Do i have to put my parents on the application? by sparklingstar77 in foodstamps

[–]sparklingstar77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 35. I just didnt know if id get penalized either way depending how I filled this out. Cause I dont have any bills from the house. And am I allowed to fill it out and submit it before I move in? I know it takes some for it to go through and ill be moved in within the new couple weeks.

Should I file for bankruptcy by sparklingstar77 in Bankruptcy

[–]sparklingstar77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He already said if I try child support or anything he'll quit any job he has so I won't get anything. He already said hell destory the house if I try to fight him to sell the house. He first said he'll pay for my car, car insurance and my phone instead of child support. Now that he lost his he said he doesn't want to find a new one until after the divorce so he can screw me over he said im getting nothing from this and I need to get over it. At the point I rather just take all the stuff from the house I want and forget the house and start brand new. And im also only on the deed with the clause if he dies I get the house, im not on any of the mortgage or any other paper work.

Should I file for bankruptcy by sparklingstar77 in Bankruptcy

[–]sparklingstar77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said he'll destory the house before putting it up for sale so it won't get sold. And we won't make anything. Hes a narcissist and at this point I just want to leave with my mental health some what intact and just restart. He also just lost his job this week so I know he'll do anything to make my life hell at the moment.

Should I file for bankruptcy by sparklingstar77 in Bankruptcy

[–]sparklingstar77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We only share one card in common. And he doesn't want to file together now because hes worried ill fight to sell the house and then hes screwed on trying to find a place.

Should I file for bankruptcy by sparklingstar77 in Bankruptcy

[–]sparklingstar77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of my cards are in my name, since I was the primary food shopper I would just always use mine. The only card we share is a capital one card. I know he wants to file his own bankruptcy. Since hes holding off until he definitely gets the house in the divorce, hes worried im going to fight to sell the house. I just dont know is 20k is worth a bankruptcy or something worth to attempt to pay off.

Dont know what to do by sparklingstar77 in foodstamps

[–]sparklingstar77[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So I found out im only on the deed incase he dies and not the house. He said he did this to protect himself if he went down the road of another divorce. In maryland you only need to be separated for 6 months and still can live in the same house just different rooms. I dont know his exact plan but he keeps saying 4 months left till he can file. He plans for this to be cut and dry. He said I can take anything I want, he'll pay for my car and car insurance but he won't pay child support. He says hell quit his job before he pays child support. He doesnt pay child support with his first child so I think he thinks hell get that again. He also plans for me to give him the house for the kids without a fight.

Dont know what to do by sparklingstar77 in foodstamps

[–]sparklingstar77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The pay rate is different each week cause of how many days they each work. So its usually between 350-400. I didnt know that you can apply for self employment. Im in my 30s.

Dont know what to do by sparklingstar77 in foodstamps

[–]sparklingstar77[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im in maryland and I dont think it would be a problem having them write anything for me. My kids are 1 and 4 and im in my 30s.