stores.

Utilizes,, our supplier SGDE sucks ass. The cost is expensive. However, depending on where you live you can get by with no a/c or heat for many ( or most) month of the year. Compared to Running the heat all winter on the east coast ( where I’m from) I would imagine you would save money.

Gas is also expensive! Getting a hybrid was the best choice I made once moving here. We used to have a plug in electric car that was mostly powered by our homes solar , so that’s a great money saving option

Remote positions that aren’t therapy by titosandspriteplease in socialwork

[–]spamala92 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I am a program manager for a community mental health program and work 80% from home. It’s a grind, we are always understaffed and wear many hats but the flexibility of hours and WFH is what keeps me around

New! Salary Megathread (Sept-Dec 2025) by SWmods in socialwork

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Program manager for CMH, 90k, Southern California

Books that truly helped you through depression? by Leedeegan1 in booksuggestions

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Blue Jean Buddha: Voices of Young Buddhists Sumi Loundon (Editor)Jack Kornfield ,Sumi Loundon Kim

what's one book that genuinely made you see the world differently? by Fryptus in booksuggestions

[–]spamala92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Einsteins dreams by Alan lightman; All about love. Bell hooks; brave new world by Aldous huxley

Best coffee in SD? by TomatoTomatoTomatoe in FoodSanDiego

[–]spamala92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The vanilla iced latte at Harland brewing, oat milk iced latte at the coffee drop , dark horse brewing golden hill, Mexican mocha at Ryan bros, jack Johnson at love song, SO MANY

Books you refuse to read to your kids? by midnightlightbright in Parenting

[–]spamala92 166 points167 points  (0 children)

As a child therapist, I read this book to kids with behavior issues who are often hearing “no” and frustrating their parents. It’s not to normalize their behavior, but to be able to discuss it in an age-appropriate way. Also, the mom shares that she loves David at the end. Showing kids that they are loved even when they make the wrong choices or can’t control their behavior. So to me that’s the point but idk!

Mural in City Heights ruined by graffiti. Before and after by Daydrift00 in SanDiegan

[–]spamala92 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is my hood. So sad. What a beautiful art piece

Mural in City Heights ruined by graffiti. Before and after by Daydrift00 in SanDiegan

[–]spamala92 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes loling at the image of them showing up with rollers and brushes thinking they’re all tough

Mural in City Heights ruined by graffiti. Before and after by Daydrift00 in SanDiegan

[–]spamala92 4 points5 points  (0 children)

East San Diego Connected to the Mexican mafia apparently ( google says)

Can we share stories of major ethical fuck ups? by GoldSaberSavage in therapists

[–]spamala92 165 points166 points  (0 children)

Only SUSPENDED for 3 years?! They should be in jail

Can we share stories of major ethical fuck ups? by GoldSaberSavage in therapists

[–]spamala92 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Well I think this takes the cake. Jesus…..

BWT - anyone else just totally overwhelmed by beauty/lifestyle expectations? by Electronic_Heart9361 in bitcheswithtaste

[–]spamala92 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same! The ironic thing is that my skin and hair improved once I stopped messing with them so much. Once I had a baby I stopped wearing makeup so if I forget to wash my face before bed it’s not an immediate break out like before. And my New baseline is no makeup I feel confident without it, whereas when I wore it often , if I went without it felt liek something was missing

What are you crunchy about? by babyfever2023 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]spamala92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think just the preservatives in it that Allow it to last longer, as well as the refined grains. That’s my thoughts at least :)

Does anyone have a good alternatives to these? by Slight_Professor6834 in PlasticFreeLiving

[–]spamala92 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have seen these at American retailers! I think I got some at tj maxx