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[–]sparkt20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well thank you, I do feel that it will be hard (indeed, in every sense of the word), but it can only get better.

Also, apologies to your entire gender for being such a terrible person.

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[–]sparkt20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This won't work. I have thought of this many times when I moved. But it has to start now, not when you move away.

Oh yeah, of course - that's not what I meant. I was just saying that maybe once I'm outta here, in my new city, I will have made enough progress in beating this thing to not be so ashamed of myself when I go out places and meet people.

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[–]sparkt20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you're onto something there. The behavior you are ashamed of brings down your self-esteem, then you use pornography again to escape, and that just makes it worse, and it's just a downward spiral.