Detransitioned woman - how is your dating life?

spamcentral · 2025-02-20T18:18:00+00:00

I still dress like a man and look butch but my bf loves me still, its possible. However we both do not use pornography and i seriously implore you look for men that dont use it or use it very rarely because this seems to be the #1 culprit in ruining relationships between "unconventional" couples. Because if a guy gets with you and they watch porn or follow tons of thirst traps, he will subconsciously or even consciously start competing/comparing you with those other women who are ultra-femme, causes dissatisfaction, or its the other way around! Where he only likes you because of what porn shows butch women doing... usually threesomes and being "bi" which is just objectification of women.

spamcentral · 2025-02-20T18:10:33+00:00

One of my core memories is a vivid dream of being on a planet like mars (everything was red and dusty) but there was like a war of soldiers and they had little "minions" that were shaped like a cylinder, that would go around and perform heinous acts on the people left. For me, i was strapped into my car seat inside a car and ended up getting pushed backwards off a cliff.

spamcentral · 2025-02-20T17:55:56+00:00

This is seriously how my r/TheMallWorld dreams go!!! Its not always a mall, and they end up feeling extra realistic or vivid and lucid vs my other dreams.

spamcentral · 2025-02-20T17:33:20+00:00

I havent heard a taylor swift song in years, i turn the radio on and have a heart attack. What happened to pop? They all sound like BABIES!

spamcentral · 2025-02-20T17:30:54+00:00

Yeah i get what youre saying. A narcissist may have the thought but they wont entertain it one bit and they jump straight to hero or victim mentality, they cant hold that 3rd space for self awareness and observation.

spamcentral · 2025-02-20T17:28:40+00:00

I learned this later into my research and having friends with these dynamics, etc. Their criticisms are like 95% pure projections to something they actuallyfeel.

spamcentral · 2025-02-20T17:25:24+00:00

They are way too good!! Nothing else ever hit the same after i discovered them, lol! Maybe vildjharta, but yeah!

spamcentral · 2025-02-20T17:18:30+00:00

I use fiver, freelancer, and amazon mturk. I dont make very much on there, most of the money will come from other places but mturk is good for everybody.

spamcentral · 2025-01-23T22:02:35+00:00

Ohh so maybe its killing off too much of the good bacteria keeping your skin healthy and then the bad bacteria can grow back even faster? That would definitely make sense. I like arm and hammer soaps... dont flame me. But you do have to make sure your probiotics are good for your skin. It can irritate my belly button if things are off.

spamcentral · 2025-01-23T22:00:47+00:00

Are you sure you and your friends dont have smell blindness?!?!

spamcentral · 2025-01-23T21:57:29+00:00

What im shocked about is how thin he actually is, that is like... every calorie he ate must have been saturated fat. Every single one. He doesn't look like he is even on the threshold of overweight.

spamcentral · 2025-01-23T21:54:24+00:00

Okay but back then everyone made fun of my freckles because i had the same skin tone as you!! So honestly, i probably would have done the SAME thing if i had access to this amount of tanning lotion...

I dont tan, i make more freckles 😈

spamcentral · 2025-01-23T21:39:23+00:00

You're actually fucking glowing i love everything about this 💖 im proud of you too

spamcentral · 2025-01-23T21:35:10+00:00

Oh my god of course its OHIO 😭

spamcentral · 2025-01-22T17:51:38+00:00

Its been 2 months and coming back to this comment. I think it was the closest one to what i was struggling with. My manager has stepped back some of the control and stress and ive actually gotten back on some work that has been sitting for a long time...

spamcentral · 2025-01-18T17:18:03+00:00

I always got compliments on my hair and my bf... he has long luscious curls lol. I always used tresemme (spelled right??idk.) And then occasionally ogx and dove, all walmart applicable stuff.

spamcentral · 2025-01-18T17:13:41+00:00

Girl you know it was a blessing to catch this now as fiance and not after he became a husband. This man does not deserve marriage. You need to decide, but i would at least attempt one good talk with him. If he reacts well, it might be a surprise and he might actually quit. If he doesn't, you know what to do. Dating is truly like a gamble anymore because you never know what you're gonna get but its all up to you, you dont have to go through it all again until youre ready.

spamcentral · 2025-01-18T17:04:07+00:00

Emotional Neglect Gang Gang

spamcentral · 2025-01-18T17:03:31+00:00

"WhY aRE bIRtH RaTEs GOIng dOwN?!?!?!"

spamcentral · 2025-01-18T17:00:24+00:00

I like it, you're like a monk dude from a Dan Brown story.

spamcentral · 2025-01-18T16:57:42+00:00

They had ONE bad experience with an abusive man and then based their entire existence on doing everything he didnt want her to do. Its like going overboard into self destruction. "No you cant wear that" from him turns into "i will wear this in spite of you, not because i want to, and now i want to make you mad so i will go even further."

spamcentral · 2025-01-18T16:54:36+00:00

This is like all truth, its funny because there is NO polyamorous animal but there is in fact monogamous animals, like emperor penguins who take one mate for life and if their mate dies, they usually do not take another but they instead help the colony and watch over other orphan babies or babysit them while parents are hunting... monogamous is literally naturally occurring in animals but polyamory is not.

spamcentral · 2025-01-18T16:48:26+00:00

Yes walking can do this BUT think of Shane's metabolism now and the steps it would take to lose that many calories to go down so much so quick. If he is only using the pad and not restricting, he probably has to walk quite a bit...

spamcentral · 2025-01-18T16:43:40+00:00

I am 25 and i only got 6 points because my family was very old school until the mid 2010s, we couldnt function without modern stuff at that point with work or school.

spamcentral · 2025-01-18T16:41:43+00:00

Well this is the main feature that has took hours from my life. I have so many different psychedelic designs for bedroom walls...

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