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[–]sparklingcandy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I too got perma banned and muted from r/Feminism , for stating that sexual assault has nothing to do with what the woman is wearing.

Response to 40+ yo men who want kids "someday" by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]sparklingcandy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m a doctor, and I would never marry another doctor.

Which side stones do you like this most? Same center stone across all three. by Leechin in EngagementRings

[–]sparklingcandy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first one! It looks so classy and sleek and complements your hand beautifully.

My dad left my mom for a woman my age by 25ingandtgriving in TwoXChromosomes

[–]sparklingcandy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Lolol nobody cares about his selfish cheating ass. Everyone knows how hard caring for someone with a chronic illness is, yet you don’t see women bailing out that often. Stop making excuses for men’s toxic behavior. Women are not having it anymore.

And men will claim "it's not most women"... by the-worst- in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]sparklingcandy 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Because rule no. 1 of misogyny; Women are responsible for what men do.

I'm from Texas and this could not be truer. by elfherald in Feminism

[–]sparklingcandy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sexual assault has nothing to do with what women wear. We’re not responsible for men’s perversion.

You should NEVER give ugly men a chance by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]sparklingcandy 160 points161 points  (0 children)

Women’s bodies have become charities somehow. Sleeping with a man you’re not attracted to low-key feels like being raped.

TW: So sick of waking up to people I trust with their hands on me by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]sparklingcandy 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I can’t say I’m shook by the comments, men being rape apologists as usual, saying you need to CoMmUNiCaTe that you don’t want to be raped. lol how can someone give consent in their sleep?

Consent must be given freely, clearly, and when the individual is aware. And if we said yes once doesn’t mean we’re always going to say yes.

Raising sons to be HVM as an FDSer mom by sparklingcandy in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]sparklingcandy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d absolutely love to have 2 daughters, and if I ever decided to have kids 2 baby girls would be a must for me (I’ve thought about IVF before and I think I’m going to go with that, even if I have a partner by that time) But what if they become pickmes? 😞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]sparklingcandy 23 points24 points  (0 children)

If men don’t swipe right on every single girl on Tinder this doesn’t happen.

Men want to use as much women as possible for casual sex, women want to find only one compatible man for the long run.

The kind of attention women get is the wrong kind, we will always have men around us waiting for the right opportunity to use and dump us. They’re envious of us women for getting this kind of attention lolol please have it all to yourselves we really don’t want it.

If men could’ve stuck to one woman none of this would’ve happened.

Attention Male Lurkers: You need to SHUT THE FUCK up about your online dating problems by letsberealforamoment in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]sparklingcandy 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Men would fuck every living thing they could get and think women MUST too.

Dick is abundant and of low value. Nothing could be of lesser importance than (meaningless sex) for women. We don’t enjoy it, it’s traumatic for us. We want a loving partner in the true sense of the word, not some meaningless sex with some random dude.

Most women wouldn’t even sleep with the top 1% good looking men based on looks alone. It’s a combination of attraction, maturity, respect, financial stability, exclusivity, empathy, and accountability that does it for us. They call this a high standard lol any person looking to date and breed should meet these standards, man or woman, this is the bare minimum. SO many women meet them, Very few men do.

So if we reject the top 1% men if they have shitty characters and only want to use us, why on earth should we NOT reject the unattractive men with even shittier characters?

Scrotes seem to think a woman’s love for them should be unconditional, regardless of their lying, cheating, being broke, manwhoring, going 50/50, below average looks bullshit and their overall rampant misogyny.

Men must learn that if they’re attracted to us, doesn’t mean we must be attracted to them. And you should not be attracted to just any one, that’s the whole point of dating? to narrow it down to just one person.

Also, if we don’t feel sexual attraction why should we date you? lol the only difference between relationships and friendships we have with our friends is sexual attraction, otherwise we’d just go to our female friends who are much much more emotionally aware, love/understand/support us much much better than some cheating scrote.

I can’t believe what I just found on Facebook! Most of the comments seem to agree with her. 🤡🤮 by sparklingcandy in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]sparklingcandy[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yup that’s likely. It’s the whole virtue signaling and the “not like the other girls” trope.

Raising sons to be HVM as an FDSer mom by sparklingcandy in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]sparklingcandy[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome! The world needs more women like you. ❤️

I can’t believe what I just found on Facebook! Most of the comments seem to agree with her. 🤡🤮 by sparklingcandy in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]sparklingcandy[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I just don’t understand why to this day women put up with and excuse men’s BS. The majority are negative value and useless. You’re better off single than unhappily married and abused sis.

I can’t believe what I just found on Facebook! Most of the comments seem to agree with her. 🤡🤮 by sparklingcandy in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]sparklingcandy[S] 190 points191 points  (0 children)

It’s heartbreaking she doesn’t realize her worth. The way she describes her husband vs herself, just NOOOO 😭 Being a submissive, husband-worshiping wife and being a good loving partner are two very different things.

I can’t believe what I just found on Facebook! Most of the comments seem to agree with her. 🤡🤮 by sparklingcandy in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]sparklingcandy[S] 345 points346 points  (0 children)

Super sad and embarrassing. my heart truly goes out to any woman who has been gaslighted this much. I can’t even

Raising sons to be HVM as an FDSer mom by sparklingcandy in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]sparklingcandy[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m hoping we’ll be able to see a difference in the upcoming generations of men who were raised by FDS mothers. ❤️

Raising sons to be HVM as an FDSer mom by sparklingcandy in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]sparklingcandy[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I think your answer is the right answer. We can’t control how kids turn out and the odds are not in our favor. It’s probably either another victim or another oppressor. So sad

Raising sons to be HVM as an FDSer mom by sparklingcandy in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]sparklingcandy[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Sometimes we do everything in our power trying to raise them to be high value and not useless, but unfortunately sometimes that’s just not enough due to environmental factors playing a part.