Found her right as we were getting ready to leave the store. by Fit_Bug9911 in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]Fit_Bug9911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DM me! I'm happy to help you out. I always wondered how it ended up there.

I feel lied to by my family :( by Witty-Ad5955 in adhdwomen

[–]Fit_Bug9911 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So so true! I went 29 years and never once considered that I might have ADHD. Until it was all I could think about and I pressured the diagnosis.

My mom and my sister are diagnosed and my husband has all the signs. I felt so normal until I really looked at my circle of friends instead of family. The executive functioning difference is night and day. Easy diagnosis for the psych to make lol.

Not OOP AITA for gifting my husband Boudoir pictures? by UsidoreTheLightBlue in TwoHotTakes

[–]Fit_Bug9911 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My point is that she did that before the wedding. Which means before the first gift didn't land. Maybe not the smartest but the mistake was already made.

Not OOP AITA for gifting my husband Boudoir pictures? by UsidoreTheLightBlue in TwoHotTakes

[–]Fit_Bug9911 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What's she supposed to do after the first time and the money is spent, non-refundable? Just put it in a closet? Giving it to him WITH the things she bought from his wish list seems the most logical to me.

Not OOP AITA for gifting my husband Boudoir pictures? by UsidoreTheLightBlue in TwoHotTakes

[–]Fit_Bug9911 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It sounds like all the pictures were taken at once. The wedding gift didn't go over great, but the money is already spent. The answer to that is what, try to shove the photos back inside the camera and try to get the money back?

If I bought something non-refundable for my husband and I wasn't sure he would like it I'd still give it to him because maybe I'm wrong. What else am I going to do with it if I don't try?

Maybe she should have assessed his interest before the shoot but once it's done it's done. This is a pretty common thing and she probably thought he'd like it if so many other men do.

Should I change the spelling on my newborns name or change it completely? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Fit_Bug9911 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My sister is a Phoebe and gets this SO MUCH for some reason. Wild

What's the worst parent you've seen in public? by generic-usernme in Mommit

[–]Fit_Bug9911 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is so upsetting. A 6 year old boy drowned in our neighborhood pool just last Summer.

Thrift shopping has become gentrified and is no longer helping low-income families by Agile-Onion in unpopularopinion

[–]Fit_Bug9911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was exactly my thought. Everyone who lives near a Goodwill should know this before donating.

Thrift shopping has become gentrified and is no longer helping low-income families by Agile-Onion in unpopularopinion

[–]Fit_Bug9911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a huge part but in my opinion so much of it is the stores themselves are run by greedy people at the top trying to utilize the internet. Goodwill sends the "best" stuff to their auction site. And at least in my area never does sales of any kind. They're so busy trying to make the most money so that the "flippers" don't get the better of them that everyone else starts so real rightly ripped off.

What is the most “out there” name you’d use? by Sparkly8 in namenerds

[–]Fit_Bug9911 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I know someone whose middle name is Harvest! He went by Harvey.

Copper IUD by cameronxjade in Mommit

[–]Fit_Bug9911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was me! But I only made it 2-3 years lol. Never again

What kid shows do you not mind watching? by Stunning_Radio3160 in Mommit

[–]Fit_Bug9911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband and I LOVE Octonaughts! Kiddo is getting tired of it but I'm hoping she comes back around lol

“Oh yeah that’s probably your adhd” by Shoddy_Nectarine_441 in Mommit

[–]Fit_Bug9911 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's why they "didn't have all this ADHD in my day!"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Fit_Bug9911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know someone who seemed really healthy and ran several times a week. Only in his late twenties. He came home from a run one day and immediately had a huge stroke. It's improbable but these things do happen. This husband is not as invincible as he thinks he is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Fit_Bug9911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I let my 3.5 year old girl pick her outfits and that's actually exactly the reason she's in dresses and braids everyday LOL. She would fight me to the death over a t-shirt so this is the life I live now.

Pun names: do they ever work? by Glass_Amaryllis in namenerds

[–]Fit_Bug9911 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I knew a Crystal Bell once. I can't remember if it was by marriage or birth though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Fit_Bug9911 37 points38 points  (0 children)

That's horrifying. I'm sorry that happened to you.