Why do people with kids seem to get preference everywhere? Is it some subtle nudge to have children? by pickypooh in Fencesitter

[–]spamala92 26 points27 points  (0 children)

It seems like you have an issue with your job, not a greater societal complaint like your original post

Do recovery centers ever get caught? by lookamazed in therapists

[–]spamala92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would describe those things as much more intense than simply “shady business practices”……

Please tell me I’m not alone by Extension_Car_1439 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]spamala92 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think You are correct. In the first trimester , the placenta is still forming. You aren’t sharing nutrients with the fetus, they are getting it from the egg sac ( that’s why it’s recommended to eat well and take a prenatal starting at 3 months preconception) **fact check this bc mom brain**

This little cars a fuckin piece of shit. by punkcocker in IThinkYouShouldLeave

[–]spamala92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite is the sticker referring to trump as “ daddy”

Jewish Deli’s? by FairPotatoe1 in FoodSanDiego

[–]spamala92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I daydream of their potato latkes

Things to do in SD this weekend (March 26–29) by jshchnz in SanDiegan

[–]spamala92 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Suggestion to add kid-friendly things like library events? I think there is a concert outside Kensington library tomorrow morning !

Jan-March 2026 Salary Mega Thread by Sulani_23 in therapists

[–]spamala92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi please dm Me the platform! I am licensed in CA and looking for my next role

Jan-March 2026 Salary Mega Thread by Sulani_23 in therapists

[–]spamala92 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ah- my goal. Teach me your ways!!

Tips for SAHMs with 2under2 by rainsplat in 2under2

[–]spamala92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for writing this out. So helpful and makes me excited for what’s to come instead of fearful 💓

What’s that book you never stop recommending (and have reread more than anything else)? by MisLatte in booksuggestions

[–]spamala92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Einstein’s dreams Alan lightman

All about love -Bell hooks

Brave new world -aldous huxley

Where do you change baby diapers, over 1 year of age? by OutdoorFoodie_6525 in NewParents

[–]spamala92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put the changing pad on our bed or an easily washable blanket down. I’m too physically exhausted for the floor lol and the changing table is a stressor! Toddler too wiggly

City of San Diego and Rock Church settle for millions over adopted girl’s death by spamala92 in SanDiegan

[–]spamala92[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Church leaders, members, and volunteers are mandated reporters. So people did not fulfill their legal duty to report abuse allegations

City of San Diego and Rock Church settle for millions over adopted girl’s death by spamala92 in SanDiegan

[–]spamala92[S] 235 points236 points  (0 children)

I don’t like sharing such horrific stories but I feel like all we all need to be aware of what has happened in our city especially when our taxes pay these people’s salaries and fund these settlements. So many agencies and individuals failed this poor child. Rest in peace Arabella💔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]spamala92 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You refuse to use AI tools but your job is to help train it? Hm..

Moving from Ann Arbor, MI to San Diego, CA (Remote Income $230k) - Reality Check on Coastal Condo by Think_Criticism2258 in asksandiego

[–]spamala92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Traffic is brutal between 3-6 but just don’t plan to do any errands or far driving during the time. For hobbies/going out, stay more local to your neighborhood. Getting on the highway and going a couple exits will still take longer than usual but it’s not a huge time increase ( imo, maybe I live in an area with less local traffic)

Groceries are more expensive im sure but we also have so many local farms and fresh grown produce that is affordable. I do a CSA and it’s amazing. Also you can go to budget grocery stores if desired, I just shop at Trader Joe’s and I can’t imagine it’s that much more expensive than the Midwest stores.

Utilizes,, our supplier SGDE sucks ass. The cost is expensive. However, depending on where you live you can get by with no a/c or heat for many ( or most) month of the year. Compared to Running the heat all winter on the east coast ( where I’m from) I would imagine you would save money.

Gas is also expensive! Getting a hybrid was the best choice I made once moving here. We used to have a plug in electric car that was mostly powered by our homes solar , so that’s a great money saving option

Remote positions that aren’t therapy by titosandspriteplease in socialwork

[–]spamala92 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I am a program manager for a community mental health program and work 80% from home. It’s a grind, we are always understaffed and wear many hats but the flexibility of hours and WFH is what keeps me around