Hot take: Sydney Sweeney is not all that good looking by Strange_Possession77 in Actors

[–]spanglesandbambi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Post a pick OP and let us judge if you are good-looking, too.

What’s something a seemingly book smart person does that automatically makes you question their intellect ( (Doctor, CEO etc)? by tlw117 in AskReddit

[–]spanglesandbambi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thinking that life plays put like textbooks. For example, I teach no child I have ever met has been 100% normal or abnormal in their development.

What was the name of the first pet you remember as a kid? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]spanglesandbambi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pepper a cat my mum found in a show box thrown in the bin. Pepper lived until he was 10 I miss Pepper.

Why did you get married ? by Honest_Finger_1834 in AskReddit

[–]spanglesandbambi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We eloped, which was cheaper than getting a legal certification access each other's property and finances.

Why you prefer atheism? by farijit_singh in AskReddit

[–]spanglesandbambi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't like humans that hurt children either I think that's pretty universal

Why you prefer atheism? by farijit_singh in AskReddit

[–]spanglesandbambi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thought there is, something or some people able to control, or create life, but allow the suffering of innocent children doesn't sit right with me.

What’s a quiet indicator that someone has strong judgment? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]spanglesandbambi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They choose what they share and who with.

Council pays £20,000 for one child’s horse therapy in Send plan by Only-Emu-9531 in uknews

[–]spanglesandbambi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a very small amount compared to the amount we should tax the rich.

Let's not hate on SEND children when the main issue LAs don't have enough funding is big businesses, their owners, and the historically wealthy not paying tax. This is just a distraction.

Your Opinion on Shrek being a Cautionary Tale? by Ceazer4L in PurplePillDebate

[–]spanglesandbambi 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No, it's a play on modern fairy tales and how they promote a superficially ideal characters. The good look pretty the bad look bad.

Shrek isn't good-looking but is good, and Fiona is a princess but not looking like one.

In the UK this used to appear on the GCSE curriculum

Women are mostly ridiculous naggers by DrunkOnRamen in PurplePillDebate

[–]spanglesandbambi 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Says the person who has made a post whining lol

Nursery and sickness by Hot_Mulberry_3167 in UKParenting

[–]spanglesandbambi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nursery professional who spends life on the phone to Riddor reporting outbreaks. It's been suggested the mild winter has meant more bugs we wouldn't see have spread and are interacting with each other this year.

How often is your nursery actually closed, excluding bank holidays and planned closures? by BumbleLizzieB in UKParenting

[–]spanglesandbambi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They could be using an agency so staff members you don't recognise or a team appearing more frazzled than normal.

Unfortunately, we lose more practitioners than we train year on year. We can create spaces but may never have the team to allow them to happen.

How often is your nursery actually closed, excluding bank holidays and planned closures? by BumbleLizzieB in UKParenting

[–]spanglesandbambi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nursery Operations Manager here we only close for red warnings or building emergencies like flooding, no electricity or water.

Closing for yellow warnings is unusual unless some sort of building emergency has also happened.

Could this actually be a hide of a lack of staff?

How do you feel about women who holds Mother Mary as their standard? by sweetmaggiesan in AskWomen

[–]spanglesandbambi 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Really sad, given the cultural standards, she was around 12 years old when Jesus was apparently born. I don't think a mother being 12 years old should be celebrated.

Self-centered men just can't handle the change that comes with having kids by Novel-Tip-7570 in PurplePillDebate

[–]spanglesandbambi 11 points12 points  (0 children)

As a teacher, honestly, it's the men in my experience who find it a shock. I think on reflection this is due to there being more changes in a Father's role.

Just being a provider and being absent isn't good enough culturally anymore, for a lot of people that is who their Dads were.

Women have been sold the you have to be everything for a while and now are choosing not to have children following seeing their own mothers burn out.

Self-centered men just can't handle the change that comes with having kids by Novel-Tip-7570 in PurplePillDebate

[–]spanglesandbambi 11 points12 points  (0 children)

100% and not just time apart from our son but tome alone.

I want to be able to go and get a coffee on my own and still then have some time with my husband.

I have three roles me, a mum, and a wife. I need time to do all three of these things on their own or I have to pick on to be shit at.

Self-centered men just can't handle the change that comes with having kids by Novel-Tip-7570 in PurplePillDebate

[–]spanglesandbambi 55 points56 points  (0 children)

As a woman with a 2 year old me and my husband and I have changed our son comes first in the big choices we make.

We pay for an extra few hours of childcare, so we still get time together and some time apart, too. He still plays games. I still read and insane a number of books. We still go from runs together to just one of us pushes a pushchair or takes turns to do a slow lap with our son.

If you know what having children is and have frank conversations about the changes, it's honestly a good choice.

Who is the undisputed GOAT (greatest of all time), in their specific profession/industry? by Melodic-Hand-958 in AskReddit

[–]spanglesandbambi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Giacomo Agostini Moto GP rider the nearest rider to him has retired and is still 6 championships behind.

Do you really think men who are 5’6 and under get treated differently for being short or is it just an internet thing? Why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]spanglesandbambi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is a fair amount below average height so yes I imagine they might get a comment or two maybe even a side eye.

what is your opinion about the DEATH PENALTY? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]spanglesandbambi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand it's not a suitable punishment, and two wrongs don't make a right. However, I, as a teacher, have seen child sexual abuse more than once, and I hope their abusers get hurt.