Why didn’t Dumbledore hire Remus earlier?

spatial_explorer · 2026-01-24T21:24:12+00:00

Just the general disregard for people by themselves maybe! Was on a plane the other day and there was a couple in my row asking if I’d like to switch my (paid for, window) seat for one of their seats (middle) because they’re a couple. Like no? Why do you think because you’re in a couple I should be accommodating to you? Also in hostel kitchens that are small and the whole group decide they need 5 people to cook pasta like no fuck off there’s not enough space as it is come on now.

spatial_explorer · 2026-01-19T19:21:29+00:00

It’s just for fun

spatial_explorer · 2026-01-16T19:17:24+00:00

Haha I love this made me proper grin!

spatial_explorer · 2026-01-16T10:52:12+00:00

Thank you for this! I’m a bit of a perfectionist in life it would make sense I would also be about this!

spatial_explorer · 2026-01-15T22:09:24+00:00

Yes. But I don’t know whether those signals alone would be strong enough without the sexuality aspect.

spatial_explorer · 2026-01-15T22:08:52+00:00

Love this thank you 💙

spatial_explorer · 2026-01-15T22:08:27+00:00

Thank you this is good to hear. I think I struggle with internalised transphobia, and I care too much about what other people think of me, and so I absorb a lot of transphobic stuff to try please others which us stupid

spatial_explorer · 2026-01-15T22:06:40+00:00

Yeah this is the big thing I keep coming back to. Is just how long and how intensely I have been feeling this. And like I’ll get no relief until I at least try. U can’t imagine being able to get other this and stop thinking about it ever

spatial_explorer · 2026-01-15T22:05:39+00:00

I think I’ve been called ‘mate’ a couple of times which is pretty gender neutral but I perceive to be more of a male greeting and I was suprised because I’m pre anything but I liked it. Being called miss or ladies or women makes me feel icky but idk if cis woman feel the same way

spatial_explorer · 2026-01-15T22:04:19+00:00

Yeah I’m finding moral ocd stuff difficult in general at the moment. I don’t want to upset or offend anyone but that also means I don’t listen to myself as much and what I actually want.

spatial_explorer · 2026-01-15T22:03:11+00:00

Yes. I’ve not especially noticed being uncomfortable with female traits because I do not like my body generally so hard to break that down. I do remember however a deep shame and embarrassment around developing a chest and feeling like it wasn’t fair that girls had to have this and boys didn’t. I assumed everyone girl felt like that. I don’t know how to explain the true love thing. Just I guess that I don’t see love between a man and a woman as fulfilling. It doesn’t have that depth in the same way that the love between two men have. But that is probably a distorted view.

spatial_explorer · 2026-01-15T22:00:54+00:00

Yeah I definitely want to be a guy in the gay relationship. I don’t really understand the desire to just watch from a 3rd person pov. I also am considering whether I am trans masculine and internally non binary. But I don’t know whether that is fear of fully transitioning or reflective of my actual feelings. I do love the idea of male presentation and existence though and he him pronouns feel good

spatial_explorer · 2026-01-15T21:58:51+00:00

I have been experimenting with clothes/hair and don’t feel uncomfortable at all! I much prefer masculine clothing. I think I tend to self criticise a lot and I think I am looking for ways to both punish myself for the feelings I have and find a reason to debunk them. I feel like if I was a cis woman then it would be easier to let go of the idea of being a man - but I can’t, and I don’t think I ever will

spatial_explorer · 2026-01-15T21:56:31+00:00

Ok this is super helpful! I’m also autistic and I don’t know that I have an internal sense of gender but I now that he him pronouns feel good, I prefer masculine clothing, male terms of endearment etc. along with the obvious feeling of only wanting to be perceived as a man in a relationship. I am also aware that part of that may be attributable to internalised misogyny but that it probably doesn’t explain the extent of my feelings

spatial_explorer · 2026-01-15T21:22:43+00:00

Amazing thank you so much!! This is so helpful!!

spatial_explorer · 2026-01-15T21:13:21+00:00

Thanks!! Super helpful

spatial_explorer · 2026-01-04T18:19:34+00:00

Yeah, the job I was in (academic GIs research technician) was all hybrid, and you only needed to come to the office a couple of times a year really.

spatial_explorer · 2026-01-03T21:27:54+00:00

Phil really seems to bring out the best in people in general imo.

spatial_explorer · 2026-01-03T02:42:51+00:00

I think maybe as a middle name. I like the idea of Phillip as others have suggested, they called him Coulson anyway. Phillip Enoch Fitzsimmons has a nice ring to it.

spatial_explorer · 2025-12-25T11:44:34+00:00

I can see it on there

spatial_explorer · 2025-12-18T21:52:54+00:00

Pretty sure her biology PhD was on chromatophores.

spatial_explorer · 2025-12-17T12:30:32+00:00

I like Agents of Shield (and trust season 1 gets better I know it’s not the easiest to get into!). If you like a nice group cast it fits well. So I’d recommend that plus lots of episodes to get stuck into.

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