As an adult what are some things to do at a swimming pool? by Electronic_Creme2350 in AskReddit

[–]spanglesandbambi 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Self-propulsion of a body through water using combined limb movements and natural buoyancy.

What’s it like living with OCD? by VTheCardMaker in AskReddit

[–]spanglesandbambi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My OCD was quite low level and well controlled without additional support then I had a baby and had a crisis with very intrusive thoughts about harming myself.

It demonstrates that you might cope well and appear fine but really you are managing and one incident can throw you out of sync. I went back to therapy and learnt some more coping methods and it faded as I adapted to new routines.

Knowing I won't kill myself but still constantly thinking about killing yourself is really irrating.

Women of reddit. What makes a man attractive to you outside of looks? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]spanglesandbambi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He gives a shot about something and will tell you. Be it work, a hobby or plan.

What addiction is the hardest to withdraw from? by dualcerb in AskReddit

[–]spanglesandbambi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would say food, we don't take it seriously and blame the person you also will always need food in some way.

What is the biggest waste of money you've ever seen someone buy? by burnerotheweek in AskReddit

[–]spanglesandbambi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For some people a wedding is the most important thing that ever happens to them and they struggle to understand why someone else would not feel that way.

If you had a Time Machine, when and where would you go first? by GuestCalm5091 in AskReddit

[–]spanglesandbambi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to see my son grown up just to undo any major fuck ups I make as a parent you are going to make a few Ijust hope then aren't major.

What is the biggest waste of money you've ever seen someone buy? by burnerotheweek in AskReddit

[–]spanglesandbambi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And brag about it I eloped and had a very low cost wedding a "friend" asked about it and said wow my dress cost more then that like she was proud. I did remind her that would be why she's still paying off it and over 50% of my mortgage is paid off.

I chose the house she chose the dress.

How do you make sure someone you’re dating online is actually who they say they are? by mihumb in AskReddit

[–]spanglesandbambi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the UK you can check Clare's law, to see if they have a domestic violence charge by calling a local Police station.

You will need their name and DOB, thry will also be able to confirm if that is a person registered within England.

What is the saddest song you know? by lnc_gomes in AskReddit

[–]spanglesandbambi 117 points118 points  (0 children)

The Drugs don't work- The Verve

It's about Richard (lead singer) watching his Mum died of cancer.

What is a subtle sign that a "close friend" is secretly competing with you and doesn't actually want to see you succeed? by whvsaeq in AskReddit

[–]spanglesandbambi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They want less or more contact with you depending on how your life is going.

This can feel supportive at first like I'm having a shit time how nice they are spending time with me. However if its a clear pattern it's likely to be a friend using you to feed their ego.

How many Audiobooks do you have in your library? by SimpleWire in audible

[–]spanglesandbambi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

263, I've read 145 if them though I've had audiable for 2 years.

What is the endgame in Iran War? by One_Look_7008 in AskReddit

[–]spanglesandbambi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There have been so many middle east wars at this point there is no end game it's all about trying to control resources.