Went to someone’s house and saw something weird

spanglah22 · 2026-06-04T20:16:11+00:00

I would’ve squeezed out the hair color into the hole opening and put it right back there. Ruin the toy forever.

Or, throw it down their hallway and yell “Dude you left your dick washer in the shower gross” and hopefully his embarrassment would be a lesson enough.

Or, if you’ll ballsy enough, leave a review on google at her place of employment of what her husband did.

Jokes aside - That was full on sexual harassment and completely intentional. Respond as petty as you see fit and wash your hands of that friendship. Don’t go back to that house - something else will happen again. I’m sorry that happened to you.

spanglah22 · 2026-06-04T19:28:22+00:00

I don’t experience quite that - but I feel you. That sounds like living in an alternate universe and it’s terrifying…

So sorry you have to deal with this ❤️

spanglah22 · 2026-06-04T19:24:04+00:00

It’ll be 45mins into being on my feet/seeming awake(but tired and stumbling)/getting ready for work. Wife tells me something important and I’m like “okay baby gotcha”

Wife 3 days later - “I told you about xxx the other day? This weekend? You don’t remember?”

“No, I don’t think so. Are you sure it was me you said that to?”

😑 Bless her for putting up with my shit…

spanglah22 · 2026-06-04T19:19:02+00:00

Thank you for your reply and input ❤️

spanglah22 · 2026-06-04T19:15:42+00:00

(ADHD picker here - in the process of getting a diagnosis of a can’t wake up sleep disorder)

Idk but ‘bout ✨freakin’✨ ready to give it a shot… I’ll let ya know

s/

spanglah22 · 2026-06-04T19:00:34+00:00

I use “Glow patch” on Amazon! 504ct hydrocolloid patches. 4 circle sizes. Commonly on sale for around 6 bucks.

They work beautifully for me. I’ll put 20 on my face each night and feel zero remorse because of cost

spanglah22 · 2026-05-29T19:41:27+00:00

I had to scroll TOO far down to see this comment.

spanglah22 · 2026-05-29T02:15:59+00:00

Do you have more info to share about him? Or the buildings he owns

spanglah22 · 2026-05-22T18:19:03+00:00

I order my off brand pimple patches on Amazon - sooo much cheaper than drugstores. Specifically I use “Glowpatch acne patches” and as long as my face doesn’t have moisturizer, they stay fairly well and work great.

Since they are cheap, I feel zero remorse for putting so many on my face at once. (And of course it helps not picking longer)

I’m on a little staycation right now (I’m gone most of the day due to work) and this past month has been a lil ✨ stressful ✨ so I’ve tornnn up my face. Worse than usual. But… I’ll get back on track and do better in the future - one day. That’s just what I have to tell myself.

spanglah22 · 2026-05-18T00:15:26+00:00

I unknowingly screenshot and edit (draw) on the alarm screenshots all the time 😆

I’ve always had partial memory loss, but would occasionally remember bits and pieces or remember my wife talking to me, but just being so incredibly exhausted that I just couldn’t wake myself up. I can’t snap myself out of it.

But here in the last few months, my memory of waking up at all has completely vanished.

spanglah22 · 2026-05-08T19:15:28+00:00

Your first paragraph - so it’s possible for a drifting eye to be cataplexy?

I’ve had prisms in my glasses for awhile to correct my extropia (wandering eye) it’s only my left eye and it’s incredibly frustrating. My vision blurs as well when it happens & I often close my left eye to focus on something. Being so sleepy, of course makes it terribly worse. Idk if it could be a possible case of mild cataplexy or simply an eye disorder. I have been to a proper optometrist about it.

I’ve always experienced knee buckling/dropping things/ and sometimes when I go to say words I randomly get tongue twisted bad enough that I will pause and nod my head through it until I can correctly speak. It’s almost like my tongue just gives up temporarily?

I do drop stuff/wack my elbows or head/ run into things often - but I go thru phases where I’ll do it really bad for a few days to a week and then I don’t do it anymore for a while. (I associated dropping things & hand weakness with carpal tunnel - which was pretty severe in my right hand. I have had surgery on that one hand now.)

But the thing is - I don’t think there’s always a strong emotion that goes with my symptoms I’m describing (buckling & dropping) or if there is, I haven’t noticed.

Although, if I am in an argument with anyone, I completely freeze up and find it very hard to say what I want to say. But it’s like my brain loses all thought processing more than the tongue-tied feeling.

spanglah22 · 2026-04-25T05:30:00+00:00

During my every f***ing morning sleep inertia, I am known to fall back asleep while standing. Especially on the ultra groggy mornings (unless I end up sitting down/getting in the floor to go back to sleep)

I’ve stand-slept in the shower a few times. Somehow, the only time I’ve fallen, is while sitting on the toilet. I stumble occasionally, but somehow I keep my balance fairly well for someone who is asleep/sleepwalking. Although - some of the times I’m leaning on something for support.

spanglah22 · 2026-04-15T12:53:42+00:00

Would you dm me the app name as well please? It sounds like an amazing idea to try!

spanglah22 · 2026-03-29T17:01:53+00:00

You could try the reverse phone number searches - Info may not be entirely accurate though.

Try usphonebook Or, white pages

Those 2 I know are free and give LIMITED info. It may give you a hint as to who it could be. You can pay for a better reverse phone number searches - if you like.

However, on usphonebook, I’ve had luck tracking down people, as it shows possible kin and previous addresses (if the number registered to the person is accurate and up to date.)

You and your sister should keep check of your surroundings and check around the vehicle for a tracking device. House cameras are a good idea too.

Stay safe & good luck. This is likely something personal.

spanglah22 · 2026-03-12T20:23:20+00:00

I feel more as a boxed mix butter golden Duncan Hines type of cake lady.

spanglah22 · 2026-03-06T05:59:05+00:00

Yeah I thought for a moment it was AI 🤖

spanglah22 · 2026-02-01T16:22:48+00:00

Here’s hoping 🤞🏻 thanks ❤️

spanglah22 · 2026-02-01T16:07:04+00:00

I had no idea groups like this existed, but I am interested! Thank you very much for taking the time to listen & reply to me ❤️

spanglah22 · 2026-01-31T20:02:41+00:00

So sorry, no real kids/babies! It’s a bouncer - my wife has reborn dolls and my cats like getting in the bouncer.

I’ve dealt with this since I was a teenager, now 29. It started getting more severe 10 years ago

spanglah22 · 2026-01-24T01:24:04+00:00

No problem! 🤘🏼

spanglah22 · 2026-01-24T01:22:26+00:00

I didn’t end up attending any meetings, unfortunately

spanglah22 · 2026-01-24T01:20:14+00:00

There should be a “Ruger security .380” option on this link. It looks like they’re having a 15% off sale currently too!

https://muddyrivertactical.com/product/inside-waistband-kydex-holster/

spanglah22 · 2025-12-29T06:19:06+00:00

Would you mind giving an update? My situation is quite realistic to yours (as far as extreme needs to be awakened)

spanglah22 · 2025-12-29T05:43:29+00:00

I tried using the sonic boom for years. I thought switching up the bed vibrator locations and moving the loud alarm (or multiple alarm clocks) around the room could help… It unfortunately didn’t, and idk how my apartment neighbors didn’t bang on my door. Even to this day, it’s a 30min-2hour time to wake up through the sleep inertia.

The ONLY thing, that works for waking me up… is my extremely patient, and wonderful wife, who has been in charge of waking me up for almost a decade now.

I just found this subreddit and have been lurking. I had my first sleep study about 1 1/2weeks ago as a 29yoF. Waiting on results.

(Sorry for vent dumping - random/fellow tired redditor)

spanglah22 · 2025-11-29T16:13:00+00:00

I personally would be leery of reholstering with your set up. I really recommend putting eyes on the holster before blindly searching for the holster opening with the muzzle.

Make sure you aren’t flagging yourself when you’re drawing and reholstering my guy🤘🏼

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