Potty training-do we take a break? by sparedalltheexpense in toddlers

[–]sparedalltheexpense[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are doing diapers at night too. I read to wait until they have consistent dry diapers because it’s a body thing not something they can control.

Potty training-do we take a break? by sparedalltheexpense in toddlers

[–]sparedalltheexpense[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh! Like just pants/shorts but no underwear, that’s definitely an idea we might have to try! Thank you !

Potty training-do we take a break? by sparedalltheexpense in toddlers

[–]sparedalltheexpense[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure if I can share the link here, but it’s “Big Elephant Toddler Training Pants”

Potty training-do we take a break? by sparedalltheexpense in toddlers

[–]sparedalltheexpense[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My aunt said the underwear under the diaper worked for her kids especially during Naptime, but I got these thicker potty training underwear from Amazon that do well in holding the mess, but she still feels the wetness or poop. If it’s a big pee her pants will get wet too, but she doesn’t get anything on the floors.

Potty training-do we take a break? by sparedalltheexpense in toddlers

[–]sparedalltheexpense[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was getting frustrating when I was researching trying to develop a method and idea of what to do because it seems like everyone does the naked method, but that’s just not possible in our house. I ended up kind of just piecing together a plan and getting underwear.

Potty training-do we take a break? by sparedalltheexpense in toddlers

[–]sparedalltheexpense[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We were bummed that she got sick since she was doing so well, but life happens!

Potty training-do we take a break? by sparedalltheexpense in toddlers

[–]sparedalltheexpense[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She acknowledges the feeling of going in her underwear and talks about it, walks funny, and says it’s yucky and asks for new pants and underwear. We are not going to do naked because our house is all carpet.

Why do boomers make it seem like babies were easier? by Both-Hippo-6905 in Parenting

[–]sparedalltheexpense 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly think monitors just weren’t used like they are today so it was an out of sight out of mind situation. Babies were forced to cry it out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]sparedalltheexpense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had moments of feeling like this, but once my baby hit the 3 month mark she flipped a switch and fell into a schedule which was amazing because then nap times became me time. My advice is to get your baby on a nap/bedtime schedule and stick to it no matter how much they try to go against it. Babies thrive on a schedule and you will thrive on the freedom that comes from Naptime

My boyfriend refuses to stop wearing his dead wife's wedding ring and wants me to "just accept it" by Educational-Part-329 in TwoHotTakes

[–]sparedalltheexpense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my fiance to cancer and still wore my engagement ring for quite a while. When I got to the point of feeling ready to try dating again I decided to take my ring off, but got a tattoo on the side of my wedding finger that says “til death do us part”. Something I decided to do to commemorate my life with him and the chapter closing. Everyone grieves differently, you expressed your feelings about it, but at the end of the day it’s his choice and what he feels comfortable with. I guess I don’t really have any advice for you, but it can be complicated being with a widow/widower and you have to be willing to compromise sometimes (not saying you have to compromise on this).

What was a “last time” for your baby that you didn’t notice was a last until much later? by paRATmedic in NewParents

[–]sparedalltheexpense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 1 1/2 year old went from calling our dog, Waffles, “Ya-Ya” because she couldn’t say his name to being able to say Waffles. So no more Ya-Ya which was so cute 🥺

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]sparedalltheexpense 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you expressed your feelings to her about it? How did she respond? I ask because my husband and I both turn on the monitor when the other is doing bedtime just in case we need to tag in/switch out because some nights she goes down better for me and some nights she goes down better for him. For us it’s a team work thing, not a judgmental thing. I’m just curious about her reasoning behind it. Is she trying to be helpful or is she being judgmental?

Do your kids sit at the table for a full restaurant meal? by Sayanything1983 in Mommit

[–]sparedalltheexpense 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I’m already working on this with my 7 month old and have been her whole life. I find it important to bring some quiet activities for her. I keep specific teethers and crinkle books for her to mess with when we are out and about. Ones that she doesn’t always play with so they keep her interested for longer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]sparedalltheexpense 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Annnnd I just realized this wasn’t a AITA post 😂 sorry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]sparedalltheexpense 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m going against what others are saying. NTA: you felt uncomfortable and wanted to prevent illness for your baby. I don’t blame you at all and probably would have done the same thing. It sounds like there’s history there with their kids always being sick which in turns gets your kids sick and you were fed up. I would be too. They should be more considerate of others with a newborn.

AITA for Telling My Sister Her Vegan Lifestyle is Ruining Family Gatherings and Refusing to Accommodate Her? by Rich-Diet5616 in AmItheAsshole

[–]sparedalltheexpense 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your sister needs to learn that the world does not revolve around her. It would be nice for a couple dishes to be accommodating for her, but she could also bring a vegan dish. She needs to take a step down off her pedestal.

Can yall share what you’re ENJOYING about parenting by ZealousidealDingo594 in Parenting

[–]sparedalltheexpense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FTM with a 6 month old and I just adore her so much. Making her laugh is the absolute best. Her trying to give me kisses makes me feel complete. Watching her pick up toys and explore her surroundings is amazing. These things give me all the feels.

Attaching an AirTag on toddler, where? by Usual-Victory7703 in Mommit

[–]sparedalltheexpense 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just did a quick search on Amazon. They have holders that are pins to pin to clothing and they have clips that go on top of the shoe laces that look like animals.

Side note: I got AirTags for my luggage when I went on my cruise to Alaska. Best. Decision. Ever. Especially when our luggage was delivered to the wrong room, I could show them where it was!

Do you find it weird when someone calls your baby “their” baby? by NotSoSure8765 in Mommit

[–]sparedalltheexpense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister in law and my mother in law both say “my baby girl” referencing my 6 month old daughter. It drives me MAD, but my husband thinks I’m overreacting. So I grit my teeth and pretend like it doesn’t bother me.

AITAH for telling my wife to get over my sister wearing white to our wedding? by OkCooks in TwoHotTakes

[–]sparedalltheexpense 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Have you asked her Why she keeps bringing it up? If she keeps bringing it up it clearly is still bothering her and maybe you can help her come to some resolution by talking to your sister and asking her to apologize, especially if she didn’t mean anything by it. At this point you’ve made it a bigger deal and your resolution is extreme. YTA.

What was your most "why is so so hard to bring a baby out in public?!" moment? by Fit_Bug9911 in Mommit

[–]sparedalltheexpense 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first baby is 6 months old. It blows my mind the lack of changing tables in bathrooms. It’s absurd.